Incel trait: You constantly think of a friend who ditched you who doesn’t think of you a day in his life

[InfernumOsculum]

Anyone else feel like that?
At some point you’ve finally made a good male friend whom you connected with, but due to education / wife / career, he saw no social status value for you and just one day cut you off.

While you mourn the lost of some meaning and love in your life, he doesn’t skip a beat. He hates you, but it’s fine, because he doesn’t think about you at all.

Often this happens because you’ll naturally be awkward with the lack of social status from the lack of dating with people at a certain age and sometimes the line between romance and social friendships can get blurred in terms of boundaries / openness. After all, it’s not like you had a lot of friends / dating experience to go off of.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

All my thoughts are of the past, the feature has no meaning beyond tomorrows slop, I still think about the "friends" I had 6 years ago now, they were the only ones I had and they ditched me like an ol banana peel.

 

[InfernumOsculum]

All my thoughts are of the past, the feature has no meaning beyond tomorrows slop, I still think about the "friends" I had 6 years ago now, they were the only ones I had and they ditched me like an ol banana peel.

Brutal. The most I had was a friendgroup of 2 people by my early 20s. I was always an outcast loner.

They both ditched me.

 

[Rabbi Schneerson]

All my thoughts are of the past

 

[InfernumOsculum]

Wtf is that supposed to mean GrAY? Did you hit on a male friend

No, I got really open about my problems with him, feeling unwanted, my romantic inexperience, my beliefs / copes that propelled me this far in my life finally dying.

He thought I was a fag and ditched me.

Good learning experience. Too bad I’m in my late 20s and outside work there’s no opportunity anywhere to meet people, because most around my age have established friend groups or a wife.

 

[Logic55]

My best friend in high school ditched me, and he has new friends that he likes to hang out with. Now I have no friends

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

 

[InfernumOsculum]

Friends don't usually assume you're a faggot just because you open up to them about your problems. Sounds like there's more to this than you're willing to tell us.

I’m saying “fag” in an insult sense and not a romantic sense.

Like he thought I was an emotional drain on his busy life and just ditched me.

Part of it was his girlfriend who thought I was becoming his no. 1 and not her (shocker, a woman hating my guts for no reason), so she made him cut chords with various social groups.

 

[InfernumOsculum]

All my thoughts are of the past, the feature has no meaning beyond tomorrows slop, I still think about the "friends" I had 6 years ago now, they were the only ones I had and they ditched me like an ol banana peel.

also, I’m like that too. Around my mid 20s I realized all my efforts socially to meet new people went nowhere.

 

[Friezacel]

Absolutely. I still sometimes look back to the time were i was less isolated and had some "friends" who i played with as a child. Meanwhile they completely forgot me and live a normal life.

He hates you

Thats the brutal part. He doesnt hate you, he simply forgets you.

 

[R1SPERD4L]

real, none of the people i called friends do so much as send me a text nowadays
like, what the fuck was their problem? why treat me like i matter only to ditch me like a piece of trash later, i just dont get it

 

[Namtriz912]

I do think about had I stayed at my old school I'd still have some of the friends I only sporadically talk to online or call. But for the most part I only am reminded of being social when it is Friday or Saturday.

 

[DonezoTheClown]

He thought I was a fag

Well stop acting like a fag. You chill with friends to laugh, to game, to do whatever shared hobby you have even if it's something degenerate like drugs. You don't traumadump on them.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXJlBF2lj8I

 

[Fed_911]

He thought I was a fag and ditched me.

How can he think you’re a fag for being honest about your dating experiences?

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

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[UglyDumbass]

Anyone else feel like that?
At some point you’ve finally made a good male friend whom you connected with, but due to education / wife / career, he saw no social status value for you and just one day cut you off.

While you mourn the lost of some meaning and love in your life, he doesn’t skip a beat. He hates you, but it’s fine, because he doesn’t think about you at all.

Often this happens because you’ll naturally be awkward with the lack of social status from the lack of dating with people at a certain age and sometimes the line between romance and social friendships can get blurred in terms of boundaries / openness. After all, it’s not like you had a lot of friends / dating experience to go off of.

my friends never texted me outside of school or hang out so it was always hard to make closer friends