is getting revenge worth it?

[incel_maxxed]

If someone close to you did you wrong in some way that had a big effect on you, would you risk legal or non legal repercussions to get back at them? Nothing violent but perhaps something that would cause them a financial setback? I'm very high inhib and let these thoughts of revenge brew for years after something has happened. I think I'd feel a lot better for taking action against someone whose done me wrong but I also don't want to create even bigger problems, but this makes me feel like a beta cuck. Hi to the the FBI who read this

 

[AbsolutelyBrutal]

I've never gotten revenge, but I'd do it if someone had destroyed my life. I hold grudges even for petty things so you can imagine.
I expect vengeance to give satisfaction for a brief moment, and might give you long term if you fucked him up reaal good unless that vengeance fucks you even worse.

 

[Deleted member 27249]

Getting revenge is not only worth, but an important character trait and a way to set boundaries and limits

 

[incel_maxxed]

I've never gotten revenge, but I'd do it if someone had destroyed my life. I hold grudges even for petty things so you can imagine.
I expect vengeance to give satisfaction for a brief moment, and might give you long term if you fucked him up reaal good unless that vengeance fucks you even worse.

It would sure feel good to make someone feel and deal with the shit they did to you. It's just risky and could really fuck your own self up. It's a trade off and I guess depends how much hope you have for your own life.

 

[Animecel2D]

Always

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Yes it is, don't let cucks and media tell you otherwise. The sheer satisfaction of seeing the asshole you despise suffer is something that can't really be compared with anything. It only ever feels bad if there are notable consequences.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

If someone close to you did you wrong in some way that had a big effect on you, would you risk legal or non legal repercussions to get back at them? Nothing violent but perhaps something that would cause them a financial setback? I'm very high inhib and let these thoughts of revenge brew for years after something has happened. I think I'd feel a lot better for taking action against someone whose done me wrong but I also don't want to create even bigger problems, but this makes me feel like a beta cuck. Hi to the the FBI who read this

Depends on what you do and how you do it

 

[unsettling]

depends on the consequences

 

[Deleted member 34664]

yes, non-illegal ofc (hi fbi). The sense of fulfillment, excitement. and satisfaction that you get from rectifying someone who has wronged you is unmatched as in incel.

 

[Deleted member 34706]

Revenge is not a good thing, it's terrible, you will destroy yourself in the process and will be caught

Spoiler

it's the only thing because other things are either impossible or ruined for you by the bullying, abuse and trauma, even if you live a happy life it doesn't change that your abusers got away scot-free

yes, non-illegal ofc (hi fbi). The sense of fulfillment, excitement. and satisfaction that you get from rectifying someone who has wronged you is unmatched as in incel.

 

[Escthectrler]

I always get my revenge

 

[incelerated]

I dream about revenge every day.
There's no way I can do it without legal consequences.
So when I do it I will kill myself afterwards.

 

[thespanishcel]

I think it's only cool in edgy vidya, movies and series. IRL you'll probably get caught and will go to jail + pay insurance to the family kek.

 

[proudweeb]

No. I've learned that the hard way over the years. Getting revenge never made me any happier, it really just wasted my time