Incels Won — Now What?
Misogynists, abusers, rapists, and imposters united
Mona LazarFollow
Fourth Wave
a11y-light~5 min read·March 18, 2025 (Updated: March 18, 2025)·Free: No
Let's not kid ourselves: women are just a scapegoat for men who can't do better. We are weak men's ultimate enemies — the last skull to crush on a feverish race to the bottom, so the main alpha can be on top.
Sadly, however, the incels won this race. And we're all here to pay the price.
I don't need to mention this is not all men. Men who aren't into skull-crushing already know that.
The rest, however — the incels, the rapists, the abusers, the imposters cos-playing as nice guys to get into women's pants, the empathy-deficient and tough-guy adorers — they won this round.
And with it, they sealed their own fate as well.
Because scapegoating women doesn't only mean women per se, but also the feminine part of themselves. Their fight against women and for patriarchy is a fight against their own humanity.
Patriarchy is a zero-sum game: everybody has to lose for the 1% to win
That's how incels won this game for the ultra-wealthy: by doing what they blame women for — letting themselves be used by a strong alpha male. Nobody fangirls harder than Tate and Musk fans when their idols spew one more lie meant to keep everyone down and themselves up.
My dear reader, the algorithm doesn't show my writing to 99% of my followers. Subscribe here if you enjoy my work and want to read my next article. I'm also on Substack Thank you kindly! Their fans forget that Tate made his money helping sex workers scam men online. He's a man scamming men and abusing women — this is their idol.
They forget Trump and Musk made their money because they were rich daddy's boys driving to school in a Rolls Royce.
They forget what it took their idols to get there and that they did it at the expense of we, the people.
So they vote to make rich men's dreams come true, hoping that one day, by some miracle, they're going to be rich men as well. But as history has shown time and time again — they never will be. Patriarchy itself will only let the strong survive, and only let the killers win.
Killers, abusers, rapists, con men — these are young men's idols. But it's not for a lack of good men.
Heroes are available, but men still choose the misogynistic villain
When you have strong active visible hero-presidents like Zelensky, but men still choose weak villain-presidents like Trump, that's when you know something somewhere went incredibly wrong.Something in the very structure of society, something that says 'I can't get where I want to be unless a villain guides me towards it.'
The villain is more appealing; he promises more, yells louder, gets in your face, and tells you exactly what you want to hear: that you're never ever to blame for anything. It's the scapegoat — it's always the scapegoat.
Truth be told, people like Tate, Musk, and Trump give their incel public exactly what they want: the opportunity to be their horrible unadapted selves, plus a promise they'll be rewarded for it if they do what they're told. It's the closest form of love and acceptance incels have ever felt, and it comes with zero effort on their part.
So … now what?
As women, we need to do what incels are incapable of doing: take responsibility for our own actions.We all like to scapegoat others because let's face it, it's easier to blame than to build, and it's easier to wait for a knight in shining armor to save us than to roll up our sleeves and do the work ourselves. But that is the kind of attitude that got us in this predicament in the first place.
Let's not forget that it wasn't only incels and abusers who chose an abuser for president, but also the ones who have the most to lose from putting him in charge: women! White women, to be precise — 52% of them voted for Donald Trump, a rapist and misogynist who vowed to 'protect women whether they like it or not.' Shameful and embarrassing.
Incel-level embarassing.
Women Need to Start Taking Responsibility for Their Own Lives
Yet another woman got impregnated by Elon the Breeder
medium.comWomen have very much to lose from associating with the wrong men, and still … we do it. We choose with our hearts and bodies, not our brains.
If we can't be trusted to keep away from abusive men with the skills and empathy of mollusks, how can we be expected to vote for people who protect our interests and rights?
But what you do at an individual level will propagate at a global level — it always does, it's just a matter of time.
We get angry at red-pill men who tell us to choose better men, but they're right. It is our responsibility to choose better, and if there's no good choice available, then we don't need to choose.
If the choice is limited, celibacy is an option. The 4B movement is advancing for a reason, because how is it better to be impregnated by a dead-beat abuser than to be on your own? The responsibility is on women because we're the ones who have the most to lose from making the wrong choice.
If we want freedom from a world falling deeper and deeper into autocracy, we need to get ready to fight for it rather than wait for a stronger male to deliver it to us. That's also how incels got cuckolded by the likes of Rogan and Putin: they were afraid of women, afraid of the world, and attached themselves to some alpha male to carry the heavy load for them.
That's how you end up at the alpha's mercy.
There are 2 major things women can do for their freedom: one is to make money. There's no freedom without financial power unless you live on top of a mountain somewhere, eating berries and bathing in a creek under the moonlight.
Get busy doing what men have been doing for centuries to gain power. No, not pillaging and plundering. Make money, learn business and finance, choose well-paid professions.
The second is get educated. Run for office. Raise good sons and fearless daughters.
Learn to see beyond the patriarchy. That's where our freedom is.
Vive la resistance!
