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Is anyone else the backup friend?

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Like being the last one to call when everyone else is busy?
 
I'm the school friend: talk to him at school but never actually spend time with him when it's not necessary.
 
I always hit up my friends, barely the other way around. And when they do hit me up, I'm asleep.
 
I don't have any friends anymore. I haven't for years.
 
Framecel222 said:
I'm the school friend: talk to him at school but never actually spend time with him when it's not necessary.

This hits close to home..
 
Nope.
No firends.
I talked to people in school during breaks and that's about it.
Have only two numbers in my phone, but they're from work collegues and only for work related issues.
 
I was like this in highschool. I used to get calls at like 11-12 pm on weekends telling me to come somewhere. I was called to fill up the gaps.
 
CamelBlueFilters said:
I was like this in highschool. I used to get calls at like 11-12 pm on weekends telling me to come somewhere. I was called to fill up the gaps.

holy shit this, pretty much only late minute things.
 
i don't even know if i have any sort of friends
 
I used to be like this in high school, I'd be the butt of every "gay" and "pussy with no girlfriend" joke too.

Now I just have no (irl) friends.
 
I haven't had "friends" since high school.
 
Framecel222 said:
I'm the school friend: talk to him at school but never actually spend time with him when it's not necessary.

So was I until I got to college. Now I'm just there and I do not care at all.
 
I don't think I have friends
 
Nope. I used to have three friends.

It was always me who had to call them and arrange meetings etc. so one day I stopped doing that.
It's been 2 years since I last heard of them.

Only one friend bothers to text me.
 
I have only 1 friend since I was 13... Fucking lol.
 
usually if theres a 10 person board game, i'm the "tenth person" because someone's girlfriend couldn't make it
 
lol at having friends
 
I never tried to maintain friendships enough to know this. I always had about one or two friends in my life. My current friends just accept that I prefer to be alone and never invite me to shit because they know I'll decline.
 
This was me in high school.

I was the backup friend in the jock, nerd and poor city trash cliques.

They would call me a few times per year to do stuff, and when I did it was always weird because I wasn't really a part of any of their groups. I was just... there. A faceless being that existed to stand next to the valuable people and raise their status.
 
LonelyButterfly said:
Nope. I used to have three friends.

It was always me who had to call them and arrange meetings etc. so one day I stopped doing that.
It's been 2 years since I last heard of them.

Only one friend bothers to text me.

This is literally me. I used to have two groups of "friends", but I had to always ask what they were doing and if I could join. One day I stopped doing that, it's been 5 years since anyone contacted me. No text messages, I think only one of them said "hi" on Normiebook at some point a few years ago.
 

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