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incel trait: you totally abandoned your HS friends

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I totally abandoned my HS friends after i matriculated, the reason is they were not REALLY my "friends", they were just buddies i had hang out with, i Had absolutely ZERO trust in them, they would never have my back in any fight, i ignored the "you alive!? " messages on whatsapp, one was bratty with a annoying face and the other one was the biggest loser of the grade, i never disrepected them ever that was one of the very few things i have been good at my whole life, not disrepecting people offline
 
I never had any high school friends
 
Incel trait: You didn't have high school friends
 


I didn't abandone society, society abandoned me :feelsclown:
 
you should have responded to them on whatsapp.
now you will have no friends for the rest of your life.
 
I never interacted with my "friends" outside of school and classes to begin with.
 
As a man you have no friends as they will all throw you under the bus for female validation
 
Mine abandoned me when they got girlfriends
 
incel trait: your HS friends totally abandoned you
 
I never friends only acquaitances men never have friends for the most part
 
No they abandoned me
 
I totally abandoned my HS friends after i matriculated, the reason is they were not REALLY my "friends", they were just buddies i had hang out with, i Had absolutely ZERO trust in them, they would never have my back in any fight, i ignored the "you alive!? " messages on whatsapp, one was bratty with a annoying face and the other one was the biggest loser of the grade, i never disrepected them ever that was one of the very few things i have been good at my whole life, not disrepecting people offline
based I did same thing, did it in college too and soycord at times. Most of them aren't reliable, were trash and leeches.
 
you should have responded to them on whatsapp.
now you will have no friends for the rest of your life.
while this is true. Better no friends than shit low class trash
 
incel trait: your HS friends totally abandoned you
that too happened many times. This is how it is. Especially in western culture, if you don't make someone feel "good", they'll drop you fast or just leech off your for resources (homework, favor,help).
 
while this is true. Better no friends than shit low class trash
i used to think this but getting older, i realize that you can't do shit without a social circle.
it sounds :bluepill: but even bad friends can get you opportunities in life.
when they make "you alive?" posts it suggests, to me, that they are trying to reconnect and make the friendship work for whatever reason, if not to get something from OP.
i think it's a mistake not to keep them around, it takes only minimal effort.
 
i used to think this but getting older, i realize that you can't do shit without a social circle.
it sounds :bluepill: but even bad friends can get you opportunities in life.
when they make "you alive?" posts it suggests, to me, that they are trying to reconnect and make the friendship work for whatever reason, if not to get something from OP.
i think it's a mistake not to keep them around, it takes only minimal effort.
I don't know about that. At least, For money Maxxing purposes you need a routine and consistency. With friends this routine and consistency gets ruined. It's why I cut down my friends to very very few to minimize distractions and get maximum value out. Most of the time, I have also noticed the more knowledgeable one gets leeched off of, which is the incel in most cases. The incel also hears problems of the normalfag but they aren't willing to listen to the incel's problem. I say it is best to have many acquaintances at an arm's length and strategically get close to them if you need a favor. And have very few key friends(takes lots of testing to find these) for references and help.
 
I don't know about that. At least, For money Maxxing purposes you need a routine and consistency. With friends this routine and consistency gets ruined.
yeah, that's true. i did sever a friendship due to this and stopped responding but he came crawling back.
most of my friends did get their jobs through social connections though at least to start.
very hard to get a job sending job applications, it's all rigged.

It's why I cut down my friends to very very few to minimize distractions and get maximum value out. Most of the time, I have also noticed the more knowledgeable one gets leeched off of, which is the incel in most cases. The incel also hears problems of the normalfag but they aren't willing to listen to the incel's problem. I say it is best to have many acquaintances at an arm's length and strategically get close to them if you need a favor. And have very few key friends(takes lots of testing to find these) for references and help.
high iq. that is smart.
this sounds :soy::bluepill: of me but when a friend calls me after a long time to go to the casino or something i sometimes feel happy. being alone is fine but not 24/7, 365days a weak.
 
These posts are 100% ropefuel :feelsrope:
 
yeah YOU abandoned THEM. good cope
 
I totally abandoned my HS friends after i matriculated, the reason is they were not REALLY my "friends", they were just buddies i had hang out with, i Had absolutely ZERO trust in them, they would never have my back in any fight, i ignored the "you alive!? " messages on whatsapp, one was bratty with a annoying face and the other one was the biggest loser of the grade, i never disrepected them ever that was one of the very few things i have been good at my whole life, not disrepecting people offline
more like they abandoned me :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
friendship is bullshit
men can have acquaintances with a shared purpose and even then you can’t trust nobody
 
I had one "buddy" HS but I haven't talked to him in years. He had a kid.
 
The moment I was done with HS, I had not a single message or contact from my ‘friends’.
 
I'm a truecel that can't make friends
 
I totally abandoned my HS friends after i matriculated, the reason is they were not REALLY my "friends", they were just buddies i had hang out with, i Had absolutely ZERO trust in them, they would never have my back in any fight, i ignored the "you alive!? " messages on whatsapp, one was bratty with a annoying face and the other one was the biggest loser of the grade, i never disrepected them ever that was one of the very few things i have been good at my whole life, not disrepecting people offline
this is why i hate public school, which is obligatory in my country. people who refuse, they kiddy nap their child and probably peg them from behind as well. kiddy nippers. :dafuckfeels:

they force you to be around retarded people your whole life, when you could've actually done something productive.

When you go out school, you're a lazy, brainwashed NPC slave for the system and have to reset. :feelstastyman:
Your whole personality has changed from listening to so dumb people all the time, which makes you constantly angry.
So fucking annoying bro.

So happy i never see school again.
Probably jump in front of train instead.
This has all been a waste of time.
 
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Most of them weren't real friendships, i acted fake to don't be alone, or they acted like trash to you to assert dominance frequently. The few friends i had that were nice, i purposely ghosted them because i felt so subhuman as a nerd ugly virgin to interact with normies, or because i didn't want to get attention for the [UWSL]pity they felt about me.[/UWSL]
 
They stopped trying to contact me after a while due to me being autistic/schizoid, isolating myself for years and never calling them or initiating things on my own. Starting around age 12 social interactions felt more and more draining for me so I just locked myself in my room forever. That last high school year where I wasn't homeschooled, few guys tried to talk to me outside of school/facebook/MSN Messenger, I guess my autism was too strong at that point and they just didn't want anything to do with me.

But I get it and I would have done the same probably if I was more NT and had a social life. Autistic male "friends" are a burden if you're trying to make it in the real world.
 
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They stopped trying to contact me after a while due to me being autistic/schizoid, isolating myself for years and never calling them or initiating things on my own. Starting around age 12 social interactions felt more and more draining for me so I just locked myself in my room forever. That last high school year where I wasn't homeschooled, few guys tried to talk to me outside of school/facebook/MSN Messenger, I guess my autism was too strong at that point and they just didn't want anything to do with me.

But I get it and I would have done the same probably if I was more NT and had a social life. Autistic male "friends" are a burden if you're trying to make it in the real world.
i'm thinking of calling the loser guy, even though i have not talked to him for 5 years straight,
 

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