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The part about motor transportation is especially spot on. Few realize how before the advent of the train and then the automobile, humans were completely defined and bound by their immediate geography - - you were born, lived and died in one place. Kinda like plants. There were very few exceptions to this rule, and you found them in the higher classes mostly. There was no question of dating someone who lived a hundred miles away - - it was theoretically possible via horse travel, but too inconvenient. This severely restricted the possibility of female hypergamy.
This aligns with something else I've read recently on a blog: before the revolution brought by modernity, everyone was "master of something" among his circle of acquaintances. In every little village you had someone who was the best at cobbling shoes, at masonry, at writing, etc. Now, there is this overwhelming feeling that whatever you're doing, somebody somewhere is doing it better than you and will also steal your looksmatch - - this has participated in reducing further the already fragile self-esteem of men in modernity.
For one inceldom is not a psychological problem because incels are not inherently mentally ill or suffer from trauma.
Inceldom is largely based on modern inventions like contraception, motor transportation and telecommunications. In fact inceldom is largely based on internet and mobile phones both only becoming common in the late 90's.
The part about motor transportation is especially spot on. Few realize how before the advent of the train and then the automobile, humans were completely defined and bound by their immediate geography - - you were born, lived and died in one place. Kinda like plants. There were very few exceptions to this rule, and you found them in the higher classes mostly. There was no question of dating someone who lived a hundred miles away - - it was theoretically possible via horse travel, but too inconvenient. This severely restricted the possibility of female hypergamy.
This aligns with something else I've read recently on a blog: before the revolution brought by modernity, everyone was "master of something" among his circle of acquaintances. In every little village you had someone who was the best at cobbling shoes, at masonry, at writing, etc. Now, there is this overwhelming feeling that whatever you're doing, somebody somewhere is doing it better than you and will also steal your looksmatch - - this has participated in reducing further the already fragile self-esteem of men in modernity.
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