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Blackpill Insecurity is a more compelling and strong pressure of self improvement than enjoying self improvement.

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Imagine a girl is insecure after she has given birth.
What is gonna pull her harder? Liking self improvement as a nifty little hobby, or feeling the insane risk of being unloved by chad/ breeding tier normie?
Obviously insecurity.

Insecurity is good because it leads to perfectionism, or forces us into action.
We all have what I call laidbacker baggage where we sit nice and cozy on our laurels/ positivities/ joys.
But insecurity notices out imperfections and makes them looming dooms that we cannot be whole without.
It's not natural for people to be positive about self improvement. There's so much hard work, toil, risk involved in it that it needs to be pedaled (not by love of it) but by hate of the problem we have. If we are positive and go off the drive we get from joy of things, negativity will take us eventually (as it compiles and is extreme) and we give up. And we find things that make us more positive, I.E. escapism.
To hold out to do difficult/ exacting things then we need to have something which holds strong under negativity, I.E. fear/ anger/ hate/ etc.
Where we are not caving in under pressure, or tempted to avoid something to be more positive. Only hate/ perfectionistic insecurity can last humanity through trying times.
We are often connected to many things that are positive. Telling people to be positive just lets them maintain those connections. But being insecure helps with discipline as it gets us away from positive/ fun/ happy distractions and focuses on perfection/ eliminating the negative.

Perfection isn't when you have nothing left to add, but when you have nothing more to take away.
Because the real area of focus should be about destroying what is in our lives that is wrong (focusing on the thing itself) rather than putting in something else (spreading the solution). The real focus lies with the pesky materials nature/ society has given us.

Positivity will make you just focus on the joy of everything as opposed to trying to decrease what you hate. Insecurity locks you in the dark presence of things that are wrong and gives you a horrible feeling about it to the point where you would rather see the negativity eliminated than the positivity indulged in.
It's the only real way fat foids self improve. Because of their love of vanity more than the love of instant fast food gratification.
Insecurity on something central to humanity (like looks) (ego) will be important to us more than something more non-essential like types of food we eat. But although it's hard if the insecurity is great enough we will pull through it. Something needs to be somewhat prominent to be an inseccurity. But an extremely essential insecurity like looks will be insane important for us to do something about.
 
High IQ yet everyone tells us not to be insecure. Never listen to people who say shit like that.
 
High IQ yet everyone tells us not to be insecure. Never listen to people who say shit like that.
why do you think they say such drivel?
Sure, enjoying self improvement can help, but it's not natural to enjoy self improvement (implies inferiority status when you're doing it, we are more hung up on the flaws, than enjoying the stroll of self improvement), and humanity naturally enjoys being a winner, and safely supreme in all its endeavors. We would rather rot in negative emotion than be happy/ lose our concentration/ grasp in a negative situation.

Insecurity is like a pendulum extreme. It can bring you down or launch you into insane perfectionism.
For the strong willed, it is the key to power because they become perfectionistic with it.
 
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