Your personal anecdotes don't mean anything, the sex market wouldn't be so active and have dedicated clientele if if wasn't any good. The market is active and there are clearly thousands of men enjoying themselves, so you probably need to ask yourself what they are doing differently (venue, resources, mindset, etc).
Your bad experience with a shitty escort isn't proof of anything, nor is my great experience with a decent whore
A lot of you idiots do it once, and you go into it with false expectations, so you set your own self up for failure
Not only that, a lot of you are egotistical so you can't just enjoy having sex with a woman, you want "muh validation"
That's your fault for being an egoist, what kind of retard clings to an ego whilst being an incel?
Your dissatisfaction with the practice is due to your own self imposed mental limitations