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Blackpill "Incels can't get women because they think they have the right to one"

Nordicel94

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I think "right" is confused with "expectation". I think every man and every woman starts out with the expectation to get a woman or a man. It's the basis of our species. In all of culture, everywhere around us, men are getting women, women are getting men. So in a major way people are expecting to have a relationship and in a minor way, people feel entitled to one (because it seems like an everyday thing that will happen).

When incels say "there should be government mandated girlfriends", it's only after all of his natural expectations have been squashed through life experience.

They seem to think that all men who become incel were once 12-year old boys who had the mentality: "I have the RIGHT to have a girlfriend!".

Truth is, both genders are a little entitled to a relationship, they both feel like the world is unfair if they are single for decades.

The explanation: "Incels are incels because they feel entitled to women" is wrong. All men feel somewhat entitled to a relationship with woman since it's a normal part of life.
 
Starving kids in Africa cant get food because they're feeling entitled to eating :)
 
>"Incels can't get women because they think they have the right to one"

I don't think IT deserves having a debate with, this is kindergarten level intelligence.
 
You're owed foid because of social contract. If you don't get one, the contract is not fulfilled, so you don't have an obligation to fulfill your part, which is obedience to laws.
 
Also, if an incel who really feels entitled to have get woman, if he loses that entitlement, what happens to him? Will that result in more matches on Tinder? How can an inner attitude just suddenly make you get girls. Chads act entitled to women all the time, when they do it it's seen as attractive and confident.
 
what they mean by this: redditards expect us to "settle" for 500lbs hamwhale, trannies, etc

no thanks jeff
 
I think "right" is confused with "expectation". I think every man and every woman starts out with the expectation to get a woman or a man. It's the basis of our species. In all of culture, everywhere around us, men are getting women, women are getting men. So in a major way people are expecting to have a relationship and in a minor way, people feel entitled to one (because it seems like an everyday thing that will happen).
Exactly. Just like no kid expects to end up homeless or chronically ill, nobody ever expects to be single for the rest of their lives. You will naturally feel pretty distraught if you ended up in any of those situations. And when your family and society presents relationships as a typical social milestone, you will feel pretty cheated when that doesn't transpire. It often feels like the world is against us. But that doesn't make us bad people. We're just humans with natural desires and expectations.

Normies should be more empathetic towards us. Things are hard enough when you don't have access to sex and relationships. We don't need to be gaslit into believing it's our fault. That's as fucked as trying to convince a dying man that his illness stems from his negative attitude.
 
I think "right" is confused with "expectation". I think every man and every woman starts out with the expectation to get a woman or a man. It's the basis of our species. In all of culture, everywhere around us, men are getting women, women are getting men. So in a major way people are expecting to have a relationship and in a minor way, people feel entitled to one (because it seems like an everyday thing that will happen).

When incels say "there should be government mandated girlfriends", it's only after all of his natural expectations have been squashed through life experience.

They seem to think that all men who become incel were once 12-year old boys who had the mentality: "I have the RIGHT to have a girlfriend!".

Truth is, both genders are a little entitled to a relationship, they both feel like the world is unfair if they are single for decades.

The explanation: "Incels are incels because they feel entitled to women" is wrong. All men feel somewhat entitled to a relationship with woman since it's a normal part of life.
Sex, companionship, romantic love, its not only natural, but necessary for you to be 100% sound of mind, its simple biology really
 
Exactly. Just like no kid expects to end up homeless or chronically ill, nobody ever expects to be single for the rest of their lives. You will naturally feel pretty distraught if you ended up in any of those situations. And when your family and society presents relationships as a typical social milestone, you will feel pretty cheated when that doesn't transpire. It often feels like the world is against us. But that doesn't make us bad people. We're just humans with natural desires and expectations.

Normies should be more empathetic towards us. Things are hard enough when you don't have access to sex and relationships. We don't need to be gaslit into believing it's our fault. That's as fucked as trying to convince a dying man that his illness stems from his negative attitude.
This is very well worded and very clear. I think the issue often isn't that normies don't understand, but that they don't want to hear us complain so they act like it's no big deal and we should stop wanting gfs.
 
 
This is very well worded and very clear. I think the issue often isn't that normies don't understand, but that they don't want to hear us complain so they act like it's no big deal and we should stop wanting gfs.
:yes:

They just want us to suffer in silence for the rest of our lives. Which is funny because that's an extremely entitled attitude to have. Incels aren't owed girlfriends or partners, but we have every right to complain about our predicament.
 
Exactly. Just like no kid expects to end up homeless or chronically ill, nobody ever expects to be single for the rest of their lives. You will naturally feel pretty distraught if you ended up in any of those situations. And when your family and society presents relationships as a typical social milestone, you will feel pretty cheated when that doesn't transpire. It often feels like the world is against us. But that doesn't make us bad people. We're just humans with natural desires and expectations.

Normies should be more empathetic towards us. Things are hard enough when you don't have access to sex and relationships. We don't need to be gaslit into believing it's our fault. That's as fucked as trying to convince a dying man that his illness stems from his negative attitude.
Exactly. It's an expectation, not entitlement. As you say, no one would say that a child with cancer who wants to be healthy is being entitled. The child expected to live a long life like everyone else. Inceldom is the cancer. We expected to have experiences with girls like everyone else.
 
Every normie would be bitter and feel the world is unfair if they were in our situation.
 
People will point out everything they can but they won't admit it's appearance.

As you said, having the expectation of a relationship in life is normal for everyone, but what others normally feel even if they actually manage to have romantic success is used against incels as if it were the reason they are that way

The real thing is that "bad traits" in personality are even romanticized if you are good looking enough, like: shyness, etc.
 

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