Incel trait: You get friendly too soon

[incelerated]

Due to your lack of a social life and always feeling left out you have a tendency to get friendly too soon when you're excited or feel comfortable in a particular situation.
Specially when you're in a group and everybody else is friendly with each other and you get that vibe and start acting as if you're also their friend. You forget that you're an undesirable piece of shit no one cares about. Eventually they get weirded out and you get their social cues and start knowing your place.

I've done this numerous times. Specially online because that's where I "meet" most people I rarely meet real people.
Particularly cringe, and something that happens to me frequently, is when I start joking with someone and they get offended because they don't consider me a friend.
In a group chat for example I see a lot of people who know each other and have inside jokes and I get excited because I yearn for validation and wanna be their friend or part of the group. So I embarrass myself with jokes that offends someone, or with acting as if I'm also part of their group of friends while I'm actually not.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

this is why I pretty much gave up on socialization and withdrew from society

 

[Psycho]

this is why I pretty much gave up on socialization and withdrew from society

 

[ReconElement]

This is so relatable

 

[Ecstasy]

This is so relatable

yo man whats up with your avi?
@Dregster666 thoughts on this case?

 

[ReconElement]

yo man whats up with your avi?
@Dregster666 thoughts on this case?

This reminds me of what I'll never have in this life

 

[Sitchnatio]

True; I act too friendly trying to make some jokes to be likeable and I end up like a butt of jokes

 

[Capable_Onion]

Pretty much, the moment anyone gives me an ounce of compassion I start falling for their crap like the gullible and naive person I am.

Fortunately though, I'm a bit paranoid, so I can drop those I view as threats just as easily.

 

[incelerated]

Fortunately though, I'm a bit paranoid, so I can drop those I view as threats just as easily.

Being paranoid is a valuable asset for a low-confidence man.
The only reason my 0-confidence uncle got screwed over and fucked up by others and my 0-confidence father didn't as much is because my father is very paranoid.

 

[Deleted member 31093]

Happened to me irl and on this forum too

 

[AlexAnguish]

Happened to me irl and on this forum too

 

[Deleted member 31093]

This reminds me of what I'll never have in this life

What movie is this from? I want to make sure I never accidentally stumble upon this scene

 

[incelerated]

Happened to me irl and on this forum too

I actually made this thread because I intended to apologize to @foidologist because I called him a gay furry out of nowhere.
As well as to you, @Jungle , @Diocel , @FamilyGuy1999 and others I might have insulted in the sewers by acting friendly.
I'm sorry guys I'm just a retard I didn't mean anything.

(And now I vanish)

 

[ReconElement]

What movie is this from? I want to make sure I never accidentally stumble upon this scene

Idk tbh, should be some old movie so don't worry

 

[Deleted member 31093]

I actually made this thread because I intended to apologize to @foidologist because I called him a gay furry out of nowhere.
As well as to you, @Jungle , @Diocel , @FamilyGuy1999 and others I might have insulted in the sewers by acting friendly.
I'm sorry guys I'm just a retard I didn't mean anything.

(And now I vanish)

I acted too friendly with @foidologist and @Diocel and I’m pretty sure they’re both annoyed by me and probably ignoring me now
@incelerated youre a good user tbh brocel

 

[AmIjustDreaming]

people think i'm a prick

 

[doomed2failio]

Due to your lack of a social life and always feeling left out you have a tendency to get friendly too soon when you're excited or feel comfortable in a particular situation.
Specially when you're in a group and everybody else is friendly with each other and you get that vibe and start acting as if you're also their friend. You forget that you're an undesirable piece of shit no one cares about. Eventually they get weirded out and you get their social cues and start knowing your place.

I've done this numerous times. Specially online because that's where I "meet" most people I rarely meet real people.
Particularly cringe, and something that happens to me frequently, is when I start joking with someone and they get offended because they don't consider me a friend.
In a group chat for example I see a lot of people who know each other and have inside jokes and I get excited because I yearn for validation and wanna be their friend or part of the group. So I embarrass myself with jokes that offends someone, or with acting as if I'm also part of their group of friends while I'm actually not.

Ya. Damnit. Didnt realize this about myself. I think I got attitude from one foid who called me silly in a group chat recently. Oh well.

 

[Gymcelled]

I can never get to know people beyond surface level stuff. They never seem to want me around for more than basic interactions

 

[Deleted member 32502]

I have started to treat myself better. I realized I don't have to give a fuck what soyciety robots "think." No reason to be nice to others. Treat NPC bots with an indifferent attitude

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Super relatable tbh

 

[Words2_live_bye]

this is why I pretty much gave up on socialization and withdrew from society

 

[MarquisDeSade]

I have no friends IRL, you motherfuckers are all I got right now. At work I'm stuck with a bunch of co-workers who hate being there where we will talk to each other occasionally but otherwise won't talk to each other beyond the workplace, it's a lot like being in prison where prisoners will only converse with each other simply by default of inhabiting the same space to kill boredom, basically. So yeah, I'm a loner to my core.

 

[Jungle]

Legit yh

 

[fedcel]

I get paranoid really quickly. as soon as someone starts being nice to me, I wake myself up and remind myself that they probably hate me, but they're being polite. I get physically sick thinking about it, and then I just distance myself from them so they can't go behind my back and make me look even more pathetic than I actually am. if I'm genuinely convinced that they're laughing about me or whatever when i'm not around, I go out of my way to make them hate me or hurt them in some way.

I've probably lost a potential friend due to this, but the amount of embarrassment its saved me is likely huge.

 

[Izayacel]

Lern how to give less then 2 cents, giving a shit about a shithole that dosnt give a shit about you is intellectual challenging. Lern how to be rude .

 

[Animecel2D]

I’m the friendliest person I know

 

[waste matter]

Yeah in the past I was like this.

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

I just watch people and analyze their behavior not one word would be spoken.

 

[Deleted member 28708]

Relatable, what zero social interaction does to a mf

 

[Ellsworth]

Finally an incel trait I don’t have.

 

[osman27]

Finally an incel trait I don’t have.

lol

 

[meisterguido]

no i cant even force myself to say a word when i am with normies. i think i have selective mutism

I just watch people and analyze their behavior not one word would be spoken.

same

 

[HyperVersager_4EVER]

Happened to me a few times before

this is why I pretty much gave up on socialization and withdrew from society

I have no friends IRL, you motherfuckers are all I got right now. At work I'm stuck with a bunch of co-workers who hate being there where we will talk to each other occasionally but otherwise won't talk to each other beyond the workplace, it's a lot like being in prison where prisoners will only converse with each other simply by default of inhabiting the same space to kill boredom, basically. So yeah, I'm a loner to my core.

Also these

 

[Made in Heaven]

Exact opposite for me. I dont act kind or friendly ever

 

[Deleted member 31093]

no

Nah your behaviour towards me has definitely changed. I guess you got annoyed by my gayposting (which is why you tagged knajjd). Its understandable tbh and I have ceased all gay activity

 

[Pengwin]

I’m the friendliest person I know

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

I have selective mutism

 

[Deleted member 33091]

Brutal. This is me. I always act super friendly to people and they're always cringing at my attempts to be friendly.

 

[incelerated]

Never felt insulted by you, in reality you're one of the few friendly and nice users left

Tnx

 

[Deleted member 31093]

Nah dude i didn't change towards your i just changed in general for a short period of time because i was having a bad moment.

And for the fag posting, having one or two arguments with someone doesn't make you enemy, i would be angry at you someone for something but then i would be cool with him in another thread.

Well at least your avi is facing the right way now so cool ig

 

[I want to believe]

I've tried to be nice to other people many times. But it didn't work.
So, I'm used to being alone. I have no friends at all.
Of course, we need someone to talk to. At least, on the internet.

 

[kikecel]

autistic trait tbh

 

[NorthernWind]

True; I act too friendly trying to make some jokes to be likeable and I end up like a butt of jokes

No one needs ugly people jokes.

 

[I want to believe]

No one needs ugly people jokes.

If an incel tell a joke, nobody will laugh.
If a Chad retell the same joke, everybody will laugh.

 

[Sitchnatio]

No one needs ugly people jokes.

True but they laugh at my jokes or at me.

If an incel tell a joke, nobody will laugh.
If a Chad retell the same joke, everybody will laugh.

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

@ScornedStoic

 

[starcrapoo]

Very true.

Actually I always knew this beforehand subconsciously. Thats why I was always shy around people.

I know better now and act more defensive and anti-social around people. As in Idgaf. I dont bother to make friends or connections.

Anti-social or shy people are defensive around people to protect themselves better.

Thats why with alcohol people tend to open up because they have less inhibition and let their guard down.

 

[Dregster]

yo man whats up with your avi?
@Dregster666 thoughts on this case?

A quite insulting case to be quite honest

This reminds me of what I'll never have in this life

Get some self-respect man, dont torment yourself by reminding yourself of it

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

Is it that obvious

Autismtrait tbhtbhngl

 

[Linesnap99]

legit trait. someone told me once I look friendly. Friend zone is where i belong. It never began.