Incel trait: You get friendly too soon

[Deleted member 28903]

I actually made this thread because I intended to apologize to @foidologist because I called him a gay furry out of nowhere.

I didn't get offended by that lol

I acted too friendly with @foidologist and @Diocel and I’m pretty sure they’re both annoyed by me and probably ignoring me now

No I just have been inactive in general for a few days

 

[erenyeager]

This is so relatable

 

[nystagmuscel]

This is so relatable

 

[Deleted member 33472]

I feel like by nature, I'm an extrovert which makes this especially hard for me. It's only until I realise how foolish the things that I say are and how people really think of me that I remember to socially withdrawal and try to attract as little attention as possible.

 

[_realist_]

I’m nice. And can be friendly. But once the switch happens in my mood, it’s a different story.

 

[NearlyOver]

Specially when you're in a group and everybody else is friendly with each other and you get that vibe and start acting as if you're also their friend. You forget that you're an undesirable piece of shit no one cares about. Eventually they get weirded out and you get their social cues and start knowing your place.

Truth! Bruh, I've been accused by people I group-chatted with of being "too lonely" because I wanted to have conversations with them. You're right. We gotta remember our place.

 

[FlamingCel]

Finally an incel trait I don’t have.

 

[Meus]

Extremely brutal. Normies are able to smell your fucking neediness, don't ask me how they do it.

That's why befriending normies is useless, they already have good friends.

 

[Saigon Depression]

Absolutely relatable, I already lost count how many people took advantage of this.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

I'm never friendly to anyone anymore

 

[Deleted member 33450]

i just assume most people despise me i'm usually right tbh

 

[Deleted member 33216]

"The lonely one offers his hand too quickly to whomever he encounters" ― Friedrich Nietzsche.

 

[InMyCellInHell]

This is so relatable

High IQ thread for talking about something I couldn't quite put my finger on or why I acted this way. Isolation fucks up your perception of other people so you end up projecting your own kindness onto NPCs and get horrible results.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

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Due to your lack of a social life and always feeling left out you have a tendency to get friendly too soon when you're excited or feel comfortable in a particular situation.
Specially when you're in a group and everybody else is friendly with each other and you get that vibe and start acting as if you're also their friend. You forget that you're an undesirable piece of shit no one cares about. Eventually they get weirded out and you get their social cues and start knowing your place.

I've done this numerous times. Specially online because that's where I "meet" most people I rarely meet real people.
Particularly cringe, and something that happens to me frequently, is when I start joking with someone and they get offended because they don't consider me a friend.
In a group chat for example I see a lot of people who know each other and have inside jokes and I get excited because I yearn for validation and wanna be their friend or part of the group. So I embarrass myself with jokes that offends someone, or with acting as if I'm also part of their group of friends while I'm actually not.

cant relate as i prefer solitude

 

[Deleted member 33560]

Never trust normshits to accept your friendly behavior

 

[your personality]

Nah when you are an adult you are a bit more discerning.

 

[Deleted member 32725]

I'm saddened by how much I can relate to this.

 

[Deleted member 33833]

I don't do that anymore. It's funny how soycucks say ''Just make friends bro'' when normies are shallows pieces of shit that reject you based on your looks.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

why is this so fucking relatable lol
like I'm not particularly socially awkward, but it's hard to contain the cuckoldry every time I meet a potential friend group, only to end up being a cringefest