Do you want a bluepill platitude? dnr now its bullshit already but maybe you want a kek - we all read shit like that at some point


from quora
The easiest would be if you found a female that was also a nerd. like my husband did. Then you can talk as you think.
But there is a problem with relativ numbers of male and female nerds. For dealing with non-nerds, I start with an example. I talked with a nerdy man about his sex-life with a non-nerdy female. He wishes that she will be the mother of his children. I mean he is very sure of her. When she wants sex, she will not say or show that clearly to him, because she feels that would be inappropiate for a woman. Now suppose he would then think that it is his fault if he does not pick up her signals. He would feel very dumb. But there is no natural and common behaviour amongst woman to give some particular subtle signals. She was just oppressed by her parents and her culture. And she makes up her own subtle signals to get around that oppression. So he points out to her that she is oppressed and that it is still affecting her behaviour. And she agrees, but can not change it much. So she is grateful that he helps her. Non-nerds just learned that they are not allowed to think for themselves. That is why their behavior can be very inconsistent. For example, this woman did have sex before marriage with several man. She did not think that was inappropiate, as long as the men took the initativ. But she did not read anything about female sexuality, because that would be inappropiate. All this is inconsistent with the concept of inappropiate. As nerds we of course read about the relevant technical aspects of anything we want to do. The body is a biological machine, so it’s functioning is technical. Of course, this man new more about what gives her sexual pleasure than she did, or a non-nerdy man. And he knew that, so that made him confident. For myself, I often felt that if non-nerdy people knew how inconsistent I think they are, they would be angry. So I would hide that, but that made me feel like a liar. And that would make me feel shy. But this man showed me he feels that he is saving her from her oppression. So you do not have to feel like a liar when you hide that, because they can not take all at once. So knowing all this, you can just be your honest, open-minded nerdy self around non-nerds, just keep in mind that they have been oppressed mentally, so make it a project to learn what truth they can cope with and what not (yet)


