being talented, good at something, etc, is the result of receiving affections and love of your peers, family, teachers, etc from as long back as you can remember. chad gets all of the attention and focus of every single person involved in his upbringing. his parents, extended family, teachers, superintendents, random other people, student peers, etc, while incel boy gets cast off to the side, payed attention only out of a feeling of necessity. teacher smiles with understanding and empathy at chad boys mistake, then turns her head in a scowl as she reprimands incel boy for a lesser wrong.
being good at something is society putting that into you. we get left out.
also,
I would say I am talented at finding the exact porn scene I would like to jizz to at the time,
I am talented at taking drugs / alcohol after making the decision not to,
I am talented at not going through with anything I plan to do,
I am talented at being the bottom of any social hierarchy,
I am a professional ugly.