It's Over Incel Trait: You Can't Drive

[The Scarlet Prince]

I've been trying to work towards getting my drivers license for the first time. I unfortunately wasn't one of those teens who actually got their permits as young as sixteen. So I've just been in this long path of going straight from knowing nothing, all the way to actually taking lessons.

Today, though, I decided to finally get behind the wheel for the first time with one of my parents guiding me along the way. They just had me drive around the residential area we live in, and explained all the basic functions of the car.

But seriously, I can't do it. No way, it's just not possible! Turns feel incomprehensible to me, and it feels like it's impossible to use the accelerator. I'm supposed to 'lightly tap it,' but even tapping it as lightly as I can muster sends the car flying forwards, and it freaks me out a ton. I feel like I'm just driving around waiting until I eventually make some sort of mistake and cause some sort of property damage. I'm afraid of being a nuisance on the road and slowing other people down.

I have no idea how I'm going to do this, I genuinely despise driving, and never wanted to learn if I could have helped it. Unfortunately, there's no choice these days.

What a pain...

 

[fullofchagrin]

Getting my driver's license with relative ease in a city where it's really hard to get is probably the biggest achievement in my life. The hardest part was getting out of bed and out of the house and keeping my attention during the lessons, I wasted hundreds of my father's dollars because I couldn't get out of my bed and missed the lessons. Too bad I have nowhere to drive to I guess. My parents keep giving me their car keys and urging me to go on a drive just to get me outside. I am barely able to get out of my bed to go to the toilet. Most days if my mom didn't make food I just eat plain bread or peanut butter and swallow it with water because I am too tired to make myself something decent to eat. This fatigue is abnormal and no one is helping me. I lie down all day in bed because I am too tired to do anything else, and my whole body still aches.

 

[fullofchagrin]

But seriously, I can't do it. No way, it's just not possible! Turns feel incomprehensible to me, and it feels like it's impossible to use the accelerator. I'm supposed to 'lightly tap it,' but even tapping it as lightly as I can muster sends the car flying forwards, and it freaks me out a ton. I feel like I'm just driving around waiting until I eventually make some sort of mistake and cause some sort of property damage. I'm afraid of being a nuisance on the road and slowing other people down.

You've just driven once with your parents? You'll get there. Everyone struggles at first.

 

[FBI]

I've been trying to work towards getting my drivers license for the first time. I unfortunately wasn't one of those teens who actually got their permits as young as sixteen. So I've just been in this long path of going straight from knowing nothing, all the way to actually taking lessons.

Today, though, I decided to finally get behind the wheel for the first time with one of my parents guiding me along the way. They just had me drive around the residential area we live in, and explained all the basic functions of the car.

But seriously, I can't do it. No way, it's just not possible! Turns feel incomprehensible to me, and it feels like it's impossible to use the accelerator. I'm supposed to 'lightly tap it,' but even tapping it as lightly as I can muster sends the car flying forwards, and it freaks me out a ton. I feel like I'm just driving around waiting until I eventually make some sort of mistake and cause some sort of property damage. I'm afraid of being a nuisance on the road and slowing other people down.

I have no idea how I'm going to do this, I genuinely despise driving, and never wanted to learn if I could have helped it. Unfortunately, there's no choice these days.

What a pain...

Do not give up on the first day. Nobody gets into a car for the first time and drives smoothly. It takes practice before it feels natural. The first time I sat in the driver's seat was in a nearly empty parking lot, and when I thought I lightly pressed the accelerator, the car lurched forward and nearly threw me into the windshield. After a few more tries I got a feel for how lightly it really needed to be pressed. Then I practiced turning and moved up to residential streets.

It feels overwhelming at first, but it is more intuitive than it seems. You will get the hang of it. I used to stress the same way, convinced I was going to mess up and everyone would think I was an idiot. The truth is most people on the road are not great drivers themselves and regularly do things much dumber than a nervous beginner ever would. With repetition, it becomes second nature.

 

[TraumatizedOgre]

i got my driver's licence in some shithole small town with 0 traffic whatsoever so it was easy as fuck

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Getting my driver's license with relative ease in a city where it's really hard to get is probably the biggest achievement in my life. The hardest part was getting out of bed and out of the house and keeping my attention during the lessons, I wasted hundreds of my father's dollars because I couldn't get out of my bed and missed the lessons. Too bad I have nowhere to drive to I guess. My parents keep giving me their car keys and urging me to go on a drive just to get me outside. I am barely able to get out of my bed to go to the toilet. Most days if my mom didn't make food I just eat plain bread or peanut butter and swallow it with water because I am too tired to make myself something decent to eat. This fatigue is abnormal and no one is helping me. I lie down all day in bed because I am too tired to do anything else, and my whole body still aches.

Mogs me for even having any achievements, honestly. I don't even know what the hell I was doing sometimes with my teenage life. Days lost endlessly, and what do I have to show for it? Some mediocre skill at games that I don't even play anymore?

But the rest of what you've said is so brutal. I'm so sorry brocel.

 

[Dollfucker]

I cant drive because of my attention span is shit. So even if I got a gf, shes gonna dump me when I have to have my mom drive me everywhere

 

[H8mychudlife]

I had the same problem with the accelerator, I'd slightly tap it and i'd go flying, I guess this shit really comes down to being low-inhib

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

You've just driven once with your parents? You'll get there. Everyone struggles at first.

I really hope so. I don't even want to really drive if I by some miracle do get my license. I used to watch tons of gore all the time, and I know just how deadly car accidents can get. Still to this day, I don't think much ever matched the brutality that I saw in some of those pictures. I just hope I can get good enough to start doing defensive driving courses, at the very least.

I guess I'm just worried that, especially as an incel, people will just end up seeing me as a nuisance and freak out on me if I mess up slightly.

 

[fullofchagrin]

I don't even know what the hell I was doing sometimes with my teenage life. Days lost endlessly, and what do I have to show for it?

I'm past that point. My whole life has been a waste, but it wasn't even my fault, I was doomed from the start. I think I did my best. I don't care about pleasure or finding joy anymore, I have been through lots of pain and I have realized that this is a hell realm. Most people can't even imagine how much suffering I have been through. And what is insane is that my pain is nothing compared to what many others have been through, are going through. I can't stop my pain but I hope that I can finish this life without it getting too much worse, and I hope there is no afterlife because the possibility of endless suffering is petrifying beyond comprehension.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Do not give up on the first day. Nobody gets into a car for the first time and drives smoothly. It takes practice before it feels natural. The first time I sat in the driver's seat was in a nearly empty parking lot, and when I thought I lightly pressed the accelerator, the car lurched forward and nearly threw me into the windshield. After a few more tries I got a feel for how lightly it really needed to be pressed. Then I practiced turning and moved up to residential streets.

It feels overwhelming at first, but it is more intuitive than it seems. You will get the hang of it. I used to stress the same way, convinced I was going to mess up and everyone would think I was an idiot. The truth is most people on the road are not great drivers themselves and regularly do things much dumber than a nervous beginner ever would. With repetition, it becomes second nature.

Thank you for the kind words. I don't think I was ever going to give up, but I really do feel anxious about it. You saying what you have has certainly eased my nerves though, even if just slightly.

 

[fullofchagrin]

I used to watch tons of gore all the time, and I know just how deadly car accidents can get. Still to this day, I don't think much ever matched the brutality that I saw in some of those pictures.

A car is actually pretty safe. Especially modern cars. I have ridden my nephew's motorcycle a couple times, now those things are dangerous. It's unreal how vulnerable you feel when you are on one, especially without gear. In a car, you are inside a metal box designed and perfected to absorb impact, you have a seat belt, and airbags to keep you safe on top of all else. Just remember to wear your seatbelt and you'll be fine even if a bad accident.

I guess I'm just worried that, especially as an incel, people will just end up seeing me as a nuisance and freak out on me if I mess up slightly.

You mean the driving instructor?

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I cant drive because of my attention span is shit. So even if I got a gf, shes gonna dump me when I have to have my mom drive me everywhere

So brutal. I found myself desperately wishing that I lived in some place like Japan, where you don't ever have to learn how to drive, and can just use the clean train stations to get everywhere. But no, I either learn how to drive, be driven, or hitch a ride on a bus with genuine crackheads who might stab me randomly for looking at them wrong.

 

[nakolas]

I can drive but I don't have a license.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

A car is actually pretty safe. Especially modern cars. I have ridden my nephew's motorcycle a couple times, now those things are dangerous. It's unreal how vulnerable you feel when you are on one, especially without gear. In a car, you are inside a metal box designed and perfected to absorb impact, you have a seat belt, and airbags to keep you safe on top of all else. Just remember to wear your seatbelt and you'll be fine even if a bad accident.

I hope so. I'm not looking to die to some drunk driver or something else along those lines.

You mean the driving instructor?

Oh yeah, that too, but I meant people at large. Like I'll have to deal with people screaming at me just because they think they can get away with it due to all the mistreatment they already subconsciously know I've had to go through.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I had the same problem with the accelerator, I'd slightly tap it and i'd go flying, I guess this shit really comes down to being low-inhib

I swear I feel like I'm tapping it as lightly as my muscles can physically allow it, and it still lunges forward. Scary...

 

[fullofchagrin]

Oh yeah, that too, but I meant people at large. Like I'll have to deal with people screaming at me just because they think they can get away with it due to all the mistreatment they already subconsciously know I've had to go through.

That's not something you have to worry about, people are very lenient on new drivers because they have all been there as well at one point. When I just got my license I accidentally cut off a sand nigger, he stopped next to me at a traffic light and started yelling at me. He was so aggressive I thought he was going to kill me even though he didn't even step out of his car. I apologized and said I just got my license and he calmed down pretty fast

 

[fullofchagrin]

I swear I feel like I'm tapping it as lightly as my muscles can physically allow it, and it still lunges forward. Scary...

Completely normal. You'll get used to it naturally. Sometimes I forget how to drive, like I don't remember how to do something, but when I sit in the car it all comes naturally. It's all muscle memory your muscles just need time to adapt

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I'm past that point. My whole life has been a waste, but it wasn't even my fault, I was doomed from the start. I think I did my best. I don't care about pleasure or finding joy anymore, I have been through lots of pain and I have realized that this is a hell realm. Most people can't even imagine how much suffering I have been through. And what is insane is that my pain is nothing compared to what many others have been through, are going through. I can't stop my pain but I hope that I can finish this life without it getting too much worse, and I hope there is no afterlife because the possibility of endless suffering is petrifying beyond comprehension.

I think that our lives were always fated to end up this way, no matter what we did. Yet, it still eats at us because we ponder, "What if I had...?"

But could we have? I think that the reality is that as incels, there is no quantifiable way to ever achieve whatever it is we dream of or desire. In some way our looks will always come back to present an insurmountable obstacle that we'll never be able to overcome, simply because 'twas how we were born. Whether it comes in the form of prejudice against us, or just society's refusal to provide us with a fair shot, we are always doomed to the same fate in some way or another.

The truth is that I will be in the same position that you are in due time, and the incel younger than I will also be there, and it will repeat endlessly. But we'll all eventually just die, forgotten, alone, and without anything to ultimately show for it.

I had at some point described it as nature ultimately trying to deny us humanity, because nature herself doesn't think we are human. We incels are the weaker men who had their food stolen by the stronger man, as we starved to death. Yet, as time came and we denied nature the same control she practiced with her wretched claws, we incels managed to slip through that crack.

But that is to say, we weren't supposed to, and therefore, as far as nature is concerned, we are inhuman, undefined—"nil."

Something not meant to exist, yet does. That is why none of our aspirations, nor our accoldades, nor our dreams, will ever be realized. Because we weren't allowed to have them to begin with.

 

[gluttony]

i can't drive

 

[superpsycho]

i have to drive, i have no other choice

 

[TheCatMan]

I had my POS parents teach me how to drive so it wasn't a good time but I passed my test on my first try. I lost points because I didn't signal leaving the parallel parking spot. I should be a driving instructor I like to teach and I'm patient. I was excited to get my license but now I can't stand driving because of all the idiots on the road. It's the main reason I rot all day home on my days off.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Try driving automatic if you live in a country with majority manual cars

 

[NickelodeonCel]

I've been trying to work towards getting my drivers license for the first time. I unfortunately wasn't one of those teens who actually got their permits as young as sixteen. So I've just been in this long path of going straight from knowing nothing, all the way to actually taking lessons.

Today, though, I decided to finally get behind the wheel for the first time with one of my parents guiding me along the way. They just had me drive around the residential area we live in, and explained all the basic functions of the car.

But seriously, I can't do it. No way, it's just not possible! Turns feel incomprehensible to me, and it feels like it's impossible to use the accelerator. I'm supposed to 'lightly tap it,' but even tapping it as lightly as I can muster sends the car flying forwards, and it freaks me out a ton. I feel like I'm just driving around waiting until I eventually make some sort of mistake and cause some sort of property damage. I'm afraid of being a nuisance on the road and slowing other people down.

I have no idea how I'm going to do this, I genuinely despise driving, and never wanted to learn if I could have helped it. Unfortunately, there's no choice these days.

What a pain...

Yeah I can't drive cuz too poor for a car and never had a father or friends to get me into learning it.

 

[Leon98]

I don’t drive

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I can drive but I don't have a license.

 

[psyop]

I swear I feel like I'm tapping it as lightly as my muscles can physically allow it, and it still lunges forward. Scary...

Put it in eco nig

 

[psyop]

Try driving automatic if you live in a country with majority manual cars

It is auto. He’s American, it’s impossible to comprehend manual transmission for them

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

It is auto. He’s American, it’s impossible to comprehend manual transmission for them

True desu

 

[psyop]

True desu

Put the car in eco mode. Throttle will be less responsive

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

I had my POS parents teach me how to drive so it wasn't a good time but I passed my test on my first try. I lost points because I didn't signal leaving the parallel parking spot. I should be a driving instructor I like to teach and I'm patient. I was excited to get my license but now I can't stand driving because of all the idiots on the road. It's the main reason I rot all day home on my days off.

Brutal. Driving seems genuinely miserable. Even if you're not bad yourself, others probably will be, and yet they'll still end up faulting you for it.

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

Put it in eco nig

Put the car in eco mode. Throttle will be less responsive

I just searched it up now, I never knew this was a thing. I don't think I've noticed anyone ever using it. I'll probably end up trying it today, since I'm going to have to force myself to try and get better anyway. Thank you for the advice, genuinely.

 

[poorenglishcel]

I am too high inhib for it tbhngl. The low inhib normie moggers on the road would bully me even if managed to learn it.

 

[unhingedsamsung]

You’ll get used to it eventually it’s your first time driving wait until you hit the freeway parts of driving ( you cannot freak out on that part)

I remember my first time driving I also panicked a lot (don’t panic it’ll make things worse if you do) I’ve seen dumb fucks crash their car because their wheels popped off and they hit the breaks and end up fucking crashing into a ditchoff the highways

another thing is don’t trust anybody around you assume everyone is an absolute retard at driving and you gotta be confident in your decision ( hard yeah I know but this will help you out)

Parallel parking is such a pain in the ass hopefully you’ll get over this part easily I always kept failing that part when I was getting my license

 

[eliya]

I've been trying to work towards getting my drivers license for the first time. I unfortunately wasn't one of those teens who actually got their permits as young as sixteen. So I've just been in this long path of going straight from knowing nothing, all the way to actually taking lessons.

Today, though, I decided to finally get behind the wheel for the first time with one of my parents guiding me along the way. They just had me drive around the residential area we live in, and explained all the basic functions of the car.

But seriously, I can't do it. No way, it's just not possible! Turns feel incomprehensible to me, and it feels like it's impossible to use the accelerator. I'm supposed to 'lightly tap it,' but even tapping it as lightly as I can muster sends the car flying forwards, and it freaks me out a ton. I feel like I'm just driving around waiting until I eventually make some sort of mistake and cause some sort of property damage. I'm afraid of being a nuisance on the road and slowing other people down.

I have no idea how I'm going to do this, I genuinely despise driving, and never wanted to learn if I could have helped it. Unfortunately, there's no choice these days.

What a pain...

Im going through the damw thing so brutal, my first driving coach literally started making fun of me and kinda bullying me for not knowing how to drive at 20, I almost cried, I forced them to change him. The new one is a lot better I don't think it would be impossible, but it will just take longer than average for folks like us

 

[Sir Silentium]

Never got my P's

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

I can, but I had already a crash

 

[Lifeless]

I can't

even if I wanted to learn, I can't afford it anyway

 

[killedmycel]

The invention of the car was where the extinction of HQNP women started

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

wait until you hit the freeway parts of driving ( you cannot freak out on that part)

Driving on highway is by far one of the easiest parts of driving

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

HQNP women started

They never existed, they are a myth outside of fictional media

 

[unhingedsamsung]

Driving on highway is by far one of the easiest parts of driving

Depends on where you live, I live in a city of a million people so it’s pretty awful during rush hour.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Depends on where you live, I live in a city of a million people so it’s pretty awful during rush hour.

All you have to do on highways is drive dead ahead, in cities there are a lot more rules to follow and its more chaotic and unpredictable

 

[blackpillednigga]

I still struggle, get honked sometimes, and have anxiety even though I passed my test the first time several years ago

 

[Diddlium]

That's not an incel trait. That's just a retarded nigger trait. I'm working on my motorcycle license

 

[eliya]

That's not an incel trait. That's just a retarded nigger trait. I'm working on my motorcycle license

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

That's not an incel trait. That's just a retarded nigger trait. I'm working on my motorcycle license

Brutal for LowIQcels

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

That's not an incel trait. That's just a retarded nigger trait. I'm working on my motorcycle license

You dont need to be smart to be able to drive. You just need decent motor skills and some spatial awareness

 

[Leon98]

I can't

even if I wanted to learn, I can't afford it anyway

 

[yukio_mishima]

Girls want nothing to do with you when you don't have a drivers-license or car.

And I felt the same way about driving; After my first few driving lessons I looked at all the cars on the road and at my bus driver thinking "how the fuck are even the dumbest people able to drive?"; Driving is one of those things you just have to practice; Slowly everything calmly becomes automatic the more you drive.