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Is it loneliness itself that bothers us?

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From the perspective of a male it may oddly be more embarrassing to say "I'm lonely" than it is to say "I'm incel."

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Lack of holes to pump is what bothers us
 
Loneliness has already destroyed me and now I feel nothing. It is my default state
 
being at the bottom of soyciety is painful
 
Yes, it might be a possibility. Since 1 month i´ve been hanging out with a group of older friends (i´m in my early 20s, they´re in their 40s mid 30s) and I don´t feel bad about myself anymore. Don´t get me wrong, i´m still blackpilled, but I just don´t think about my sexual frustration that often anymore. Furthermore, I still think the issue is not sexlesness but rather sexual compulsion and the prescriptive system that derives from it (which turns the sexless into abnormal nd the sex-havers into normals, which is the origin of incel discontent)
 
Yes, it might be a possibility. Since 1 month i´ve been hanging out with a group of older friends (i´m in my early 20s, they´re in their 40s mid 30s) and I don´t feel bad about myself anymore. Don´t get me wrong, i´m still blackpilled, but I just don´t think about my sexual frustration that often anymore. Furthermore, I still think the issue is not sexlesness but rather sexual compulsion and the prescriptive system that derives from it (which turns the sexless into abnormal nd the sex-havers into normals, which is the origin of incel discontent)

I don't agree with that.

From a liberal point of view it is good and necessary that female erotic capital be equitably distributed among heterosexual men for the purpose of maximizing human happiness.
 
From a liberal point of view it is good and necessary that female erotic capital be equitably distributed among heterosexual men for the purpose of maximizing human happiness.

This utilitarian socialism seems rather perverse since you´re still identifying human happiness with having sex, which is simply not true and serves as a destructive social ideology.
 
This utilitarian socialism seems rather perverse since you´re still identifying human happiness with having sex, which is simply not true and serves as a destructive social ideology.

Yes because sex (and female companionship) is a need.
 
Yes because sex (and female companionship) is a need.
True.
IS Maslow
 
False.

You can live without sex.

you can also "live" in solitary confinement.

The chickens raised in cages -- before they are killed anyway -- are "living" aren't they?

Idiot.
 
From the perspective of a male it may oddly be more embarrassing to say "I'm lonely" than it is to say "I'm incel."

edit: fixed typo
No i dont care about being alone, Im bothered by the unfairness in how easy foids give up their hole when you're good looking enough for them :feelsUgh:
 
For me it is not loneliness. I never get lonely. I don't get all the posts about wanting a gf to cuddle with etc. I want sex, and I feel humiliated that I can't get it. But if I were able, I think I would still find all the cuddling and being romantic annoying. I am the same generally, I can be by myself for a long, long time before I have any urge to speak to anyone, and when that happens, its boredom that draws me out, not loneliness.

I also want a child, and feel like if I'm never able to do that I'm just a biological failure. I would be quite happy if I were able to have a kid and then was dumped and lived the rest of my life alone. I could have fulfillment from a kid in my life but not have to put effort into a relationship with some dumb foid. I could escortmax to relieve myself. Honestly that would be perfect.

Even before I knew I was incel I thought those couples were strange who decided not to have kids or stayed together when they couldn't. Since "companionship" is not something I need, having a foid around without her giving me a kid would be pointless
 
you can also "live" in solitary confinement.

The chickens raised in cages -- before they are killed anyway -- are "living" aren't they?

Idiot.
you don´t even understand what i´m trying to say: how can you explain medieval convents?
 
From the perspective of a male it may oddly be more embarrassing to say "I'm lonely" than it is to say "I'm incel."
yes, it's the main thing that bothers me. saying you're "lonely" is short for so many embarrassing things.
 

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