Blackpill interacting with women IRL is the only way to avoid being a faggot who talks about romantic love and oneitis

[TheReaper]

by working in a bookshop I've seen hundreds of women in the last month and I've reach the point where I can barely notice any personal/individual trait.
it's like lego: an endlessly slightly different combination of the same pieces(legs,asses,eyes etc.) but there's nothing that can be consider really unique, nothing that can't be found in hundreds of other women.
the only guys that can sincerely believe in nawalt are men who never interacted with girls, this is why the internet is full of that shit, a lot of basement dwellers are constantly on their computers and they're the ones pushing this narrative.
once you're over the phase of considering women special,all that's left is the desire of sex, and that's honestly the only thing that's worth pursuing.
if you don't believe me ask yourself this:
"why is chad leaving women for which you would kill your entire family?".
if these angels/special beings really existed chad would not left them.

 

[radishman]

Before interacting with foids: Can't believe he would cheat on her. She's perfect. What a fucking idiot.

After interaction with foids: Meh, I'm sure he had his reasons.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

probably the reason why there are so many eager simps

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

 

[TheReaper]

Before interacting with foids: Can't believe he would cheat on her. She's perfect. What a fucking idiot.
After interaction with foids: Meh, I'm sure he had his reasons.

exactly my point.
people are reading evolutionary psychology books when all you need to be blackpilled is having a 30 second long conversation with the average girl

 

[your personality]

True. If you have never interacted with women you idealize them.
But when you have interacted enough with them to see how they act around guys that are much better looking it is easy to not be as captivated by all their behavioral quirks once you realize most of them have those quirks.

 

[TheReaper]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

I felt in love with "imaginary" girls till 23.
think about it makes me sick, I was a total retard.

 

[Ping And Pong]

if you don't believe me ask yourself this:
"why is chad leaving women for which you would kill your entire family?".
if these angels/special beings really existed chad would not left them.

You make a good point, interacting with women is rare for me I can never imagine ending a relationship with a gf.

 

[Joelossus]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

by far the most brutal pill to swallow, ngl. You will never know anybody but yourself.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

by far the most brutal pill to swallow, ngl. You will never know anybody but yourself.

I don't find it sad necessarily, if anything it's liberating. You don't have to feel bad about females not wanting you when their attraction has nothing to do with who you actually are as a person. Of course, that doesn't help with being sex starved or touch starved.

 

[based_meme]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

Ded srs.

Every single case of a blue pilled soul being afflicted with oneitis is one where they fall in love with an idea, not a person. They project their ideals of perfection onto a pretty face with a name, and then fall in love with the personified construct of that imagined ideal. I would bet you all of the resources in the world that nobody - not a single fucking soul - who's ever had a oneitis has imagined her taking a shit (fetishists discounted obv), being sick, behaving crudely with vulgarity, or committing heinous crimes.

Having a oneitis is a cope of the naive mind to help them imagine the best in someone. Perhaps the mind needs to construct this delusion for pair-bonding purposes, but that doesn't make sense in the context of chad pumping and dumping to spread his seed, being able to choose whichever of his lays he wants to stick around with. So I'm not quite sure what purpose having a oneitis is really supposed to serve. Maybe it's mate guarding? You delude yourself with all of these perfect ideas about a woman to prime yourself into giving everything to protect the mate, even your life. Yeah... I suppose that makes more sense.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

Exactly this

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Every single case of a blue pilled soul being afflicted with oneitis is one where they fall in love with an idea, not a person. They project their ideals of perfection onto a pretty face with a name, and then fall in love with the personified construct of that imagined ideal.

And users here thought I was coping when I suggested that having a waifu is the only true form of love. Nearly every man does this, some are simply far more honest with themselves about it than others.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

And users here thought I was coping when I suggested that having a waifu is the only true form of love. Nearly every man does this, some are simply far more honest with themselves about it than others.

I agree with this, those who project their ideals onto 3d foids are what the world call a hopeless romantic. These men are the authors and creators of their own misery,suffering, and doom. Being a hopeless romantic is nothing more than being a delusional fool yet literature always sing praises for these lost souls. The world loves a lover, everyone loves a mystery blah blah blah. Once you fully grasp and embrace the blackpill as your lifelong and faithful lover, you will come to realize there is nothing mysterious nor alluring in any 3d foids. But to be fair, foids are bi far have more hopeless romantic in their ranks. Look at all those delusional foids thinking somehow they are so special and that they can change the hearts and habits of some bad boy Chad!?!?!? Seriously , even 50 years of incarceration wont even do that.

 

[based_meme]

And users here thought I was coping when I suggested that having a waifu is the only true form of love. Nearly every man does this, some are simply far more honest with themselves about it than others.

Well, you're both right. It's a cope, AND it's the only true form of (romantic) love.

 

[radishman]

And users here thought I was coping when I suggested that having a waifu is the only true form of love. Nearly every man does this, some are simply far more honest with themselves about it than others.

It's why I doll max. Love isn't real, so why should the object of my desire be?

 

[Deleted member 19546]

My oneitis is my best friend, I almost never crush on people I don’t talk to.

 

[based_meme]

My oneitis is my best friend, I almost never crush on people I don’t talk to.

Code black. CODE BLACK!

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

 

[Deleted member 18193]

And users here thought I was coping when I suggested that having a waifu is the only true form of love. Nearly every man does this, some are simply far more honest with themselves about it than others.

Well, you're both right. It's a cope, AND it's the only true form of (romantic) love.

I think he was referring to 'cope' in the sense that many users here have changed the meaning of the word to be analogous to saying "wrong" or "bluepilled" - it's one of the reasons I don't like using the word 'cope' anymore tbh. Even if the implication is not exactly direct if you replace the word 'cope' with 'wrong' or 'bluepilled' it makes sense in some contexts.

Otherwise with the actual definition of cope - dealing with a difficult situation successfully - both statements are (correct?)

 

[Over_this_Life]

by working in a bookshop I've seen hundreds of women in the last month and I've reach the point where I can barely notice any personal/individual trait.
it's like lego: an endlessly slightly different combination of the same pieces(legs,asses,eyes etc.) but there's nothing that can be consider really unique, nothing that can't be found in hundreds of other women.
the only guys that can sincerely believe in nawalt are men who never interacted with girls, this is why the internet is full of that shit, a lot of basement dwellers are constantly on their computers and they're the ones pushing this narrative.
once you're over the phase of considering women special,all that's left is the desire of sex, and that's honestly the only thing that's worth pursuing.
if you don't believe me ask yourself this:
"why is chad leaving women for which you would kill your entire family?".
if these angels/special beings really existed chad would not left them.

High iq

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

It is over for lucid dreamcells

 

[ionlycopenow]

Ded srs.

Every single case of a blue pilled soul being afflicted with oneitis is one where they fall in love with an idea, not a person. They project their ideals of perfection onto a pretty face with a name, and then fall in love with the personified construct of that imagined ideal. I would bet you all of the resources in the world that nobody - not a single fucking soul - who's ever had a oneitis has imagined her taking a shit (fetishists discounted obv), being sick, behaving crudely with vulgarity, or committing heinous crimes.

Having a oneitis is a cope of the naive mind to help them imagine the best in someone. Perhaps the mind needs to construct this delusion for pair-bonding purposes, but that doesn't make sense in the context of chad pumping and dumping to spread his seed, being able to choose whichever of his lays he wants to stick around with. So I'm not quite sure what purpose having a oneitis is really supposed to serve. Maybe it's mate guarding? You delude yourself with all of these perfect ideas about a woman to prime yourself into giving everything to protect the mate, even your life. Yeah... I suppose that makes more sense.

The movie Solaris is about this

 

[based_meme]

The movie Solaris is about this

Is it worth watching?

 

[ionlycopenow]

Is it worth watching?

Tbh no I found it super boring and pointless. Once you realize that is pretty much the main theme it makes the whole movie seem stupid and redundant . But he has many great movies outside of that

 

[1m62dtr]

Tfw you realize that the person you love only exists within your own mind.

Brutal

I write fanficion sometimes, and when I compare the women I create in my imagination with real life foids, it is so ridiculous, the difference is sickening.

Can relate

 

[Neggr]

Before interacting with foids: Can't believe he would cheat on her. She's perfect. What a fucking idiot.

After interaction with foids: Meh, I'm sure he had his reasons.

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