Serious Is it in our best interest to try Tinder at least once? Or is it better to lie to ourselves that we have a chance?

[Potbellypos]

I'm 28 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never asked a girl out because I'm ugly as fuck and afraid of rejection. I also didn't have a job until I was 25, so I always made up one excuse or another, like, "Why would a girl date a jobless bum?" Now that I have a job, I'm afraid if I try Tinder and fail, I will actually want to kill myself. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately since I started reading this website a few months back. My mental state has been deteriorating more and more because I can't ignore the truth when you guys shove all the blackpills down my throat. My standards are probably too high for what I can attain, I'm not going to date an ugly fat bitch that betabuxs me. I attempted suicide a couple times when I was a teenager, so I'm obviously not very mentally stable and I've suffered from depression on and off my entire life. On the one hand, you guys area always saying people are fakecels if they don't put forth any effort, but on the other hand I feel like I won't be able to handle this life anymore once that last illusion gets torn down. I'm clinging onto that faint glimmer of hope, "Maybe I could get a girlfriend if I really tried..."

 

[Zaetheus]

Fuck tinder bro

 

[Deleted member 14490]

No bro I agree with you. I've never tried either because I already know what the result would be.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

You can try to see how bad it is, but don't do it like me and give then money, it's one of the worst regrets I have in my life you don't want to feel that cucked

 

[IncelSuperSaiyan]

I bet half the Cels here could ascend if they were willing to fuck fat black landwhales and maybe Land Whales in General.

 

[Deleted member 10234]

Don't try tinder. Even above average guys cant get dates on there. Its only purpose is for women to fuck high tier Chads.

 

[IncelSuperSaiyan]

You could make a profile pose as a hot foid and take out all the Chads. Thereby giving us a chance!

Instead of going Elliot Rodger, incels should take out the Chads. If every desperate incel took out a Chad...there would be no Chads left in this World!

 

[Skindiana Bones]

Trying it once will just make you want to rope more. Avoid at all costs

 

[Brahcel]

Fuck tinder. I wasted months of my life on that for hours with trash results

 

[Luxity]

No. You will not get the validation you desire.

 

[uninstall]

IF YOU DON'T GET 10 MATCHES IN A FEW DAYS, TINDER WILL NOT WORK FOR YOU.

SO REALISTICALLY, YOU NEED ONLY 1 WEEK TO KNOW IF TINDER IS EVER GOING TO WORK OR NOT AT YOUR LOCATION.

OFC, DON'T PAY.

MY CHAD FISH HAS 45+ LIKES AND I MADE THE ACCOUNT LESS THAN 10 HOURS AGO.

 

[CompleteFuckingLoser]

Spoof into SEA. If you do it normally you'll probably kill yourself, no joke.,

 

[thePhantom]

It's the ultimate, interactive blackpill. So you should try it once (and then quit). But know that even most normies fail there, so don't take it personal. Failing on Tinder won't even prove that you are incel-tier, but will tell you how fucked up the system is.

 

[IncelSuperSaiyan]

What is a Chad Fish>? LOL you made an account?

 

[leftyincel]

get someone to take photos of you outdoors with nice clothes preferably with a dog and a couple photos doing something social, upload them to photofeeler.com, get a photo over 70% attractiveness rating (they can range from 3% to 90% based on the pic of the same person, people are supposed to rate photo quality, not hotness), upload at least 3 to tinder, buy tinder gold for a year. login once every few weeks to swipe on your tinder gold cue. Only hit up women who have messaged you first, because if she messages you first out of the hundreds in her cue, she's basically already DTF.

alternatively if you have abs, just take a shirtless selfie

 

[AlwaysLawRoute]

Do it,and find out what kind of terrible creatures lurk in there.

Also you better have a Facebook or IG account because I guarantee you they will ask you for yours.

 

[Rotting since 09]

Oh you can try it, but then end up 100 times more depressed when you wake up to zero notifications from it and keep hungrily checking it several times a day only to see zero matches. "fuck bro i thought that 4/10 would have at least matched me". It will just lower your self esteem and mental health even more. Social media (including Tinder) is brutal for incels imo and i wouldn't recommend any of it. Social media is like a perpetual high for normies but has all the ugly side effects of a crack addiction to incels.

 

[Battlefield3cel]

Yeah dude. Just know what you're in for

 

[Getlooksordie]

even my Nick Bateman profile only gets 10-15 matches and struggles to get dates with above average girls.

It still blows my mind that on average ~40 of the women I swipe think Nick Bateman is beneath them and too ugly to date.

Even if I was Nick Bateman I could only get the occasional fattie/uggo from Tinder and I still have to "game" them.

JFL at womens standards nowadays when one of the 10 best looking men on the planet still isn´t good enough in the eyes of a mid 30s fattie single mom.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I'm 28 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never asked a girl out because I'm ugly as fuck and afraid of rejection. I also didn't have a job until I was 25, so I always made up one excuse or another, like, "Why would a girl date a jobless bum?" Now that I have a job, I'm afraid if I try Tinder and fail, I will actually want to kill myself. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately since I started reading this website a few months back. My mental state has been deteriorating more and more because I can't ignore the truth when you guys shove all the blackpills down my throat. My standards are probably too high for what I can attain, I'm not going to date an ugly fat bitch that betabuxs me. I attempted suicide a couple times when I was a teenager, so I'm obviously not very mentally stable and I've suffered from depression on and off my entire life. On the one hand, you guys area always saying people are fakecels if they don't put forth any effort, but on the other hand I feel like I won't be able to handle this life anymore once that last illusion gets torn down. I'm clinging onto that faint glimmer of hope, "Maybe I could get a girlfriend if I really tried..."

Try it and embrace the potential failure, tbh the worst feeling for me is thinking that I could maybe get a gf if I tried harder, that all this time I could have had a great life. It's better to have tried everything(realistically) and then just accept that the universe is absurd and there was nothing you could do, it's liberating.

 

[grayjedi90]

I bet half the Cels here could ascend if they were willing to fuck fat black landwhales and maybe Land Whales in General.

I wouldn't call it ascending when you fuck fat landwhales that you don't love and who are way below your lookslevel

 

[11gaijin]

even my Nick Bateman profile only gets 10-15 matches and struggles to get dates with above average girls.

It still blows my mind that on average ~40 of the women I swipe think Nick Bateman is beneath them and too ugly to date.

Even if I was Nick Bateman I could only get the occasional fattie/uggo from Tinder and I still have to "game" them.

JFL at womens standards nowadays when one of the 10 best looking men on the planet still isn´t good enough in the eyes of a mid 30s fattie single mom.

Its over for NickBatemancels

I wouldn't call it ascending when you fuck fat landwhales that you don't love and who are way below your lookslevel

tbh

 

[Insomniac]

Don’t use tinder. The girls on there have ridiculously high standards.

I made a Chad profile and got rejected by 5/10 girls quite a lot.

 

[ShadowMonk]

IF YOU DON'T GET 10 MATCHES IN A FEW DAYS, TINDER WILL NOT WORK FOR YOU.

This more or less. But seriously: Try everything. Don't believe people until you experience it first hand. There is no reason to LDAR until you are completely sure nothing can be done. And if you find something that can be done you have your cope.

 

[Lord Byron]

I'm 28 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never asked a girl out because I'm ugly as fuck and afraid of rejection. I also didn't have a job until I was 25, so I always made up one excuse or another, like, "Why would a girl date a jobless bum?" Now that I have a job, I'm afraid if I try Tinder and fail, I will actually want to kill myself. I have been feeling pretty depressed lately since I started reading this website a few months back. My mental state has been deteriorating more and more because I can't ignore the truth when you guys shove all the blackpills down my throat. My standards are probably too high for what I can attain, I'm not going to date an ugly fat bitch that betabuxs me. I attempted suicide a couple times when I was a teenager, so I'm obviously not very mentally stable and I've suffered from depression on and off my entire life. On the one hand, you guys area always saying people are fakecels if they don't put forth any effort, but on the other hand I feel like I won't be able to handle this life anymore once that last illusion gets torn down. I'm clinging onto that faint glimmer of hope, "Maybe I could get a girlfriend if I really tried..."

Tinder is not the way. It is a service that caters to the worst nature of foids and is a soul crushing experience for everyone but Chad.

If you are suicidal and this place is making you worse, you should leave it.

I often wonder if ascending will kill me. That after I actually have sex it will be such an underwhelming experience it will reveal that it was never anything more than a cope.

I don’t know what is right for you. But I would encourage you to never stop trying to escape your situation.

 

[Bronzehawkattack]

I wish I could take back having tried online dating, it's not worth it. At least when you only ask out foids and get rejected IRL you can cope by saying it's only the seven or eight femoids who rejected you, it's not as though youve asked out everyone, so maybe theres a chance?

With online dating you're not allowed that cope, you're cursed with the knowledge that literally thousands of foids in your area saw your profile and LITERALLY not a single one even gave you a chance. And it doesnt stop there, you can set your profile up in other parts of the world too just to experiment, and at that point it's not just thousands of foids from your area, but hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions if your profile was up in enough places long enough, of foids who all saw your profile and wouldnt give you a chance.

Thats when the loneliness and despair truly sinks in, when you know that there is literally not a single femoid on this planet even willing to hear you out as a potential partner, due to your extreme ugliness.

Unless you think you're good looking, DO NOT use online dating. Save yourself from likely depression.