Inceldom vs depression

[Fontaine]

I realize this is going to be controversial and again I'm going to get accused of being a Jew, of being brainwashed by (((big pharma))) etc... That being said: since I got my brain submitted to an intense magnetic field a couple of months ago, I have experienced far less negative emotions over my ugliness, deformity, inceldom, loserdom than usual. Far less negative emotions in general. Now I even get random highs that seem to last forever, where I am actually kind of euphoric. It's like my brain self-produces THC.

Which gets me to my point: are you sure inceldom is your only problem? Or that it is a problem inseparable from depression?

Looking back on it, I knew a few guys who were as ugly as me or even uglier back in high school, and they were kinda oblivious to it, perhaps due to high serotonin?

Basically you may very well have got two short sticks instead of one: bad looks, and predisposition to low mood?

 

[FrothySolutions]

I'm pretty sure all incels have more problems besides their inceldom. Not getting laid is just a symptom of the larger crisis at hand.

 

[Fontaine]

I'm pretty sure all incels have more problems besides their inceldom. Not getting laid is just a symptom of the larger crisis at hand.

This is sounding so normie / redditor but you are onto something.

 

[Dab into depression]

I'm pretty sure all incels have more problems besides their inceldom. Not getting laid is just a symptom of the larger crisis at hand.

My theory is It is a mix of outer and inner conflict. Inner: depression
outer: hypergamy in society

 

[jerrycan dan]

Since I was like fourteen I have felt this constant anti-euphoric feeling, like something is weighing/pressing down on my brain as opposed to a light, free feeling that I used to get when I was feeling happy as a kid. Did you get this before you got fixed up? Is it possible that I have clinical depression and jew magnets could help me?

 

[Unwanted]

Do you think that magnetic field therapy could cure my stuttering?

 

[Fontaine]

My theory is It is a mix of outer and inner conflict. Inner: depression
outer: hypergamy in society

Mine is that incels are born not merely with ugliness, but also with a genetic predisposition for low mood (it's called dysthymia and it's recognized as a medical disorder)

Since I was like fourteen I have felt this constant anti-euphoric feeling, like something is weighing/pressing down on my brain as opposed to a light, free feeling that I used to get when I was feeling happy as a kid. Did you get this before you got fixed up? Is it possible that I have clinical depression and jew magnets could help me?

Do you have this sensation at the back of your skull?

I also had the thing you describe, it was located near the back of my skull. And it was a symptom of MDD. I fixed it with magnets. I don't have it anymore, I feel like a child again, it's even kinda freaky.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I noticed people who are worse off than me and aren't as affected with depression.

However, they still show typical signs of poor mental health or balance, like low motivation and poor sleep. They can't just make something out of nothing.

I hold back now from trying to "wake them up" to my reality, it would only create more suffering

 

[jerrycan dan]

Do you have this sensation at the back of your skull?

I also had the thing you describe, it was located near the back of my skull. And it was a symptom of MDD. I fixed it with magnets. I don't have it anymore, I feel like a child again, it's even kinda freaky.

Top, front and back, but strongest on the middle-top of my head.
Did it contribute to brain fog and a general lack of motivation to do anything before you got it fixed? When I was 13 I was top of my grade in maths, now I'm garbage with anything beyond basic geometry because of extreme brain fog.

 

[Mik_TFL]

I think most of us here have a multitude of problems, what isn't clear is to which degree they are causes from each other.
I suspect the most common chain is as follows:
inceldom -> loneliness (+ lack of affection and intimacy) -> depression
however, I also suspect this one is common:
an form of shyness-> social development problems (+ having at least a bit of "the ugly") -> inceldom
or self feeding loops like:
inceldom->anger->apathy->inceldom
inceldom->nihilism-> lack of ambition->inceldom

I really believe a lot of us could greatly improve the quality of our lives if we managed to lifemaxx for a relatively long period of time (6 ~ 18 months) at least half everyone here could potentially escape inceldom

 

[ShadowMonk]

They compliment each other, don't they. Who wants to date someone who is depressed? Who don't get depressed facing constant rejection and loneliness.
I am sure it plays a role. Maybe up to 15% as important as a good jawline.

 

[Fontaine]

Top, front and back, but strongest on the middle-top of my head.
Did it contribute to brain fog and a general lack of motivation to do anything before you got it fixed? When I was 13 I was top of my grade in maths, now I'm garbage with anything beyond basic geometry because of extreme brain fog.

That's definitely major depressive disorder. Your life story aligns with mine. It ruins school performance even more surely than low IQ, it's a scandal that it's not taken more seriously in the West.

MDD is also very vicious because superficially, you still feel smart... And you are actually able to keep reaching high performance in subjects that you like the most (like posting about social decay on internet forums). But in reality, your intelligence has been ruined... You've become a retard who can do only a few specific tricks.

Try TMS, I guess? Or anything really. A SNRI, anything. Depression is brain cancer. Instead of killing you physically, it kills everything else.

 

[jerrycan dan]

That's definitely major depressive disorder. Your life story aligns with mine. It ruins school performance even more surely than low IQ, it's a scandal that it's not taken more seriously in the West.

MDD is also very vicious because superficially, you still feel smart... And you are actually able to keep reaching high performance in subjects that you like the most (like posting about social decay on internet forums). But in reality, your intelligence has been ruined... You've become a retard who can do only a few specific tricks.

Try TMS, I guess? Or anything really. A SNRI, anything. Depression is brain cancer. Instead of killing you physically, it kills everything else.

Will I become less of a retard if I take meds/do TMS or is my brain cooked for good?

 

[acnescarcel]

id rather just get high

 

[Spite]

I'm pretty sure all incels have more problems besides their inceldom. Not getting laid is just a symptom of the larger crisis at hand.

elab

 

[Fontaine]

Will I become less of a retard if I take meds/do TMS or is my brain cooked for good?

My intelligence got back to normal after TMS. Per my understanding MDD doesn't destroy neurons, it just prevents them from being adequately stimulated (due to the lack of proper neurotransmitters in the synapses).

 

[Life Wasted]

Nah inceldom isn't my only problem, I got other issues, depression included, they all tie in together in one way or another.

 

[FrothySolutions]

elab

Take me for instance. I'm not getting laid. But I'm also overcome with self-loathing, I hate that I'm 45 and haven't lived. I hate that no one cares, and I hate that people care about other people's struggles but not mine.

 

[incel-american]

@Fontaine, thanks for using the word "dysthmia." I've always had persistent low-mood and have experienced several bouts of major depression but the dyshmia is the bane of my life. The only medical solution I've found for it is cannabis, which elevates my mood to where I can actually start receiving pleasure from leisurely activities.

 

[Mainländer]

Not to mention you seem to be able to read a thousand books at the same time now. Your attention spam has also improved or was already good?

 

[Deleted member 6214]

The procedure you had done... what are the details of it? I vaguely remember you saying you were going to get your brain fried.

Does it have any side effects?

 

[MaxZM98]

why was your brain exposed to an intense magnetic field?

 

[Deleted member 5861]

My depression comes from my cynicism and misanthropy, not inceldom. Im sure i would still feel this way if i were a billionaire gigachad.

 

[incel-american]

Honestly, how can you be educated about reality -- the fact that life is a random growth on a random rock hurling through a dark, cold, and seemingly infinite universe and where in order to survive this life that's confined to what is basically an island must feed on itself -- and not get depressed?

 

[everythingislava]

and not get depressed?

Be on top of the food chain.

 

[Albero]

I am a happy person, and simultaneously the biggest coper of all this website.
Thinking about my condition is what saddens me out frequently, that is why I am here since June and only got this ammount of posts, I tend not too spend too much time here remembering how much of a genetical failure I am.

The best thing an incel could do is to give up for life and stop ranting or self-feeding with suifui threads and decide to pursue something instead. We truecels are never ascending anyways.

 

[engineerescortceler]

Inceldom makes it 1000x harder to make friends and long lasting friendships, meet new people, get a girlfriend, and pretty much kills any chance to have a good social life.

That's why it's linked to depression. Stop acting like they are independent. Do you really think it's possible to be depressed when your oneitis won't stop messaging you and is wanting to date you while 5 other girls are trying to win you over, and when any day that you go partying at least 1 girl approaches you and tells you she wants to have some time with you alone? Is it really possible to be depressed when you know a group of 5 hot stacies are talking constantly about how they'd bang you any day?

 

[Asianmanletcel]

Being tormented in your life leads to depression, why? because you're subhuman that connects to inceldom that leads to even more depression.

 

[Incelhope]

best post of september high iq thread

 

[Johny.speiz]

I have a lifelong depression.

When I was a child I was constantly bullied and assaulted. I was awkward in social situations. Scapegoat. Almost always lonely. This caused me depression. I can't even remember a lasting moment of happiness and joy, but I remember well those situations were I was mocked and molested, the cries, the desolation and solitude, long before I was interested by girls, and the pain that goes along.

I think that depression is caused by society, it's not an inherent thing.