Not too long ago, whilst Chadfishing, I was added by some girl on Snapchat. Almost instantly, I got to see every square millimeter of her body.
After a while of me pretending to be a dominant Chad, it turned out that she did not know what "I" look like. Apparently, she only swiped right on me because of "my" dog. Then I confronted her because to me, it just seemed impossible for her to show me this much without her believing that I am a Chad. She replied by telling me that she does not care what I look like, and that she is "into my way of speaking to her" or my "character/personality".
I occasionally have those moments where I simply don't care about anything. This was one of those moments, so I ignored the consequences this might have and sent her an actual picture of myself. And to my surprise, she kept talking to me. Is this it? Am I no longer an incel? Are women actually individuals with different taste? Well, this is what it seemed like to me (huge mistake). So I continued talking to her, told her about what makes me unattractive (mainly me being a fatcel) and to my surprise she said that she would support me with losing weight. Sounds too good to be true.
Blinded by the fact that she was talking to me regardless of my looks, blinded by the fact that she wanted to help me become a better version of myself, blinded by the fact that she has a pretty good education (something I find important), and blinded by the fact that she has a pretty wealthy family, I decided to keep talking to her, ignoring all the red flags in the process.
While continuing to talk to her, more red flags came up. I will summarize them at the bottom for you to read quickly (and for those who are too lazy to read my wall of text). She has a body count of 12 (at the age of 18), she is mentally fucked and has to take 7 different types of medication daily, and she was raped while partying, and she was used by older men (probably via the internet). A regular dude who has options, or even just someone who isn't utterly desperate, would call it a day and remove her from his life. Not this guy. I decided that, since she is ready to help me change for the better, I could help her change for the better as well. Practically turn her from a hoe into a housewife.
After a few days of talking, she decided that we should meet up on Friday (26th of April). Me thinking I might be able to turn her into a girlfriend-material woman, or that at the very least I could smash, I agreed. Well, on Monday (22nd of April), she hits me with a confession. A day before, on Sunday, she had a date with someone else. We were not together at this point, so that would have been fine with me. I was talking to women as Chad on other platforms as well. But then I asked an important question: "Did you two fuck?". And, who could have guessed, they did. First date, they fucked. She let him fuck her, while having plans with me on Friday. Her body count increased to 13.
I would be a cuck to just take this disrespect. So, I decided to manipulate her. I told her that it would be okay, hoping that she would let me fuck her on Friday too. Well, she didn't. How am I saying this when this Friday hasn't even passed? Well, she hit me with the "you were right, I am still a whore", and "no, I won't let you fuck me because you deserve something better". I am betting my left ball sack that she would have let Chad fuck anyway. But because I'm not attractive, and she found someone else she could fuck, she decided that she does not want me anymore.
And this is where I removed her. She later messaged me saying that she "misses me". I ignored and blocked her after that. She gave up on the opportunity of having me, someone who tried ignoring all of her red flags and would have attempted to change her for the better, for someone who has fucked her once, now she has to live with it. I'm not going to let her disrespect me like that again.
So, all in all, she disrespected me in one of the most brutal ways, gave me a false sense of hope, and she stole several days worth of my time. I hope that after reading this you don't make the same mistake as I did. And to make things easier for you, here is a list of her red flags (with explanations):
(TLDR)
She also decided it would be a great idea to send me a picture of her sucking someone else off. According to her, that way, I would be able to better "imagine her sucking off me".
I occasionally have those moments where I simply don't care about anything. This was one of those moments, so I ignored the consequences this might have and sent her an actual picture of myself. And to my surprise, she kept talking to me. Is this it? Am I no longer an incel? Are women actually individuals with different taste? Well, this is what it seemed like to me (huge mistake). So I continued talking to her, told her about what makes me unattractive (mainly me being a fatcel) and to my surprise she said that she would support me with losing weight. Sounds too good to be true.
It was.
Blinded by the fact that she was talking to me regardless of my looks, blinded by the fact that she wanted to help me become a better version of myself, blinded by the fact that she has a pretty good education (something I find important), and blinded by the fact that she has a pretty wealthy family, I decided to keep talking to her, ignoring all the red flags in the process.
While continuing to talk to her, more red flags came up. I will summarize them at the bottom for you to read quickly (and for those who are too lazy to read my wall of text). She has a body count of 12 (at the age of 18), she is mentally fucked and has to take 7 different types of medication daily, and she was raped while partying, and she was used by older men (probably via the internet). A regular dude who has options, or even just someone who isn't utterly desperate, would call it a day and remove her from his life. Not this guy. I decided that, since she is ready to help me change for the better, I could help her change for the better as well. Practically turn her from a hoe into a housewife.
After a few days of talking, she decided that we should meet up on Friday (26th of April). Me thinking I might be able to turn her into a girlfriend-material woman, or that at the very least I could smash, I agreed. Well, on Monday (22nd of April), she hits me with a confession. A day before, on Sunday, she had a date with someone else. We were not together at this point, so that would have been fine with me. I was talking to women as Chad on other platforms as well. But then I asked an important question: "Did you two fuck?". And, who could have guessed, they did. First date, they fucked. She let him fuck her, while having plans with me on Friday. Her body count increased to 13.
I would be a cuck to just take this disrespect. So, I decided to manipulate her. I told her that it would be okay, hoping that she would let me fuck her on Friday too. Well, she didn't. How am I saying this when this Friday hasn't even passed? Well, she hit me with the "you were right, I am still a whore", and "no, I won't let you fuck me because you deserve something better". I am betting my left ball sack that she would have let Chad fuck anyway. But because I'm not attractive, and she found someone else she could fuck, she decided that she does not want me anymore.
And this is where I removed her. She later messaged me saying that she "misses me". I ignored and blocked her after that. She gave up on the opportunity of having me, someone who tried ignoring all of her red flags and would have attempted to change her for the better, for someone who has fucked her once, now she has to live with it. I'm not going to let her disrespect me like that again.
So, all in all, she disrespected me in one of the most brutal ways, gave me a false sense of hope, and she stole several days worth of my time. I hope that after reading this you don't make the same mistake as I did. And to make things easier for you, here is a list of her red flags (with explanations):
(TLDR)
- High body count //Self explanatory. A car that has been driven by many others before you is worthless. Women aren't cares, IT, but this is just basic economics.
- High Snapchat point count //What does a high Snapchat point count mean? It means that loads and loads of guys have seen her naked.
- Mental illnesses //You cannot fix her and her mental illnesses will also affect your mental health.
- Colored hair //They don't color it "for themselves". It's for attention. At the very least, it's a cope. A clear sign of something being wrong with her.
- Rape/SA history //This isn't something you can fully control, but you can lower the chances of this happening by not going out to parties, drinking and doing drugs. You don't want an irresponsible woman. Also, this contributes to her mental health being shit.
- History of partying //See the explanation of the point above.
- "Doesn't care about looks" //AWALT. They do care. If they "don't", they are either desperate to "settle down" or would let anyone fuck them (or currently have no better alternative)
- Gay best friends //Whores and gay best friends go together like ER and vanilla lattes. Stay away.
- Has documented herself getting fucked //I honestly don't know why any sane person would do this. Why would you want to look back to such thing? I can only imagine proud whores doing something like that.
