Experiment Is it even normal and "fashionable" anymore to get laid as 20-30 year old male?

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I'm talking about this age segment specifically.
It seems like everywhere I turn I see guys that are either highschool zoomers clinging to their JBF/classmate GF, older dejected betabucks with more or less attractive golddiggers, or 20-30 year old guys who are desperately FORCING the problem of getting laid by dating older women or single moms.

Any dude who is slightly awkward or ugly, and doesn't outright FORCE the issue to solve it, is sitting perfectly alone and doesn't even appear to detect that there's anything wrong.
I'm talking dudes who live at home, work a high-paying job, eat their mom's cooking, play video games, and never even think about getting a GF. And they've been doing this until they're 31 without batting an eye or bringing up women and sex in any context whatsoever.

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[Deleted member 7448]

I really don't know man, I'm totally divorced from reality. I have no idea what people do, I'm basically a robot locked going between wageslaving and being locked up in my room.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I really don't know man, I'm totally divorced from reality. I have no idea what people do, I'm basically a robot locked going between wageslaving and being locked up in my room.

Aren't there any guys at your workplace? It's usually pretty obvious if they are dating or married because they always bring it up.

I'm not connected either but I know that all my workplace or internet acquaintances are either dating older women, dating single moms or sitting alone completely unaware that women exist.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Aren't there any guys at your workplace? It's usually pretty obvious if they are dating or married because they always bring it up.

I'm not connected either but I know that all my workplace or internet acquaintances are either dating older women, dating single moms or sitting alone completely unaware that women exist.

Yeah, there are guys, but I only really talk to people about work-related stuff. It's been like this since kindergarten, I don't really talk to people unless its necessary.

 

[Angry_runt]

I don't try to hook up with foids any more for the same reason I don't play basketball: I don't have the prerequisites for it to be enjoyable and worthwhile.

Although I'd recommend getting away from your parents as soon as possible, even more so if you have a great relationship with them. You don't want to be prolonging your childhood, it'll fuck you up regardless of whether you're an incel or not.

 

[Insomniac]

I really don't know man, I'm totally divorced from reality. I have no idea what people do

 

[RollD20]

No clue, all the people I know have had Ex's I am the only one that is a KHHV from the people I know.... don't know if they are virgin though.

I really don't know man, I'm totally divorced from reality. I have no idea what people do, I'm basically a robot locked going between wageslaving and being locked up in my room.

This.....

 

[ihaveno1]

I have no idea what people do

 

[Braincel14w]

I really don't know man, I'm totally divorced from reality. I have no idea what people do, I'm basically a robot locked going between wageslaving and being locked up in my room.

You don't want to know what people do man it's so alien to our comprehension.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I don't try to hook up with foids any more for the same reason I don't play basketball: I don't have the prerequisites for it to be enjoyable and worthwhile.

Although I'd recommend getting away from your parents as soon as possible, even more so if you have a great relationship with them. You don't want to be prolonging your childhood, it'll fuck you up regardless of whether you're an incel or not.

Yeah, you nearly always want to get away from them, not just to build your independence but also because they tend to leech money and time from you while giving nothing back.
They can't introduce you to anyone and they don't do anything interesting at all, while you're bleeding out all your youth being a faggot that entertains other people and then goes home to jerk off. You need all the time you can get to improve yourself instead of jerking yourself around for other people's benefit.

No clue, all the people I have have had Ex's I am the only one that is a KHHV from the people I know.... don't know if they are virgin though.

This.....

I bet you'd be surprised to find out how many of them are dating older women or otherwise trying to hack their way into a date somehow

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

I'm talking about this age segment specifically.
It seems like everywhere I turn I see guys that are either highschool zoomers clinging to their JBF/classmate GF, older dejected betabucks with more or less attractive golddiggers, or 20-30 year old guys who are desperately FORCING the problem of getting laid by dating older women or single moms.

Any dude who is slightly awkward or ugly, and doesn't outright FORCE the issue to solve it, is sitting perfectly alone and doesn't even appear to detect that there's anything wrong.
I'm talking dudes who live at home, work a high-paying job, eat their mom's cooking, play video games, and never even think about getting a GF. And they've been doing this until they're 31 without batting an eye or bringing up women and sex in any context whatsoever.

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I was like this until last year when at 28 I realised what I'd missed out on. Not by choice, but circumstances. I realised I was missing out at the time, but didn't know what to do about it, I didn't realise one could blatantly approach a foid based on her looks. If I knew I would have been hustling since 16.

I have a younger brother who is 18 and does exactly as you describe. Women don't even seem to be on his radar. It's odd.

At Boxcelling the single guys generally have no access or idea about women at all. I think it's becoming a western cultural phenomenon.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I was like this until last year when at 28 I realised what I'd missed out on. Not by choice, but circumstances. I realised I was missing out at the time, but didn't know what to do about it, I didn't realise one could blatantly approach a foid based on her looks. If I knew I would have been hustling since 16.

I have a younger brother who is 18 and does exactly as you describe. Women don't even seem to be on his radar. It's odd.

At Boxcelling the single guys generally have no access or idea about women at all. I think it's becoming a western cultural phenomenon.

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
The guys that try to "break out" like us are very rare, most guys seem to accept their role, and don't try to force things with cold approaches or complain or do anything, they just go through life like asexual worker bees.

 

[Michael15651]

No, at that point it’s something that’s expected.

 

[StaroRavager]

It’s not fashionable, just expected in many circles

 

[mylifeistrash]

I'm talking about this age segment specifically.
It seems like everywhere I turn I see guys that are either highschool zoomers clinging to their JBF/classmate GF, older dejected betabucks with more or less attractive golddiggers, or 20-30 year old guys who are desperately FORCING the problem of getting laid by dating older women or single moms.

Any dude who is slightly awkward or ugly, and doesn't outright FORCE the issue to solve it, is sitting perfectly alone and doesn't even appear to detect that there's anything wrong.
I'm talking dudes who live at home, work a high-paying job, eat their mom's cooking, play video games, and never even think about getting a GF. And they've been doing this until they're 31 without batting an eye or bringing up women and sex in any context whatsoever.

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My social contact with chad-lite kind of dudes is playing basketball. You see guys who are married, are tall, full heads of hair, just getting verbally shit on by aloof wives if the women come with the guy to the gym (usually bringing his son to play in one of the courts).

tldr; I see former athletes who look good in their mid to late 20s and none have ever brought a hot girl around or even a girl who seems to be nice to them.

Maybe guys who can fuck hot girls don't bother with playing sports for fun, who knows. Maybe guys who get laid don't go out in public since all interactions can be arranged via smartphone.

 

[Deleted member 6753]

uh, yes. there is a subreddit devoted to making fun of us because we cant get laid.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
The guys that try to "break out" like us are very rare, most guys seem to accept their role, and don't try to force things with cold approaches or complain or do anything, they just go through life like asexual worker bees.

Yeah. And it's weird, in my brother's case, he is kind handsome and high T (goatee at 18), yet he seemingly has no interest or interaction with foids and he's not desperate yet enough to force the issue.

I know at 18 I would have found the idea of approaching to be really cringeworthy and rapey and if you've got no way to meet foids and you don't want to do something that seems desperate then you simply don't meet foids.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

uh, yes. there is a subreddit devoted to making fun of us because we cant get laid.

yes, and by and large they are all whores or cucks.

My social contact with chad-lite kind of dudes is playing basketball. You see guys who are married, are tall, full heads of hair, just getting verbally shit on by aloof wives if the women come with the guy to the gym (usually bringing his son to play in one of the courts).

tldr; I see former athletes who look good in their mid to late 20s and none have ever brought a hot girl around or even a girl who seems to be nice to them.

Maybe guys who can fuck hot girls don't bother with playing sports for fun, who knows. Maybe guys who get laid don't go out in public since all interactions can be arranged via smartphone.

it feels like the shitty theory I'm trying to sell here is true, that it's not really fashionable anymore for dudes in the 20-30 age range to get laid and have a hot babe by their side.
once they've lost their free JBF middleschoo/highschool gf, and are still too poor to be a sugardaddy, they are in a world of shit, and if they want sex or companionship they have to go against the grain, and become some fucking PUA weirdo or granny-chaser.
my twenties went by in the blink of an eye with zero action, and at no point did it feel "weird" or "off" from the outside looking in.

 

[mylifeistrash]

yes, and by and large they are all whores or cucks.



it feels like the shitty theory I'm trying to sell here is true, that it's not really fashionable anymore for dudes in the 20-30 age range to get laid and have a hot babe by their side.
once they've lost their free JBF middleschoo/highschool gf, and are still too poor to be a sugardaddy, they are in a world of shit, and if they want sex or companionship they have to go against the grain, and become some fucking PUA weirdo or granny-chaser.
my twenties went by in the blink of an eye with zero action, and at no point did it feel "weird" or "off" from the outside looking in.

I remember up until 2008, everyone had GFs.

Yeah, what you said seems right in 2019.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Guys are still dating, getting laid, but it’s significantly tougher. Cuck therapists will say that the rise of apathetic male virgins is due to porn and video games but somehow social media and Le Tinder along with Bumble, etc. had no part?

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Guys are still dating, getting laid, but it’s significantly tougher. Cuck therapists will say that the rise of apathetic male virgins is due to porn and video games but somehow social media and Le Tinder along with Bumble, etc. had no part?

Wherever I look I see guys in this age range 'going against the grain', always giving something up and biting their tongue just for the privilege of having a date, like they are not supposed to get one.

As for therapists and pundits they are scrambling all over the place in trying to stay on top and lionize progressivism no matter which way the cookie crumbles: HURR DURR there's nothing wrong and if there is something wrong it's actually all good, and if it's not actually good well there's nothing you can do so deal with it and date grannies, Nazi... THANKS FOR THE GOLD KIND STRANGER.
https://incels.is/threads/society-y...t-stacy-instead-of-becky.116545/#post-2373761

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

From what I've observed, normies fight tooth and nail just to keep the foids that they can get. They seem to know the blackpill exists, yet refuse to acknowledge it and end up being cucked and forgive foids for being crazy.

Chad does the opposite where he abuses the foid, and she doesn't want to leave him.

Most people don't really talk about sex and relationships at work since this isn't high school so I have no idea about how many people they've had sex with, but I assume it's small of you're not a slayer.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Most people don't really talk about sex and relationships at work since this isn't high school so I have no idea about how many people they've had sex with, but I assume it's small of you're not a slayer.

Do you work in IT or something? I heard people talk about sex on occasion at my job and anecdotally from others who’ve heard co-workers talk about sex or discussed it themselves. Hell, earlier today, I was at the doctor’s and heard two workers talking about how one of their friends was a player and knocked up a woman after one go-round. The NSFW stuff was probably what they were talking about en Espanol.

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

Do you work in IT or something? I heard people talk about sex on occasion at my job and anecdotally from others who’ve heard co-workers talk about sex or discussed it themselves. Hell, earlier today, I was at the doctor’s and heard two workers talking about how one of their friends was a player and knocked up a woman after one go-round. The NSFW stuff was probably what they were talking about en Espanol.

I'm in STEM. Plenty of men and women around, but no talk about sex. Not even with the youth. Most people just talk about their families, kids, movies, or work related things.
There has been some gossip about some affairs going on between some people in the past, but that's rare. Haven't heard that for years.

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

No bro you need to get laid before 20 preferably in high school tbh

 

[Atavistic Autist]

No bro you need to get laid before 20 preferably in high school tbh

During my freshman year of high school, I remember seeing the "tfw no gf" meme on 4chad, but I distinctly did not know that feel; that is, I had no idea why having a gf was important.

Now I'm 21. Everything hurts and I'm dying.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I'm in STEM. Plenty of men and women around, but no talk about sex. Not even with the youth. Most people just talk about their families, kids, movies, or work related things.
There has been some gossip about some affairs going on between some people in the past, but that's rare. Haven't heard that for years.

Sounds like an atypical workplace for sure, almost frozen in time, lucky.