i was talking to someone about the 80/20 rule, and i told him it is mathematically impossible for there not to be incels due to this rule. he then told me that this is not true because men can use their confidence and game to get into the top 20% momentarily so we can get laid, since many pick up artists who are ugly have done this. i.e: men can take turns being in the top 20% so in theory all men can get a chance. unfortunately this still means it's impossible for men who want to have a long term relationship, since that would require men and women to pair off, which is impossible due to hypergamy. this theory therefore only works with hookups. unfortunately this would require men to get really good at confidence and game to make up for being unattractive.
