Is everyone else's life in complete shambles with 99 problems too?

[Deleted member 7448]

I'm starting to think maybe everyone else's life sucks too. Like, even normies.

It can't be that I'm THAT much of a loser. I mean, sure, based on the fact that I've been massively depressed since 13 and I've also been rotting extra hard since I graduated highschool and ruined my life in a long story that I'm too lazy repeat again, then yeah perhaps I fucked my life up more than the average person has.

BUT, maybe I'm just too weak-willed and anxious? Maybe everyone else's like sucks too but they just don't let it get to them as much. Maybe cause I'm so avoidant and antisocial and anxious, and as a result never had friends, maybe I just don't understand how other people live life and I just happen to focus too much on the negatives of my life.

But I gotta say though, my problems are starting to get to me. Feel like I'm drowning nowadays tbh. So much shit is going wrong, holy fuck I screwed my life up big time. But maybe I'm just too much of a pussy and whiner and my life is actually cushy and easy.

 

[Gymcelled]

When has anything in my life been going right? Never. The only times I ever felt like things were ok or improving i was delusional as fuck and life slapped me back into consciousness

 

[Deleted member 7448]

When has anything in my life been going right? Never. The only times I ever felt like things were ok or improving i was delusional as fuck and life slapped me back into consciousness

Sorry to hear that. The funny thing is that any sort of advice that would change our attitudes on this, it sounds like bluepilled platitudes, retarded garbage advice. Damn I hate my brain.

 

[DonezoTheClown]

Normie gets to fuck his wife and has a nice warm meal when he comes home from work and people around him respect him for doing decently well in society and he didn't dissapoint his parents by not giving them grandchildren, there's like 100 more ways their lives are superior to ours man. We just got dealt a shitty hand and society wants to pretend we didn't which makes it that much worse.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Normie gets to fuck his wife and has a nice warm meal when he comes home from work and people around him respect him for doing decently well in society and he didn't dissapoint his parents by not giving them grandchildren, there's like 100 more ways their lives are superior to ours man. We just got dealt a shitty hand and society wants to pretend we didn't which makes it that much worse.

Hmm, that's true. Add a bunch of mental illnesses on top of that like depression, anxiety maybe even autism, and you've got a recipe for disaster.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

there's like 100 more ways their lives are superior to ours man

 

[DonezoTheClown]

Hmm, that's true. Add a bunch of mental illnesses on top of that like depression, anxiety maybe even autism, and you've got a recipe for disaster.

I personally think I wouldn't have anxiety or depression if I wasn't an incel. Like the "being respected by society"-part of my examples kinda points at that. I know already if I talk to a bunch of normies and if I tell them I'm a virgin at 30 that I'll be the weirdo fuck, that gives me anxiety and makes me not wanna go talk to normies anymore = social anxiety.

 

[Deleted member 27161]

Relatable, my life's been hell for long ass fucking time now. Literally nothing goes in my favour