Being homophobic or not has nothing to do with inceldom. Personally, I don't care.
Gays are not allowed in our community for a specific reason : we tend to develop friendship between our exclusively male members, and having gays would put a doubt about the intentions of everyone (Is this guy trying to date with me, or is he speaking only as a friend ?). Also, we don't want to become a forum where gays would florish oppenly, because this place is not made for males to date. We're not Tinder.
The last reason is that we do not want gay speeches to try to develop gay apprenticeship among our members.
It is completely impossible to allow gay speeches here : it would negate our absolute desire : finding love with a foid.
All this has nothing to do with being homophobic : it is only a logical and practical decision to avoid this place to become a gay Meetic with a million new topics every days titled "Wishing to meet a White guy in New York City".
The freedom of speech developped in this place, about every subject, also allows radical anti-gay speeches, which would probably traumatize gays. Being here requires to be mentally prepared and ready to hear harsh opinions. Because being an Incel is very violent in itself : life refuses us to date a foid, which is exactly the contrary of what life wants us to do : reproduce.