Is going to the pub alone a bad move as a sub 5?

[trrrrrsarescary]

It's something Im thinking about doing when I get bored and lonely, just going to the local pub by myself to have a couple pints, my small town alone has like 8 them so I'm spoilt for choice, the only problem is I seem to be ugly in a way that actively sticks out rather than just being invisible, I get stared at and get looks of fear/disgust pretty frequently on any given outing, and then there's the fact that I'm autistic and have noticeable tourettes too, so combine that with my already atypical face and it all mixes into me being a very fucking strange presence indeed

What would happen if I started going pubs by myself regularly? If I make to the winter without roping which I most likely won't, this might be one of the things that could make it more bearable, it's the only place in the winter I can think of besides the gym where I can see hot foids dressed in revealing clothing

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Terrible move I would say.

 

[imlame]

Just dont do it matey

 

[SociallyStunted]

if it helps you cope than I dont see a problem with it

 

[pumpkinlord130]

Probably. If girls don't approach you don't make a move on them. Only the retards at reddit think otherwise; you're gonna get a ass kicking if you do that irl.

 

[trrrrrsarescary]

Terrible move I would say.

Man wtf do I do, I have this weird thing where I fucking loathe human beings for the way they treat me just for being different, yet I still enjoy being around them at the gym and the pub and whatever even if I just sit in the corner not interacting with anyone, I guess you just can't escape that biological need to feel like being part of something even if you aren't

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Man wtf do I do, I have this weird thing where I fucking loathe human beings for the way they treat me just for being different, yet I still enjoy being around them at the gym and the pub and whatever even if I just sit in the corner not interacting with anyone, I guess you just can't escape that biological need to feel like being part of something even if you aren't

Yes, we can't, everyone hates ugly people unfortunately.

 

[Pancakecel]

I used to do that, and I got ignored, or some gave me the usual glare, like they've seen a ghost, type reaction.

Nobody ever tried to talk to me, and the few times I tried to be sociable the people were not interested.

As someone who gets similar reactions from normfags as you do, I wouldn't bother with it. You'll just feel more lonely.

I get why you're asking though, the desperation of wanting to just talk and find connection with people.

I'm in the same boat, the loneliness is crippling, but people have made it clear they don't want to get to know me.

What can we do, I really dont know.

 

[trrrrrsarescary]

I used to do that, and I got ignored, or some gave me the usual glare, like they've seen a ghost, type reaction.

Nobody ever tried to talk to me, and the few times I tried to be sociable the people were not interested.

As someone who gets similar reactions from normfags as you do, I wouldn't bother with it. You'll just feel more lonely.

I get why you're asking though, the desperation of wanting to just talk and find connection with people.

I'm in the same boat, the loneliness is crippling, but people have made it clear they don't want to get to know me.

What can we do, I really dont know.

All I know is that I'm not making it to winter, fuck that shit, winter in the UK is death tier depressing

 

[Xul]

Yes but pretty much everything is

 

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It's something Im thinking about doing when I get bored and lonely, just going to the local pub by myself to have a couple pints, my small town alone has like 8 them so I'm spoilt for choice, the only problem is I seem to be ugly in a way that actively sticks out rather than just being invisible, I get stared at and get looks of fear/disgust pretty frequently on any given outing, and then there's the fact that I'm autistic and have noticeable tourettes too, so combine that with my already atypical face and it all mixes into me being a very fucking strange presence indeed

What would happen if I started going pubs by myself regularly? If I make to the winter without roping which I most likely won't, this might be one of the things that could make it more bearable, it's the only place in the winter I can think of besides the gym where I can see hot foids dressed in revealing clothing

I used to do this and it never led to anything good.

Word advice, ONLY go if there's something on the TV like UFC or goyball. Otherwise you're going to feel very weird very fast. If you're watching goyball no one will question it. If you're lurking by yourself looking at people someone will get butthurt probably.

 

[INVERTER]

I used to do that, and I got ignored, or some gave me the usual glare, like they've seen a ghost, type reaction.

Nobody ever tried to talk to me, and the few times I tried to be sociable the people were not interested.

As someone who gets similar reactions from normfags as you do, I wouldn't bother with it. You'll just feel more lonely.

I get why you're asking though, the desperation of wanting to just talk and find connection with people.

I'm in the same boat, the loneliness is crippling, but people have made it clear they don't want to get to know me.

What can we do, I really dont know.

I used to see a surprising amount of solo guys going to bars when I used to go out.

One guy I saw at bars practically every week - incel tier and danced by himself a lot. People just kind of treated him like the village idiot.

Usually the bartenders would ignore me when it got crowded because I am also incel tier with negative rizz . When no one was there it was super awkward. Sometimes I'd have a good convo (usually with older people). Sometimes people would get antagonistic or I'd be asked to leave. The women were usually really rude.

That being said, I do like to people watch and live vicariously through others. I just wish I could be invisible while doing it instead of having normfags acting like I am disturbing their peace by existing.

 

[trrrrrsarescary]

I used to see a surprising amount of solo guys going to bars when I used to go out.

One guy I saw at bars practically every week - incel tier and danced by himself a lot. People just kind of treated him like the village idiot.

Usually the bartenders would ignore me because I am also incel tier with negative rizz when it got crowded. When no one was there it was super awkward. Sometimes I'd have a good convo (usually with older people). Sometimes people would get antagonistic or I'd be asked to leave. The women were usually really rude.

That being said, I do like to people watch and live vicariously through others. I just wish I could be invisible while doing it instead of having normfags acting like I am disturbing their peace by existing.

Wtf why did you get asked to leave? Was it literally just your presence making people uncomfortable?

 

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Wtf why did you get asked to leave? Was it literally just your presence making people uncomfortable?

I was pretty drunk and walked up to this woman who I thought was waving me over. After talking for 5 minutes she said she was going outside and I said I would follow her (meaning also go outside, not follow her home). When I get outside I start mingling with other people (not her) and a few moments later the bartender said I had to leave because I said I was going to follow someone.

Another time some guy got pissed because I said something about the ukraine war and told me to GTFO. He didn't work there though.

 

[Pancakecel]

All I know is that I'm not making it to winter, fuck that shit, winter in the UK is death tier depressing

Interesting, for me it's the opposite. I find spring and summer depressing. Winter I enjoy.

 

[trrrrrsarescary]

I was pretty drunk and walked up to this woman who I thought was waving me over. After talking for 5 minutes she said she was going outside and I said I would follow her (meaning also go outside, not follow her home). When I get outside I start mingling with other people (not her) and a few moments later the bartender said I had to leave because I said I was going to follow someone.

Another time some guy got pissed because I said something about the ukraine war and told me to GTFO. He didn't work there though.

Mogs me for being able to successfully mingle with other people without instantly getting this look with silence

 

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Mogs me for being able to successfully mingle with other people without instantly getting this look with silence

By mingling I mostly mean standing in a circle with people who were already talking