I moved from my parents home 5 years ago. I noticed that things are were I last put them even if it was years ago. My mother used to move, steal and throw away my material possessions, even perfectly fine shoes and clothes. This is more of a male trait than an incel trait. Some fashonboys get new clothes every season but for men, especially single men, especially those with an ascethic mind like me, things remain, they remain where I put them and unnessessary items I aquire every year such as things I find or are gifted during the seasons pile up. I will in a decade at most have to throw away items that are piling up in my apartement. The years blend together when you are single, alone, and not put from class through class in school. The fact that clothes and other items I liked were thrown away or stolen from me when I lived with my parents/mother meant that I started working with digital stuff that can be emeiled to myself or stored in clouds and so on. My parents and especially my mother are quite tech-illiterate.