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Blackpill "Intelligence" is worthless - my story

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Might get banned or something for bragging but I'd rather be honest here.

I was always an above-average kid when it came to intelligence. I was the best I'm school for the most part and pretty much in highschool before college. I was also athletic and did martial arts AND I was taller than most guys. I also knew a relative liked me back then (2 or 3 years younger) but I sperged out and it didn't work. Plus her family were close relatives and wouldn't let it happen anyway.

So when I was starting college, which was during covid and all that, I really thought I had some sort of advantage over other guys and that I was gonna get girls left and right, given the fact that I had gotten accepted to a uni that other smart ass "nerds" get accepted to. That was about 4 and something years ago.

I couldn't have been more wrong.

My experience in college was what led me to the rp, then mgtow, and eventually to bp and then here.

I was alone from the start. The fact that the first 3 semesters were effectively online didn't help either. Only some surface level bs "how you doing today buddy" crap. Made few friends here and they'll find their way into a forum like this eventually given their looks.

I realized the reality of my life. The thing I had been lied about to my face by my parents for all this time. It was all bullshit. I was ugly, that was the reality of my life.

At the start of the fourth semester I met a girl I had never seen before. I developed a crush on her. I didn't initiate because I knew a girl like her wouldn't give me a chance. She eventually sent me a happy birthday on instagram when she saw my story. It was just the picture of a cake. I tried to ask her out. Failed. She was not even interested in chatting. I would later see her with numerous other dudes. Yeah, the shy nerdy quirky cute "introverted" girl doesn't exist. She knew I was fucked, just wanted to play with me.

Now I'm here. College is ending. And I have not had a girlfriend or fucked a girl yet.

Still no hanging out with any friends, and I don't even have a job.
 
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I was always an above-average kid when it came to intelligence. I was the best I'm school for the most part and pretty much in highschool before college. I was also athletic and did martial arts AND I was taller than most guys. I also knew a relative liked me back then (2 or 3 years younger) but I sperged out and it didn't work. Plus her family were close relatives and wouldn't let it happen anyway.

So when I was starting college, which was during covid and all that, I really thought I had some sort of advantage over other guys and that I was gonna get girls left and right, given the fact that I had gotten accepted to a uni that other smart ass "nerds" get accepted to. That was about 4 and something years ago.

I couldn't have been more wrong.

My experience in college was what led me to the rp, then mgtow, and eventually to bp and then here.

I was alone from the start. The fact that the first 3 semesters were effectively online didn't help either. Only some surface level bs "how you doing today buddy" crap. Made few friends here and they'll find their way into a forum like this eventually given their looks.

I realized the reality of my life. The thing I had been lied about to my face by my parents for all this time. It was all bullshit. I was ugly, that was the reality of my life.

At the start of the fourth semester I met a girl I had never seen before. I developed a crush on her. I didn't initiate because I knew a girl like her wouldn't give me a chance. She eventually sent me a happy birthday on instagram when she saw my story. It was just the picture of a cake. I tried to ask her out. Failed. She was not even interested in chatting. I would later see her with numerous other dudes. Yeah, the shy nerdy quirky cute "introverted" girl doesn't exist. She knew I was fucked, just wanted to play with me.

Now I'm here. College is ending. And I have not had a girlfriend or fucked a girl yet.

Still no hanging out with any friends, and I don't even have a job.
Bragging aside, sorry about that my brocel.
 
If Intelligence was worthless, you would not have access to the internet to communicate that "Intelligence is worthless."
 
Intelligence only complements someone who is already attractive. I was in GATE when I was younger and now, at 18, I am working at an undergraduate level in math. But it means nothing for me. It is just something to mention when a relative asks what I do in my spare time, and they nod politely without really caring. On its own, it does not change anything.
 
If Intelligence was worthless, you would not have access to the internet to communicate that "Intelligence is worthless."

I think his point is that individual intelligence, in the context of social life and relationships, does not get you far unless it is paired with looks or status. Intelligence is useful for creating technology, sure, but on its own it does not make a man attractive or valued.
 
First thing are you sperg, even if your high functioning this could be part of the problem

Second intellegence dont help you with its more like a burden. Intellegence can only help you with gettin money and even here it dont have to even if youre intellegent you can stay poor, especially now where a lot of is replaced by AI
 
If Intelligence was worthless, you would not have access to the internet to communicate that "Intelligence is worthless."
It's worthless to women.
I appreciate it a LOT actually.
 
First thing are you sperg, even if your high functioning this could be part of the problem

Second intellegence dont help you with its more like a burden. Intellegence can only help you with gettin money and even here it dont have to even if youre intellegent you can stay poor, especially now where a lot of is replaced by AI
I wouldn't be surprised if I was on the spectrum.
 
I think his point is that individual intelligence, in the context of social life and relationships, does not get you far unless it is paired with looks or status. Intelligence is useful for creating technology, sure, but on its own it does not make a man attractive or valued.
Yes pretty much
 
If you aren't using your intellect to make money then indeed your intelligence is worthless, Women are not attracted to intelligence at all and there plenty of studies that prove it, such as the one study showing that men with more intelligence are more likely to be single. I don't whether or not to call it awful that it took you so long to realize this, on one hand you must have been happier believing that you actually had a chance on the other hand realizing this so late must of been a brutal pill to swallow.
 
I think his point is that individual intelligence, in the context of social life and relationships, does not get you far unless it is paired with looks or status. Intelligence is useful for creating technology, sure, but on its own it does not make a man attractive or valued.
It's worthless to women.
I appreciate it a LOT actually.
Tbh, I understand the frustration. Only giga high IQs can stand out in the modern era. There's barely any difference between a below average, average, and above average.
 
such as the one study showing that men with more intelligence are more likely to be single.
I think this is mostly because extremly intellegent people are more likely to on the spectrum
 
women could care less for intelligence, if anything its a turn off for them. The Studies show that clearly.
They are attracted to improving their lifestyle tho aka using men to get their money
 
It's worthless to women.
I appreciate it a LOT actually.
Being a bit smart lets you get a better job that lets you cope better. That's about the limit of its usefulness.

High intelligence is negatively correlated with sexual success, so not only is it worthless, it's actually unattractive to women.
It might get you to be a BBux later on, or would have let you get settled for by a women in times of yore, but those are bad deals.

I feel for you bro. Knowing that your parents had no idea what the fuck was up and everyone you knew just bullshitted you all this time is disorienting.
 
you should really utilize your intelligence to its fullest. Ik its easier said then done, but I really think you can better your life a ton by just getting a prestigious job using your intellect . It wont get you a gf but atleast you can have money and the ability to buy the copes you want.
 
you should really utilize your intelligence to its fullest. Ik its easier said then done, but I really think you can better your life a ton by just getting a prestigious job using your intellect . It wont get you a gf but atleast you can have money and the ability to buy the copes you want.
That's honestly what I'm attempting. STEMcelling in engineering (not even software) to pay for a modest life.
 
Intelligence is useless, never did an iq test but I went to prestigious college when I was 16 and I had literally 0 zero friends, let alone foids.
 
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Intelligence is useless, never did an iq test but I went to prestigious college when I was 16 and I had literally 0 zero friends, let alone foids.
Chinese mogd
 
intelligence or cultural intelligence only matters if u are surrounded by people alike, if you make an intellectual statement in a room where u are the only intellectual present your comment will not be appreciated, i found these things out a few days ago even though they were obvious, its the same with manners, only a person who has manners can appreciate another polite person but unfortunately these people are rather scarce and still the joks, or show offs who make idiot jokes are the ones appreciated by girls, i hate this shit tbh
 
I didn't intend to brag, if it came across that way.

I just wanted to be honest.
"I was taller and smarter than the other niggas around me and could lowkey kick their ass, but I'm still an incel bro::soy:"
 
I am starting to think that IQ is cope, but fuck.
If you weren't ugly, if you got good time with women, would you develop interest in those things that make you seem intelligent? If you had good social approval you could work as a waiter and you would still make good money, bcs foids would give it to you. You would never have to use your brain power much.
 
Intelligence is useless, never did an iq test but I went to prestigious college when I was 16 and I had literally 0 zero friends, let alone foids.
Metoo!
 
Women only care about intelligence as far as it can make you climb the social ladder. So basically if you are sought after for your intelligence and people want your advice/knowledge/..., that's attractive to women. But if you are just intelligent and can solve problems which are interesting for no one but you, they don't care at all.

Also, they value intelligence used to manipulate others much more than intelligence to solve problems because the first can be directly used to climb the social hierarchy, the latter only indirectly.
 

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