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I need field reports from any of you who’ve actually approached women on the streets.

I’ve never cold-approached in my life. The closest I’ve gotten is looking at a girl.
  1. What I need to know:
    Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
  2. What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”) :forcedsmile:
  3. The Aftermath:
  • Did they look at you like a rapist?
  • Rejected?
  • Did they laugh in your face?
  • Did they ignore you?
4. Did it make you MORE or LESS insane? Some say exposure therapy works. Others say it traumatizes you further.

I’m a 5’7” Curry with the social skills of a startled possum. I should not be cold approaching, but I need to confirm the blackpill with my own experience.

So give me with your worst stories. No sugarcoating. If you got humiliated, I need to hear it. If you somehow didn’t get arrested, I especially need to hear it. :forcedsmile:
 
they screamed and ran away from me
 
They pulled out a revolver and shot out half my brain

:feelsrope:
 
They sucked my BAIC (below average incel cock) right in the spot.
 
We immediately had secks, no questions asked
 
I need field reports from any of you who’ve actually approached women on the streets.

I’ve never cold-approached in my life. The closest I’ve gotten is looking at a girl.
  1. What I need to know:
    Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
  2. What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”) :forcedsmile:
  3. The Aftermath:
  • Did they look at you like a rapist?
  • Rejected?
  • Did they laugh in your face?
  • Did they ignore you?
4. Did it make you MORE or LESS insane? Some say exposure therapy works. Others say it traumatizes you further.

I’m a 5’7” Curry with the social skills of a startled possum. I should not be cold approaching, but I need to confirm the blackpill with my own experience.

So give me with your worst stories. No sugarcoating. If you got humiliated, I need to hear it. If you somehow didn’t get arrested, I especially need to hear it. :forcedsmile:
They laughed at me and gave me that disgusted look
 
I need field reports from any of you who’ve actually approached women on the streets.

I’ve never cold-approached in my life. The closest I’ve gotten is looking at a girl.
  1. What I need to know:
    Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
  2. What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”) :forcedsmile:
  3. The Aftermath:
  • Did they look at you like a rapist?
  • Rejected?
  • Did they laugh in your face?
  • Did they ignore you?
4. Did it make you MORE or LESS insane? Some say exposure therapy works. Others say it traumatizes you further.

I’m a 5’7” Curry with the social skills of a startled possum. I should not be cold approaching, but I need to confirm the blackpill with my own experience.

So give me with your worst stories. No sugarcoating. If you got humiliated, I need to hear it. If you somehow didn’t get arrested, I especially need to hear it. :forcedsmile:
Cold approach 1:
They did not let me finish speaking. I said "Hello" and was about to start my line until they said "NO stop talking to me". They ignored me after this. It did not
Cold approach 2:
They let me finish speaking. I asked for their number. They kindly shut me down and continued on. It didnt affect my sanity.
Cold approach 3:
They did not let me finish speaking. I said "Hey uhh whats your name". They then gave me a disgusted look and laughed. It didnt affect my sanity.

I have never been arrested cold approaching
 
Looked at me weirdly and smiled in a way of “ why in the fuck is this person even speaking to me?” and said “no I have a boyfriend” or the low inhibition ones just straight said “ew not with a ugly fatass like you”

These were my cold approaching days mainly in middle school and early high school

I no longer care to try anymore
 
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  1. What I need to know:
    Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
none of them let me even start speaking
  1. What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”) :forcedsmile:
  2. The Aftermath:
I couldn’t say anything before they ran/speedwalked away
  • Did they look at you like a rapist?
yes
  • Rejected?
yes
  • Did they laugh in your face?
sometimes
  • Did they ignore you?
many times
4. Did it make you MORE or LESS insane? Some say exposure therapy works. Others say it traumatizes you further.
I am deeply traumatized
 
What I need to know:
Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
They gave me the look of disgust immediately. I remember only one instance (out of 100+) where she actually listened.
What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”) :forcedsmile:
I actually don't compliment them at all, cause it feels forced and fake. I just asked them if they wanted to go for a coffee with me sometime. I think as a sub5 you should never cold approach with a compliment.
The Aftermath:
Most of them gave me hard rejections, so just continue walking/doing their thing or making a disgusted face and walking away.
 
 
Got called a creep for making eye contact with her for half a second:feelsrope:
 
One time I was at a skatepark and I tried to start a conversation with a group there and when I did the females present walked away when I started talking. I don’t know why they did this. They came back after I walked away

No the conversation was not sexual
 
I was always rejected brutally. Sometimes, they wouldn't even let me finish speaking. Other times, they looked at me as if I were a rapist. They often laughed at me and walked away.
 
They instantly said they have a boyfriend, some said that they're lesbian, and others just glared at me like I put a gun to their heads, and didn't respond to me.
 
I had a short "just talk to her bro" phase, despite being naturally introverted and high inhib. At the time, I was reading a lot of redpill PUA shit
  1. What I need to know:
    Did they even let you finish speaking? Or did their face immediately twist into “Why is this creature talking to me?”
Usually, no. They either ignored me or cut me off abruptly, saying that they're late
  1. What was your opener? (“Your eyes remind me of my future wife”)
No cheesy opener. I kind of looked for an excuse to start a conversation
  • Did they look at you like a rapist?
Yes, kind of, but I'd say more like a huge stinging insect was flying near them
  • Rejected?
YEs
  • Did they laugh in your face?
No
  • Did they ignore you?
this is the most common reaction
4. Did it make you MORE or LESS insane? Some say exposure therapy works. Others say it traumatizes you further.
Nope - it made it worse. I bought into the redpill bullshit that more rejections become normal and toughen you up, but nope
 
"I have a boyfriend"
 
They would ghost me or rejected me politely but sometimes their body posture was combative.
 
Idk if that counts but I asked out for a date one of my classmates with other ppl around (aka not by text messages)

Retrospectively it sounds retarded af but I still did it

She said yes

Then for a few days I was like "nice i'll finally know what having a gf is like"

And when we were supposed to go out she said "in fact i don't want to"

I ate out alone. And to this day that's the closest I ever got from having a date
 
only once and they pretended i didn't exist when i first asked so i just dropped it
 
Everyone should try cold approchings, even incels. Don't expect instant ascension, of course. Do it to study, gague your SMV and stuff

One of the worst rejections i've got is getting ignored, after asking a JB for her Instagram. She walked past me with this face

Oprah Winfrey GIF


I became more low-inhib and pessimistic with each rejections. My current rejections count is low, maybe if go reach 50 i will become depressed
 

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