Cope “Incels think having a girlfriend will solve their problems.”

[Lazyandtalentless]

People constantly say, “Incels think getting a girlfriend will solve all their problems,” but I do not believe that. Even if I somehow got into a relationship, the deeper issues wouldn’t magically go away.

Lookism would still exist. Society would still treat me differently because of how I look. It’s not like a girlfriend could erase the reality that being unattractive affects how people perceive you—not just in dating, but in jobs, friendships, and even basic respect. Heightism wouldn’t vanish either.

And as an autistic man, ableism is always present. Neurodivergent men are overlooked and misunderstood in almost every social situation. We’re labeled as “creepy” or “weird” just for existing differently. A relationship wouldn’t stop that stigma.

The point is, systemic biases don’t go away with a partner. They’re ingrained in how people treat you every day. Incels aren’t delusional for pointing this out. Having a girlfriend wouldn’t fix these issues; society itself has to change.

This is bigger than relationships—it’s about the way people like me are judged, excluded, and dehumanized. A girlfriend isn’t a solution to a world that constantly reminds me I’m less-than.

 

[Grodd]

Having a loyal girlfriend would solve 85% of my problems

 

[Kaichee]

I think my mental health is a real problem

 

[JKlancecaster069]

Having a girlfriend wouldn't solve all of my problems but it certainly would help.

 

[SilverBullet]

I’d still be in chronic pain and have trauma from years of bullying. Might help me mentally heal a bit IF she truly loves me, wouldnt save me though

 

[Chaircel]

Having a loyal girlfriend would solve 90% of my problems. I'm used to how society treats me and if I had a girlfriend I wouldn't really give a fuck about it (or at least not as much of a fuck about it) anyway. I've got a shit ton of trauma but honestly it's just something I need to live with at the end of the day.

 

[Incedel]

I stopped caring about gfs, now I just care about making them miserable. First step was voting for Trump in 2016 and abolishig WHORE vs WADE

 

[Todd Thundercock]

In my case, not only would a loyal loving life "fix my problems", it would be a benefit for all of society.

I would 100% be a productive wageslave homeowner if a woman mutually loved me.

The penalty for not providing me this is I will collect autismbux and leech every government penny I can for the rest of my life.

 

[Zedmund]

 

[ViciousKanga]

Don't get me wrong I would feel better 100%, but like others have said in this thread all the trauma I've dealt with for being unattractive is permanent and will forever have an impact on the way I view myself/the world.

 

[American_Psycho_X]

Water? A symptom, not the cause, of not fitting a.k.a. being an utter social failure, is not having a gf... or friends... Loneliness and emotional well being though, true love and friends would fix, but where o' where?

 

[AnonWojak]

If you live in a 1st world country all of your vital need are met to a certain degree, shelter and food. Leaving only your 3rd vital need to be met: intimacy, so yes a loyal gf would solve most of an incel's problems.

 

[American_Psycho_X]

If you live in a 1st world country all of your vital need are met to a certain degree, shelter and food. Leaving only your 3rd vital need to be met: intimacy, so yes a loyal gf would solve most of an incel's problems.

Are you talking about Maslow's Hierarchy of needs? There's 5 layers, most people only make it to 2 or 2.5.

 

[cunnylover69]

Lookism would still exist. Society would still treat me differently because of how I look. It’s not like a girlfriend could erase the reality that being unattractive affects how people perceive you—not just in dating, but in jobs, friendships, and even basic respect. Heightism wouldn’t vanish either.

Part of the fantasy of having a girlfriend (that actually loves you and not your money) is the fact that it means you aren't an ugly subhuman. So yeah if some girl wanted to get in a relationship with me it wouldn't solve my problems because she would probably just be trying to use me for something. But if I had a girlfriend who actually loved me for who I am it would mean that my face magically became more attractive and all my mental issues went away. Which of course would mean most of my problems would be gone. And obviously that will never happen without resetting my character in GTA.

Of course normies think they have problems because people get bored with their lives and fuck shit up. Thats just how the mind operates. They will never understand what its like to be hopeless and doomed to be alone for eternity because that problem doesn't exist for them. They experience love and validation and thus can focus on more frivolous matters that only normies care about. Thats why alot of women who transition into incels kill themselves. Their minds cannot deal with the suffering that we experience on a daily basis. Its like being sent directly to hell. No amount of rationale or empathy can make them understand what life is like as an incel, and if they were able to they would literally kill themselves.

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Having a loyal girlfriend would solve 85% of my problems

Probably would solve 60% of my problems

 

[biggestloser]

Probably would solve 60% of my problems

just fucking a foid would solve 100% of my poblems

 

[VideoGameCoper]

just fucking a foid would solve 100% of my poblems

Based

 

[UglyDumbass]

People constantly say, “Incels think getting a girlfriend will solve all their problems,” but I do not believe that. Even if I somehow got into a relationship, the deeper issues wouldn’t magically go away.

Lookism would still exist. Society would still treat me differently because of how I look. It’s not like a girlfriend could erase the reality that being unattractive affects how people perceive you—not just in dating, but in jobs, friendships, and even basic respect. Heightism wouldn’t vanish either.

And as an autistic man, ableism is always present. Neurodivergent men are overlooked and misunderstood in almost every social situation. We’re labeled as “creepy” or “weird” just for existing differently. A relationship wouldn’t stop that stigma.

The point is, systemic biases don’t go away with a partner. They’re ingrained in how people treat you every day. Incels aren’t delusional for pointing this out. Having a girlfriend wouldn’t fix these issues; society itself has to change.

This is bigger than relationships—it’s about the way people like me are judged, excluded, and dehumanized. A girlfriend isn’t a solution to a world that constantly reminds me I’m less-than.

bro a girlfriend wouldn’t even last long Once they find out how much of a damn loser we are

 

[ilieknothing]

A homeless man getting a job and home won’t solve his problems

 

[Limitcel]

sex and a girlfriend are just a symbol that you are well integrated into society
it's like having a house and a car a symbol of financial success

 

[chudjak]

Having a (real life, not fictional perfect nonexistent) woman would not help anyone, it'd actually be a big time and money pit for nothing. Having a GF is simp behavior, who would ever trust a woman like that?

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Well it would solve most of my problems at this point, but since my brain would get used to the new situation and a relationship would probably bring up new problems I would probably bring me back to where Im now in terms of happiness.

But still I want a gf even if I knew that wont give me infinit and everlasting happiness, it would solve my problems that I have now.

 

[Maocel]

People constantly say, “Incels think getting a girlfriend will solve all their problems,” but I do not believe that. Even if I somehow got into a relationship, the deeper issues wouldn’t magically go away.

Lookism would still exist. Society would still treat me differently because of how I look. It’s not like a girlfriend could erase the reality that being unattractive affects how people perceive you—not just in dating, but in jobs, friendships, and even basic respect. Heightism wouldn’t vanish either.

And as an autistic man, ableism is always present. Neurodivergent men are overlooked and misunderstood in almost every social situation. We’re labeled as “creepy” or “weird” just for existing differently. A relationship wouldn’t stop that stigma.

The point is, systemic biases don’t go away with a partner. They’re ingrained in how people treat you every day. Incels aren’t delusional for pointing this out. Having a girlfriend wouldn’t fix these issues; society itself has to change.

This is bigger than relationships—it’s about the way people like me are judged, excluded, and dehumanized. A girlfriend isn’t a solution to a world that constantly reminds me I’m less-than.

pin this saars

 

[Angry_runt]

Having a girlfriend is like a seal of approval from humanity. I know I'd feel a lot better knowing I'm just one of the guys and I have a shot.

 

[turbosperg]

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