Discussion Is it normal that a lot of "men" these days don't really feel like adults?

[Deleted member 23656]

Back in the day when you were 20 you already had a full family, jobs to do, taxes to pay etc.

Yet me who are even 30 or older these days don't seem to behave or even think like adults. More likely to cry, act emotionally/hysterical, be obsessed with stupid shit, not be responsible etc

Like a 18 year old back then seems more mature than a guy in his 30s today.

 

[loserkarthusplayer]

yes I am not a man I can't even get a date and start a beautiful family I'm just a manchild hope I die

 

[NEETard]

Society has changed a lot tho. Girls dont wanna settle down early anymore when tinder exists. Moving out of your parents house is too expensive. Jobs are a loy harder to get with so much competition

 

[Personalityinkwell]

we're the lost boys

 

[Deleted member 22904]

yeah, probably because of no kids, family, friends and the whoremones in our food/water

 

[Joker]

yes I am not a man I can't even get a date and start a beautiful family I'm just a manchild hope I die

100% can relate

 

[Ghost]

Back in the day when you were 20 you already had a full family, jobs to do, taxes to pay etc.

Yet me who are even 30 or older these days don't seem to behave or even think like adults. More likely to cry, act emotionally/hysterical, be obsessed with stupid shit, not be responsible etc

Like a 18 year old back then seems more mature than a guy in his 30s today.

Also depends on the country. Poor kids born in 3rd world hellholes as early as age 5 start to think like a 30 year old.

If their parents were at least decent, the kid's sole purpose in life is to raise their family out of poverty even if it means jumping through hoops of fire and swimming across the pacific ocean. Even if it means sacrificing their own life and health.

Meanwhile in the west, kids are spoiled rotten ungrateful brats who think you owe them everything and would give two shits about their parents ldaring in a nursing home.

Doesn't matter if parents had to work two jobs, wipe kids ass, etc... Parents are worthless to them and not appreciated especially for the foids who are brainwashed by the schools to think all men are bad.

 

[Deleted member 23656]

Also depends on the country. Poor kids born in 3rd world hellholes as early as age 5 start to think like a 30 year old.

If their parents were at least decent, the kid's sole purpose in life is to raise their family out of poverty even if it means jumping through hoops of fire and swimming across the pacific ocean. Even if it means sacrificing their own life and health.

Meanwhile in the west, kids are spoiled rotten ungrateful brats who think you owe them everything and would give two shits about their parents ldaring in a nursing home.

Doesn't matter if parents had to work two jobs, wipe kids ass, etc... Parents are worthless to them and not appreciated especially for the foids who are brainwashed by the schools to think all men are bad.

Yeah. Not just the west but pretty much any developed place. Thats why japan has so many manchildren

 

[guaucel]

But whores think they are full grown adults, while they behave like young chimps.

 

[zangano1]

We live in the manchild era, I blame netflix, marvel and nintendo

 

[TheGambler2]

a combination of lower testosterone and lack of life experiences caused this.people used to send their children to work,children would form relationships early,also men would get drafted to serve the army for a few years.all of these experiences and responsibilities would mature a person early

 

[Deleted member 24293]

Literally nothing changed in my life since I was 16 years old.

 

[DarwinsDisgrace]

Society has changed a lot tho. Girls dont wanna settle down early anymore when tinder exists. Moving out of your parents house is too expensive. Jobs are a loy harder to get with so much competition

I'd also add that every woman works now, their financial independence means they are less likely to settle.

 

[ihaveno1]

thanks feminism..

 

[Deleted member 14577]

no, but it is what it is

 

[beta_max]

We live in the manchild era, I blame netflix, marvel and nintendo

 

[Dregster]

Society has changed a lot tho. Girls dont wanna settle down early anymore when tinder exists. Moving out of your parents house is too expensive. Jobs are a loy harder to get with so much competition

I'd also add that every woman works now, their financial independence means they are less likely to settle.

This too

 

[mylifeistrash]

Back in the day when you were 20 you already had a full family, jobs to do, taxes to pay etc.

Yet me who are even 30 or older these days don't seem to behave or even think like adults. More likely to cry, act emotionally/hysterical, be obsessed with stupid shit, not be responsible etc

Like a 18 year old back then seems more mature than a guy in his 30s today.

Seems like the opposite

most men have a shitty life starting at age 18, have to work and it's only downhill from there

 

[FlyFace]

we're the lost boys

We are bowling alone.

yeah, probably because of no kids, family, friends and the whoremones in our food/water

Birth Control should be banned.

 

[Sad_Eunuch]

38 years old here and still feel and think the same as I did when I was 16. Not much has changed since then which is probably why I don't have that adult feeling.

 

[Deleted member 818]

we're the lost boys

 

[Deleted member 24166]

It is a natural symptom of the emasculation of society. Men are being constantly bashed by the feminist establishment, and the average testosterone levels are also in a decreasing spiral.

More men are also missing out on crucial steps into entering manhood, such as losing your virginity, moving away from your parents, being self-sustainable and getting a driver licence (which especially @LastGerman can relate to).

 

[LastGerman]

and the average testosterone levels are also in a decreasing spiral.

Which is even confirmed officially, yet nothing happens at all.

More men are also missing out on crucial steps into entering manhood, such as losing your virginity, moving away from your parents, being self-sustainable and getting a driver licence (which especially @LastGerman can relate to).

I really do can relate to it. Missing out on just everything will just destroy you.

 

[Lookscel]

Society has changed a lot tho. Girls dont wanna settle down early anymore when tinder exists. Moving out of your parents house is too expensive. Jobs are a loy harder to get with so much competition

Imagine what will happen when automation begins.