Blackpill instincts on male and female and why normies "thugmaxx" and why foids "whoremaxx" and appeal of acting "black" and emotional validation for instincts

[BatKnightmareKOF]

Men who thugmaxx

They use the latest slang, always talking about the most trending thing, the men start to "thugmaxx" and the women start to "whoremaxx" usually due to not getting enough emotional validation for their instincts by their parents causing their brain to be put into primal instincts mode subconsciously similar to "fight or flight"(if an animal isn't getting emotional validation for their instincts they will probably develop bad stress issues or bad mental issues.). The normies and chads that start "thugmaxxing" start acting more hyper competitive herd minded(worshiping foids and worshiping chad instinctually seeing him as an authority figure chad worship is instinctual in males and females for somewhat different reasons men see them as wise or they have a wife, think like big black dude meme or gigachad meme wise old man) selfish aggressive and dominant to other men

competing for any woman due to fear of being outcast by woman and also start acting more on their in group bias of women, they are also less visibly emotional and sometimes quiet and more angry and aggressive compared to the effects of woman who start "whoremaxxing" .Men will also start to become more distant to each other and betray each other for a girlfriend for fear of being outcast and in group bias of woman.This also the appeal to "acting black" due to not getting emotional validation for their instincts and using their slang acting loud emotionally for emotional validation for their instincts and also be "cool" for status in the herd to fit in, the stronger the emotion is in an animal the stronger the instincts are especially if there's not any emotional validation for their instincts for them and their brain going into primal instincts mode similar to "fight or flight" but the change happens slowly subconsciously and they won't really feel it too suddenly compared to "fight or flight" until the end where they'll eventually feel it due to not getting their instincts validated leading to stress or bad mental issues you can see it visually happen though.

Woman who whoremaxx

Woman who start to "whoremaxx" start to act more hypergamous selfish bisexual manipulative submissive passive aggressive herd minded (worshiping Stacy due to in group bias of women and also somewhat seeing her as an authority figure and worshiping chad instinctually seeing him as an authority figure who is hyper competitive to other men and will beat up the "ugly evil men" and keep them safe while leading and protecting them, chad worship is instinctual in males and females for somewhat different reasons) and childlike,

they also start dressing like whores to appeal to chad, woman will also compare who has the hotter brother dad or boyfriend in these hypergamous boyfriend competitions they have, and make fun of and bully each other on who has the ugliest brother, or boyfriend, or dad, if their brother is short or ugly they will make fun of the girl who has the shortest or ugliest brother the girl who lost the hypergamous boyfriend competition l will then come home after this bullying and yell at their brother and blame them for being short or ugly and stop talking to them while the brother has no idea what she's mad about since they were probably fine the other days like walking them to school or bus stop.

Woman who whoremaxx will also use any man they deem ugly as an emotional tampon and talk behind their backs later "he's so ugly".

Women who "whoremaxx" will try to steal others chad boyfriends from each by "socially reputation smearing" the woman who has chad and says things like "she's cheating on you break up with her" to get chad for themselves.Woman are also become more visibly emotional and more cold and manipulative and passive aggressive and submissive and hypergamous and aggressive to the men that are "ugly" and not chad then men when "thugmaxxing" . This is also the appeal to "acting black" with using their slang acting loud emotionally to emotionally validate their instincts also be "cool" for status in the herd to fit in, the stronger the emotion is in an animal the stronger the instincts are especially if there's not any emotional validation for their instincts for them and their brain going into primal instincts mode similar to "fight or flight" but the change happens slowly subconsciously and they won't really feel it too suddenly compared to "fight or flight" until the end where they'll eventually feel it due to not getting their instincts validated leading to stress or bad mental issues you can see it visually happen though.

Woman who "whoremaxx" will also be more lesbian with each other too due to bisexual herd minded in group bias towards woman instincts and play with each others boobs and ass and be naked around each other they will also wax each others vaginas and assholes for "fun" at woman's sleep overs.


https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-emotional-validation-425336

Consequences of Emotional Invalidation​

Not getting validating support from others can have devastating effects on relationships, emotions, and mental health. Some of the damaging psychological, behavioral, and emotional effects of invalidation include:

• Problems with a person's sense of identity: Emotional invalidation can undermine a person's sense of self. When people feel that their personality characteristics, thoughts, and behaviors are not accepted, they may develop low self-esteem or a poor sense of self.
• Difficulty managing emotions: Invalidation tells people that what they are feeling or how they express those feelings is wrong. It can make people think that they cannot trust their emotions, making it hard to regulate those feelings.
• Poor mental health: Emotional invalidation may also contribute to mental health conditions, including depression and anxiety. Invalidation can make people feel that their thoughts and feelings don't matter to others.

A few dominant psychological theories of borderline personality disorder (BPD) assert that many people with BPD did not receive sufficient emotional validation over the course of their development. This may be one factor in the development of the emotional dysregulation characteristic of the disorder.

People with BPD typically have very strong emotional responses to events that seem minor to observers. As a result, people with BPD frequently experience emotional invalidation—that is, others react to their emotions as if those emotions are not valid or reasonable.

Takeaways

Emotional validation is an important tool that can improve your interpersonal communication and relationships. Fortunately, it is a skill you can learn and work to improve with practice.

Why do people want emotional validation?

People need to feel that their feelings matter and that others truly hear what they're saying. Emotional validation makes us feel accepted. An emotionally validated person typically can regulate their own emotions appropriately and self-soothe when feelings threaten to overwhelm.

How can you give emotional validation?

Listen to, acknowledge, and rephrase what the person is saying. The point is to help them feel seen and heard, not to change or minimize their emotions.

:"little dicked man isn't speaking its your personality"
:"let's blow this place and go hit my yacht where my dirty bedroom is by the way I don't clean my dick or shower"
:"see incel maybe if you had good hygiene or washed you would have a girlfriend"
:"where are you guys going are we still on for bowling tomorrow"
:"they're going to ride chads cock"
:"SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU INCEL GET THAT INCEL BULLCRAP OUTTA HERE, STANDARD INCEL DRIVEL AND BABBLE"
:"not to sound like an incel or anything lord knows anything slightly critcising woman can be considered it AM I RIGHT and I swear swear swear i'm not an incel so woman please please please don't outcast me butttttttttt I think they're going to ride the "chads" cock I think the incels are right about this one.
:
:"PLEASE DON'T OUTCAST ME, THE INCELS ARE WRONG THEY'RE WRONG PLEASE PLEASE DON'T OUTCAST ME MAKE ME MORE ALONE THEN I ALREADY AM"
:"OK I will use you as betabuxx after I get done with chad- wait did you just mention being ALONE WOMEN LONELINESS IS A REAL PROBLEM AND WOMEN ATTEMPT SUICIDE MORE THEN MEN AND ALSO HAVE PERIODS WE HAVE IT HARDER THAN YOU INCEE-"
:"OK WOMEN HAVE IT HARDER I ADMIT MEN LIE ABOUT HAVING HARDER LIVES IM GONNA LISTEN TO MY IN GROUP BIAS OF WOMAN AND NOT SAY YOUR'RE WRONG IM SORRY JUST PLEASEE PLEASEE DONT CALL ME AN INCEL"
:"Where'd you ladys go I didn't bust a nut yet oh here you are is this INCEL bothering you ladies do I need to kick his ass"
:"YES. YOU. DO. with all his misogynistic incel drivel"
:"WAIT NO PLEASE"
:"Come here pussy I can tell your're an incel by the way you LOOK"
:"AGGGGHHHHHHHHGGGGGGHGHHHHHHHHGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHGHGHGH"
:"OUCH everytime HaHAHAHA"

What can you do when emotional validation doesn't work?

If you reach an impasse, the person responds inappropriately, or you feel uncomfortable, leave the situation. Say something like, "I want to talk with you, but I see you're upset. Let's come back to this later."

The Impact of Validating Others​

Validating others doesn't just help them feel acknowledged—it helps foster greater trust and strengthens your connection. They are more likely to open up and communicate honestly when they feel they are being seen and heard.


When you emotionally validate someone, you:

• Communicate acceptance: You demonstrate that you care about and accept the person for who they are.3 That's something we all want to feel from the people in our lives.
• Strengthen the relationship: People who show each other acceptance feel more connected and build stronger bonds. When someone feels like they can really *talk* to you, they are more likely to reach out to you again in the future.
• Show value: The person feels they are important to you. This can make a big difference whether you're interacting with a friend, a partner, a family member, or a colleague.
• Foster better emotional regulation: Research suggests that offering people emotional validation can help them better regulate their emotions.4 This can be particularly important with strong negative or distressing feelings.

Tips for Being Emotionally Validating​

By practicing validating behaviors, you can foster better connections with the people in your life who matter to you the most. It also helps set the tone of the relationship—which means they are more likely to show you those same validating responses the next time you need someone to talk to.


Strategies that can help you be more validating include:

• Listen to understand, not to respond. Your goal isn't to solve the problem or make a judgment; it's to hear what they say and show that you understand where they are coming from.
• Show that you recognize their feelings. Name their emotions if you can: "It sounds like your feeling really stressed."
• Use words to convey empathy. Use phrases like "I can see how hard that would be" or "That sounds really difficult" to show that you care and understand their point of view.
• Avoid offering quick fixes. It might be tempting to try to solve the issue right away, but stick to listening instead of offering up solutions. Unless they specifically ask for help, such suggestions often come off as dismissive.
• Skip the pressure. Let them talk and process at their own pace, and don't try to rush them to move on.
• Mirror what they are expressing. Reflect back on what you hear and see through your words and body language.

It *can* be challenging if the other person is expressing their emotions in ways that might be hurtful or destructive. However, you don't have to resign yourself to being treated poorly. If your loved one is behaving inappropriately or aggressively, removing yourself from the situation is your best option. Tell them you want to talk with them, but you can’t do that productively until they can communicate with you calmly, so you’ll return later when it seems the right time.

It *can* be challenging if the other person is expressing their emotions in ways that might be hurtful or destructive. However, you don't have to resign yourself to being treated poorly. If your loved one is behaving inappropriately or aggressively, removing yourself from the situation is your best option. Tell them you want to talk with them, but you can’t do that productively until they can communicate with you calmly, so you’ll return later when it seems the right time.

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:"OMG remove yourself from a man complaining sweaty during critical moments you deserve better"

 

[GrandWizard_137]

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[Paladin]

Should've saved this thread for when you got out of greyceldom cause no one is reading a long thread by a new user

 

[Friezacel]

Should've saved this thread for when you got out of greyceldom cause no one is reading a long thread by a new user

 

[Jud Pottah]

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