Blackpill Inceldom is so much more than the lack of sex

[NothingButALoser]

Lack of relationships whether they are casual, long term or marriage absolutely destroys your life quality. Your actions have literally 0 meaning as an incel. Why? Because you have noone to care for, noone to fight for.

Say for example you work at a company. You make money just so that you can sustain yourself just so that you can work the next day. It's a loop. A normie with a family though, has a reason to keep going because he is contributing money to his household in order to ensure a good life quality for his children and wife.

You are not a family oriented man? Fine. Here is another example: You are incel in college. You study to get your deegree so that you can study abroad. What for though? You know it won't get you laid. You only study in order to escape your current enviroment and establish yourself in a new one simply because YOU HAVE LOST IT when it comes to dating.

A normie or chad on the other hand is studying purely out of ambition. He wants to pursue further goals in life, achieve more things. He is getting his dose of pussy and since he has taken care of his seuxal needs he can invest time in his career in order to better himself and make his gf proud. He has something to work for, something to fight for.

TL;DR No matter what you do as an incel it's uterrly pointless. Life is all about sharing experiences with your partners. Anything you achieve alone will just disappear in the sands of time.

 

[Diet_Choke]

Well your title says, "Inceldom is so much more than lack of sex."

But your post says, "Without sex, there's no point in doing anything."

All it really tells me is that you're really, really unhappy being incel, but that there's something deeper going on.

Perhaps an inability to connect with people.

Or an inability to see life as anything but work -> pay rent -> sleep -> work.

Which boils down to not being NT, rather than being ugly.

You know what I'd advise you?

I'd advise you to give it time, and make an effort to actually have a social life.

Don't focus on sex/women but just try to develop your ability to relate and connect with people.

Most of the guys around here are 18,19,20 with hormones running wild.

Make a note of that and try to tone down the thirst.

But do make an effort to interact and be "part of society."

 

[NothingButALoser]

Well your title says, "Inceldom is so much more than lack of sex."

But your post says, "Without sex, there's no point in doing anything."

All it really tells me is that you're really, really unhappy being incel, but that there's something deeper going on.

Perhaps an inability to connect with people.

Or an inability to see life as anything but work -> pay rent -> sleep -> work.

Which boils down to not being NT, rather than being ugly.

You know what I'd advise you?

I'd advise you to give it time, and make an effort to actually have a social life.

Don't focus on sex/women but just try to develop your ability to relate and connect with people.

Most of the guys around here are 18,19,20 with hormones running wild.

Make a note of that and try to tone down the thirst.

But do make an effort to interact and be "part of society."

IT infiltrator spotted

 

[Diet_Choke]

IT infiltrator spotted

My post sounds red pill.

Your post sounds blue pill.

 

[BFP]

OP is Legit

 

[newcel997]

OP is Legit

id be happy with a sexless relationship

 

[BFP]

id be happy with a sexless relationship

You can get sex by other means, you can masturbate, you can escortcel
But emotional validation and companionship is impossible to get without a true relationship

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

For me is't just about being ugly and that is pretty much it.

 

[newcel997]

You can get sex by other means, you can masturbate, you can escortcel
But emotional validation and companionship is impossible to get without a true relationship

exactly. the compassion means so much more

 

[NYincel]

You can get sex by other means, you can masturbate, you can escortcel
But emotional validation and companionship is impossible to get without a true relationship

That is what marriage used to be, you married young and had a lifetime of that. I'm sure there wasn't sex all the time but having someone is key to human nature.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I agree. I would rather choose a sexless happy relationship than just having sex

 

[NothingButALoser]

I agree. I would rather choose a sexless happy relationship than just having sex

I'm not saying sex isn't important. I'm saying that it's not just that . Inceldom affects (infects tbh) other areas of your life too because women ar ein fact important

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I'm not saying sex isn't important. I'm saying that it's not just that . Inceldom affects (infects tbh) other areas of your life too because women ar ein fact important

I know but I just wanted to say that I value relationships more than sex

 

[ToxicAlcoholSyndrome]

You can blame feminism and marxism for destroying the traditional family. Women rule the world and make it so that the man loses and womyns succeed. Because of how we've forwarded in time, all women now have this imaginary indoctrinated viewpoint that being an anti-male narcissistic cunt is how to "beat the man" and to be "independent", etc. At this point, there's no need for it and men shouldn't even get married. Having a girlfriend is different, because if there's complications (usually stemming from the cunt), you don't have the government involved/contract that gives her all the power, therefore, making it easier for you (the man) to get the fuck out without much problems. If I was the average man, I'd say "fuck it", since marriage is a fucking joke.

Sure, it sucks, but in the long run, at least you're not getting divorce raped or bombarded by whorebags.

 

[Robtical]

"No matter what you do as an incel it's uterrly pointless. Life is all about sharing experiences with your partners. Anything you achieve alone will just disappear in the sands of time."

That means your partner will be everything to you. If she dies you will be very sad. An escortcel won't have that burden because he will just be banging random women for the sake of draining his nutsack and nothing more. An incel can also get validation and share life experiences with friends and family or even online groups.

 

[NothingButALoser]

"No matter what you do as an incel it's uterrly pointless. Life is all about sharing experiences with your partners. Anything you achieve alone will just disappear in the sands of time."

That means your partner will be everything to you. If she dies you will be very sad. An escortcel won't have that burden because he will just be banging random women for the sake of draining his nutsack and nothing more. An incel can also get validation and share life experiences with friends and family or even online groups.

Yes, your patner is everything to you. That's why you try to have 2 or 3 girls simultaneously so that you are never alone

 

[Robtical]

I know but I just wanted to say that I value relationships more than sex

Would you be the betabux in a sexless relationship?

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Would you be the betabux in a sexless relationship?

No it should be a meaningful relationship (My personality/interestmatch)

 

[Robtical]

Because of how we've forwarded in time, all women now have this imaginary indoctrinated viewpoint that being an anti-male narcissistic cunt is how to "beat the man" and to be "independent", etc. At this point, there's no need for it and men shouldn't even get married. Having a girlfriend is different, because if there's complications (usually stemming from the cunt), you don't have the government involved/contract that gives her all the power, therefore, making it easier for you (the man) to get the fuck out without much problems. If I was the average man, I'd say "fuck it", since marriage is a fucking joke.

Sure, it sucks, but in the long run, at least you're not getting divorce raped or bombarded by whorebags.

 

[Deleted member 3725]

I'm not saying sex isn't important. I'm saying that it's not just that . Inceldom affects (infects tbh) other areas of your life too because women ar ein fact important

The lack gives us a scarcity mentality. It ends up consuming us. Vicious cycle tbh

 

[Robtical]

No it should be a meaningful relationship (My personality/interestmatch)

I wouldn't mind being in a sexless relationship with a girl I like, as long as all she's getting from me is my time and personality, and not money or favors.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I wouldn't mind being in a sexless relationship with a girl I like, as long as all she's getting from me is my time and personality, and not money or favors.

Exactly. I think kissing / cuddling would be enough and I could do lots of fun shit with her

 

[Robinxyz]

Everything we do and achieve is meaningless. We live in hell. We're already dead.

 

[NothingButALoser]

Everything we do and achieve is meaningless. We live in hell. We're already dead.

Inncels should just mass sui

 

[Robtical]

Exactly. I think kissing / cuddling would be enough and I could do lots of fun shit with her

That would be pretty cool, she'll be like your best friend you can make out with and sleep next to. That was my dream in elementary school.

 

[Kointo1]

Well your title says, "Inceldom is so much more than lack of sex."

But your post says, "Without sex, there's no point in doing anything."

All it really tells me is that you're really, really unhappy being incel, but that there's something deeper going on.

Perhaps an inability to connect with people.

Or an inability to see life as anything but work -> pay rent -> sleep -> work.

Which boils down to not being NT, rather than being ugly.

You know what I'd advise you?

I'd advise you to give it time, and make an effort to actually have a social life.

Don't focus on sex/women but just try to develop your ability to relate and connect with people.

Most of the guys around here are 18,19,20 with hormones running wild.

Make a note of that and try to tone down the thirst.

But do make an effort to interact and be "part of society."

Take a look at all this BS.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

That would be pretty cool, she'll be like your best friend you can make out with and sleep next too. That was my dream in elementary school.

The sad thing is that it will only remain a dream...

 

[NothingButALoser]

Or mass ER?

That would be good too

 

[Cuck]

You can get sex by other means, you can masturbate, you can escortcel
But emotional validation and companionship is impossible to get without a true relationship

 

[Robtical]

The sad thing is that it will only remain a dream...

lol, thanks for the support

 

[Deleted member 2119]

lol, thanks for the support

That's at least true for me.

I don't know how your situation is

 

[Zyros]

TL;DR No matter what you do as an incel it's uterrly pointless. Life is all about sharing experiences with your partners. Anything you achieve alone will just disappear in the sands of time.

To be honest anything that you do even if not alone will dissapear in the sands of time.

Inceldom is more about being objectively inferior and automatically treated worse in every facet of life by default.

Inceldom is about the universe wanting you gone.

 

[Kointo1]

To be honest anything that you do even if not alone will dissapear in the sands of time.

Inceldom is more about being objectively inferior and automatically treated worse in every facet of life by default.

Inceldom is about the universe wanting you gone.

*Humanity wanting you gone. The universe doesn't and can't care. Although, the rest of this post is correct.

 

[NothingButALoser]

To be honest anything that you do even if not alone will dissapear in the sands of time.

Inceldom is more about being objectively inferior and automatically treated worse in every facet of life by default.

Inceldom is about the universe wanting you gone.

Same thing, different perspective. Kinda hard for you to understand what an emotional void is

 

[Zyros]

Same thing, different perspective. Kinda hard for you to understand what an emotional void is

not hard at all

 

[KyloRen]

 

[NothingButALoser]

not hard at all

Try going for sex or relationships your whole life then come back and lecture me on nihilism

 

[Zyros]

Try going for sex or relationships your whole life then come back and lecture me on nihilism

I was sexless handoldless relationshipless everythingless virgin until 22. Also disrespected in almost every social circle I ever had until then, and bullied trough all high school, so I think I know about it.

 

[NothingButALoser]

I was sexless handoldless relationshipless everythingless virgin until 22. Also disrespected in almost every social circle I ever had until then, and bullied trough all high school, so I think I know about it.

Even if you do, your perspective is that of an outside observer. You are like a reporter not a victim

 

[Kointo1]

Even if you do, your perspective is that of an outside observer. You are like a reporter not a victim

Shall I be the victim then? What he says is true.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

IT infiltrator spotted

Troll perhaps? He did begin and end in quotation marks

 

[NothingButALoser]

Shall I be the victim then? What he says is true.

Then you have a low sex drive

 

[Deleted member 4159]

I get what OP is saying. You cant deny your humanity. Sex isnt necessarily about happiness, its about getting the monkey off your back so you can focus on what really matters

 

[Kointo1]

Then you have a low sex drive

No I don't. I just realize that everything is pointless, and everything will fade away with time.

 

[NothingButALoser]

I get what OP is saying. You cant deny your humanity. Sex isnt necessarily about happiness, its about getting the monkey off your back so you can focus on what really matters

This, this, this. Sexual frustration is a legti problem and no amount of waning can comapre to a mere handjob

 

[NothingButALoser]

No I don't. I just realize that everything is pointless, and everything will fade away with time.

If you had a high sex drive you would realize that as a human, it's your connections with people that give value to your life

 

[Robtical]

That's at least true for me.

I don't know how your situation is

It's not that good because I'm broke and pretty awkward around new people. I have good height and slim with a nice beard, but my face is a 5-6. Hopefully if I change countries I'll get some better action.

 

[Kointo1]

If you had a high sex drive you would realize that as a human, it's your connections with people that give value to your life

Nothing gives value to life. Life has no intrinsic value.

 

[NothingButALoser]

Nothing gives value to life. Life has no intrinsic value.

Value is a relative term

 

[Kointo1]

Value is a relative term

The answer is still the same. It's only an illusion of purpose.