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There are many types of addicts. Some are addicted to drugs, while others prefer alcohol. I, on the other hand, am addicted to pornography.

How does this relate to inceldom, you might ask? In order to answer that, you have to ask yourselves what sort of factors lead to addiction in the first place. According to this study conducted in 2014, loneliness and mental health issues are a risk factor when it comes to substance abuse.


Another study (shown here) finds a connection between dugs and mental illness.


While this post is primarily about porn addiction, the reason why I am using drugs as an example is because both are relatively similar in the effect they have on your brain.


"The review leads to the conclusion that Internet pornography addiction fits into the addiction framework and shares similar basic mechanisms with SUBSTANCE ADDICTION."

One of the primary reasons why drugs are so addictive is because they interfere with your natural dopamine receptors. If you didn't know, dopamine is a neurotransmitter who's purpose is to reward you with feelings of "pleasure" and "contentment" whenever you fulfil a biological impulse such as eating, having sex, etc. However, both porn AND drugs mess with these natural receptors, providing us with an artificial "high" despite the fact that we haven't done anything to earn it. This causes our primitive lizard brains to associate drugs and porn with "feeling good" and seek those things out more and more.

In the case of porn, we jerk off so much to the point where our dopamine receptors become "numb" which is why porn addicts often seek out increasingly extreme material in order to recreate that first "high"

Below is a graph that compares porn consumption to the usage of heroin.



As incels, we are pretty much forced to rely on pornography in order to cope. It's why so many guys here possess some rather niche fetishes, (feet, rape, loli, etc) because your average incel started watching porn at around 13 (or even younger) and never had the opportunity to develop healthy sexual behaviors. While our peers were at least interacting with the opposite sex on a daily basis, we sat at home browsing sites such as xhamster and paheal.net in order to fill that void. This is why the teenlovepill is so important, because instead of being raised by experience through healthy sexual experimentation, we were raised by porn.

Whenever I find myself haunted by my failures and unable to fall asleep, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself feeling feeling lonely and in desire of a girlfriend, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself anxious, stressed, or unable to cope with something, what do I do? I masturbate. I've turned masturbation into a natural antidepressant because it's the only way I can truly "detach" myself from reality and put all of those negative thoughts at bay. In that temporary moment ecstasy, it doesn't matter—none of it does. It doesn't matter that I'm a 22 year old KHHV, it doesn't matter that society is a whole is getting worse and worse, (increase in hookup culture, market inflation, declining family values, etc) NOTHING. All that matters is the pleasure that I am currently experiencing. In my case, this is another reason why I've been getting off to more "extreme" material, because it's just another way to numb the pain. In the past, I used to jerk off to the thought of having a loving girlfriend, (the usual bluepilled crap you see everywhere) but now there are times where I need to look at hardcore BDSM where the girl is crying in order to get my rocks off. I've reached a point where being in a loving relationship is something completely alien to me, and all of that love" has been replaced by uncontrollable anger.

In truth, I absolutely loathe what I've become. I don't want to be a porn addicted degenerate anymore. But unfortunately, it's all I have anymore to keep me from going insane. If there was just ONE girl on this entire planet who who wasn't a whore and willing to give me a chance, I would quit porn altogether. (I'd imagine many of you guys would as well) Would it be an incredibly difficult thing to do? Yes. However, I would DEFINITELY feel motivated enough to try.

In conclusion, the reason why so many of us are addicted to porn is because it's our only way to cope with the fact that we lack something as basic as emotional and sexual intimacy. :blackpill:
 
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I can't jack off more than once a day without my dick hurting and I cum in less than 5 minutes.:feelsohgod:
Why am I so subhuman that I can't even have porn addiction!
 
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remincel said:
In conclusion, the reason why so many of us are addicted to porn is because it's our only way to cope with the fact that we lack something as basic as emotional and sexual intimacy.
Yes, I strongly believe this too. I would never choose porn over sex, at least I don't think so.

I am also addicted to porn, and I developed fetishes that are nothing but sickening. People, even on this forum would probably consider me moral scum.
Zer0/∞ said:
I can't jack off more than once a day without my dick hurting and I cum in less than 5 minutes.:feelsohgod:
jfl literally over bro :feelshaha:
 
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Arescel said:
I am also addicted to porn, and I developed fetishes that are nothing but sickening. People, even on this forum would probably consider me moral scum.
Being honest with you, I have watched so much fucked up shit that nothing shocks me anymore.

Seriously, I think there isn't one type of porn in this whole world I haven't watched. So what are you addicted to, necrophilia or child porn?

I really don't feel anything nowadays.
 
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Being honest with you, I have watched so much fucked up shit that nothing shocks me anymore.

Seriously, I think there isn't one type of porn in this whole world I haven't watched. So what are you addicted to, necrophilia or child porn?

I really don't feel anything nowadays.
I'm keeping it to myself. Normies would honestly bash me to death with a hammer if they knew. :feelsLSD:
 
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Arescel said:
I'm keeping it to myself. Normies would honestly bash me to death with a hammer if they knew. :feelsLSD:
sissy cuck bbc bull hypno porn.:ha..feels::feelsthink:
 
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remincel said:
Whenever I find myself haunted by my failures and unable to fall asleep, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself feeling feeling lonely and in desire of a girlfriend, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself anxious, stressed, or unable to cope with something, what do I do? I masturbate. I've turned masturbation into a natural antidepressant because it's the only way I can truly "detach" myself from reality and put all of those negative thoughts at bay.
Very relatable.

Yes, porn is a drug and should be banned tbh. Jacking off 5 times a day to degenerate fetishes is not healthy no matter how you look at it.
 
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Zer0/∞ said:
sissy cuck bbc bull hypno porn.:ha..feels::feelsthink:
Nigger get your shit together. You'd join me if only you knew :feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
 
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Apparently, porn has lowered my inhibition as well. I don't feel anxious or sensitive nor do I care about the feelings of others when I sexually fantasize about what I want, and this is mainly because of extreme porn I had been watching.
 
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Arescel said:
Yes, I strongly believe this too. I would never choose porn over sex, at least I don't think so.

I am also addicted to porn, and I developed fetishes that are nothing but sickening. People, even on this forum would probably consider me moral scum.
Exactly, what's the point of porn if you get sex on a regular basis? Porn isn't natural, it's a purely artificial concept.

Same here, there are things I've fapped to in the past that I still haven't told anyone about because of how disgusting they are. The thing is, I likely never would have stooped to that level if I grew up normally and didn't have to turn to porn as a child in order to combat my increasing loneliness.

It's over bro. :feelsrope:
Zer0/∞ said:
I can't jack off more than once a day without my dick hurting and I cum in less than 5 minutes.:feelsohgod:
Why am I so subhuman that I can't even have porn addiction!
Tfw your genetics are so awful that your dick can't even function normally.
 
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remincel said:
there are things I've fapped to in the past that I still haven't told anyone about because of how disgusting they are. The thing is, I likely never would have stooped to that level if I grew up normally and didn't have to turn to porn as a child in order to combat my increasing loneliness.
Yes, I am 100% with you here. But in all honesty, I fap to terrible things. Regularly. But there is only one thing that I truly wish I never fapped to. It's a fap that haunts me, and I will take it with me to my grave.

I was in a bad place at that time, regarding my addiction but I will never stoop so low again. That's at least what I am hoping for. :fuk:
Most of my other faps are to morally corrupt stuff anyways, but I still don't mind.
 
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Zer0/∞ said:
sissy cuck bbc bull hypno porn.:ha..feels::feelsthink:
For the past few weeks I’ve exclusively watched chubby/overweight women in an attempt to develop a fetish for them. I think it’s working.
 
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Pornography is less physically harmful than heroine, but it's very likely a tougher addiction to quit.

In order to get heroin, you must look for a dealer, have money, prepare the syringes and all the other items, etc.

In order to access pornography you just need internet connection (which most people nowadays have 24/7) and a couple of clicks and taps. The temptation is there basically all the time as you work/play/do the other things you have to do while online.
 
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For the past few weeks I’ve exclusively watched chubby/overweight women in an attempt to develop a fetish for them. I think it’s working.

Can you get hard to these women?:feelssus:
 
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Zer0/∞ said:
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Can you get hard to these women?:feelssus:
I’m not talking like 300 lbs+

Maybe 200-250 is what I can get hard to now. I’m about 120 lbs so they massmog me to oblivion.
 
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OP is genius x10. Thanks for taking the time putting this altogether.
 
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Porn is meh . I like IRL creepin much better
 
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Great thread.
Porn addiction is tough, it rots your mind and soul, turning you into a degenerate.
 
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I agree that porn addiction is something incels should be aware of. There needs to be a fine line between addiction and just liking something. If you are jerking off to porn in the restroom of your school or work then that is addiction. Jerking off at the end of the day, I say not addiction. If it interferes with your life.

As for jerking off to "extreme" content. I don't really believe the idea that compulsive porn watching leads to more extreme fetishes. Seems more like your thought patterns are already screwed and porn just lets you figure it out as you are exposed to more media. I have watched plenty of adult content and have hit limits where my mind told me I did not like this. You can show me dick shitting nipples 200 times and I am still not going to like it.

How I got over my "porn addiction" is to jerk off to whatever I wanted got bored. If you keep repressing your desires all you are doing is feeding a loop of feelings where you feel bad because you are a coomer and can't get pass that because you keep relapsing so you keep feeling bad because you are a coomer and the cycle goes on.

If you honestly feel bad about jerking off at for example scat, then you can't tell your mind to stop finding it arousing. The only thing you can do is one of those cogitative cope therapy where you trick you mind into thinking another way by trying to associate it with something you actually find disgusting. But the feeling will always be there, hence why pedophiles and homosexuals are incurable.

Also source on the picture of the brain on porn addiction? I think that is a troll image that gets passed around forums.

tdrl: you were a degenerate from the start because you mind if fucked from inceldom
 
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I can relate to this post in many ways, I have battled with porn addiction throughout my life. The longest I have gone without watching porn is one month and I always seem to to give myself excuses to watch it and trick myself into watching it . I think its one of the fact why I am an incel because it robs you of the energy of putting effort into finding a real partner because you can always use porn and escorts to fullfill your needs. it s a vicious circle that I am trapped in
 
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Arescel said:
I fap to terrible things. Regularly. But there is only one thing that I truly wish I never fapped to. It's a fap that haunts me, and I will take it with me to my grave.
:what::fbi::fbi::fbi::fbi::fbi::fbi: You are glowing
 
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Never fapped to hentai might try it. :ahegao:
 
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Arescel said:
I am also addicted to porn, and I developed fetishes that are nothing but sickening. People, even on this forum would probably consider me moral scum.
What kind of fetishes we talking about here? Guro? Corruption/Identity Death?
 
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I don't think i have an addiction tbh
 
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remincel said:
There are many types of addicts. Some are addicted to drugs, while others prefer alcohol. I, on the other hand, am addicted to pornography.

How does this relate to inceldom, you might ask? In order to answer that, you have to ask yourselves what sort of factors lead to addiction in the first place. According to this study conducted in 2014, loneliness and mental health issues are a risk factor when it comes to substance abuse.


Another study (shown here) finds a connection between dugs and mental illness.


While this post is primarily about porn addiction, the reason why I am using drugs as an example is because both are relatively similar in the effect they have on your brain.


"The review leads to the conclusion that Internet pornography addiction fits into the addiction framework and shares similar basic mechanisms with SUBSTANCE ADDICTION."

One of the primary reasons why drugs are so addictive is because they interfere with your natural dopamine receptors. If you didn't know, dopamine is a neurotransmitter who's purpose is to reward you with feelings of "pleasure" and "contentment" whenever you fulfil a biological impulse such as eating, having sex, etc. However, both porn AND drugs mess with these natural receptors, providing us with an artificial "high" despite the fact that we haven't done anything to earn it. This causes our primitive lizard brains to associate drugs and porn with "feeling good" and seek those things out more and more.

In the case of porn, we jerk off so much to the point where our dopamine receptors become "numb" which is why porn addicts often seek out increasingly extreme material in order to recreate that first "high"

Below is a graph that compares porn consumption to the usage of heroin.

View attachment 509222

As incels, we are pretty much forced to rely on pornography in order to cope. It's why so many guys here possess some rather niche fetishes, (feet, rape, loli, etc) because your average incel started watching porn at around 13 (or even younger) and never had the opportunity to develop healthy sexual behaviors. While our peers were at least interacting with the opposite sex on a daily basis, we sat at home browsing sites such as xhamster and paheal.net in order to fill that void. This is why the teenlovepill is so important, because instead of being raised by experience through healthy sexual experimentation, we were raised by porn.

Whenever I find myself haunted by my failures and unable to fall asleep, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself feeling feeling lonely and in desire of a girlfriend, what do I do? I masturbate. Whenever I find myself anxious, stressed, or unable to cope with something, what do I do? I masturbate. I've turned masturbation into a natural antidepressant because it's the only way I can truly "detach" myself from reality and put all of those negative thoughts at bay. In that temporary moment ecstasy, it doesn't matter—none of it does. It doesn't matter that I'm a 22 year old KHHV, it doesn't matter that society is a whole is getting worse and worse, (increase in hookup culture, market inflation, declining family values, etc) NOTHING. All that matters is the pleasure that I am currently experiencing. In my case, this is another reason why I've been getting off to more "extreme" material, because it's just another way to numb the pain. In the past, I used to jerk off to the thought of having a loving girlfriend, (the usual bluepilled crap you see everywhere) but now there are times where I need to look at hardcore BDSM where the girl is crying in order to get my rocks off. I've reached a point where being in a loving relationship is something completely alien to me, and all of that love" has been replaced by uncontrollable anger.

In truth, I absolutely loathe what I've become. I don't want to be a porn addicted degenerate anymore. But unfortunately, it's all I have anymore to keep me from going insane. If there was just ONE girl on this entire planet who who wasn't a whore and willing to give me a chance, I would quit porn altogether. (I'd imagine many of you guys would as well) Would it be an incredibly difficult thing to do? Yes. However, I would DEFINITELY feel motivated enough to try.

In conclusion, the reason why so many of us are addicted to porn is because it's our only way to cope with the fact that we lack something as basic as emotional and sexual intimacy. :blackpill:
this is my problem also,
whenever i fail, am anxious, am socially rejected, have a negative experience basically anything negative happens in real life, I immediately go straight to porn to "get high".
The problem is this is not so bad in and of itself however I have found it creeps into all aspects of your life, where even when you are slightly bored and need "excitement" the rush to watch porn is huge, it becomes the go to activity instead of a healthy cope like, art, reading, playing chess, programming, etc etc.

This is when you know you have a problem, the creeping into replacing every other activity you do when you have off time, this is when shit gets pathetic.

My urge now is fuckingtitanic and its almost impossible for me to resist

I get this feeling also, a zombie numb feeling when i go over averaging 2 faps a day, my brain and body become very weak, i feel groggy alll the time and in a haze its an awful feeling, but the urge is so strong to pump a hole that i will willingly put myself in this state time and time again, that is what is depressing me so much.

I know this is hurting me i know the state of being in this haze is super unnatural and is caused by the depletion and physical exhaustion caused by excessive pmo, but the drive is so huge i cant stop myself from seeking the high, like A FUCKING DRUG ADDICT.

saying this im going on a nofap mission starting today
 
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yes, your conclusion is correct, however, those images displayed on the OP are misleading. for arriving at a conclusion as such, they'd need to isolate internet consumption or time spent. anyone who's spending so much time watching pornography is also spending much more time on the internet in general, including nofappers themselves, which is very ironic as for their claims regarding ,,addiction bad" they demonstrate no metacognition or observatory skills whatsoever just parroting the videos they saw.
 
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I feel much better without fapping.
No-Fap is the way
 
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I’ve been masturbating a lot recently. I WILL STOP wtf. Dopamine on demand like that is braindeath.
 
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Cristo said:
I’ve been masturbating a lot recently. I WILL STOP wtf. Dopamine on demand like that is braindeath.
do you get the zombie like state where your ability to reason and think and creativity goes to zero, i my opinion its literally like an inverse relationship the more porn i watch the less productive both mentally and physically less creative decisive, virile
 
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Simulacrasimulation said:
do you get the zombie like state where your ability to reason and think and creativity goes to zero, i my opinion its literally like an inverse relationship the more porn i watch the less productive both mentally and physically less creative decisive, virile

This is accurate.

Also I would say I have a porn addiction. I waste too much time watching it and masturbating, and do it once a day on average.
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I masturbate 6 times on a weak day

Youngcels and their GigaChad levels of sex drive.
 
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I just wanted to open a thread on a similar topic these days. Maybe I will when I find the motivation to write it :feelsbadman:
 
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I am a porn addict.

I love me some hot and cute girls.

It might be fueling my inceldom.

It might not.
 
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I like porn of hotties.
 
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aardvoaardvark said:
I am a porn addict.

I love me some hot and cute girls.

It might be fueling my inceldom.

It might not.
 
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Drop these vices, look for a God
 
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im addicted to pharms, weed and kratom. porn is just a boredom thing for me, getting really high on weed and gabapentin makes fapping feel soooooooo good
 
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so what if you drop watching porn? you are still ugly and short, whats the point?
 
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just smoke a dart lol :feelsdevil:
HeroinNihilism said:
im addicted to pharms, weed and kratom. porn is just a boredom thing for me, getting really high on weed and gabapentin makes fapping feel soooooooo good
Now this guys got the right idea, OP.
 
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I don't watch much porn these days.

I think that cope has run its course.
 
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This is what I've been trying to say for a very long time.

They are selling men porn despite the negative effects of it because it's a billion dollar industry, they're never gonna stop.

I was big coomer years ago (Even when I was like 13 I was jerking off 3-6 times a day depending on my mood).
 
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very important thread, and very true.
 
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