Incel Trait: having to initiate everything

[AccountError]

Have friends? It's never them coming to you, you always have to be the first one to talk to them and come up with ideas

Social group? Noone will ever go near you, you have to talk to someone first

Sending texts? You have to create topics yourself and write interesting paragraphs while your """"friend"""" just replies with single word responses

 

[TheRealChincel88]

I don’t even have friends. I’ve been lonely for years. The only people I interact with are my family.

 

[Deleted member 20434]

True

 

[BummerDrummerOG]

I don’t even have friends. I’ve been lonely for years. The only people I interact with are my family.

 

[OldIncel]

Yup. I try and try so hard to develop relationships but it's hard when your're subhuman.

 

[modern_grendel]

Have friends? It's never them coming to you, you always have to be the first one to talk to them and come up with ideas

Social group? Noone will ever go near you, you have to talk to someone first

Sending texts? You have to create topics yourself and write interesting paragraphs while your """"friend"""" just replies with single word responses

This shit made me start quarantine and social distancing years ago

 

[Deleted member 24125]

yes fuuck. this is why i distanced myself from my "friends". i always had to text first, every fucking time

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I drifted apart from my friends tbh

 

[PPEcel]

Yup. I try and try so hard to develop relationships but it's hard when your're subhuman.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

I don’t even have friends. I’ve been lonely for years. The only people I interact with are my family.

 

[PPEcel]

I drifted apart from my friends tbh

I have a sizeable group of people who I would describe as acquaintances rather than friends.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

I have a sizeable group of people who I would describe as acquaintances rather than friends.

My last friend I had knew people, I considered them acquaitences but not friends

 

[Assymmetricfacel]

This shit made me start quarantine and social distancing years ago

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Have friends? It's never them coming to you, you always have to be the first one to talk to them and come up with ideas

Social group? Noone will ever go near you, you have to talk to someone first

Sending texts? You have to create topics yourself and write interesting paragraphs while your """"friend"""" just replies with single word responses

YYYEEEEEUUUUUUPPPPPPP That's sooooooo me. Sigh the fact you have to always initiate shows how worthless we are, what's more is we may get ignored and at best one word responses. Totally been there more times than I can count. Hurts to know you're of no value.

 

[Emba]

YYYEEEEEUUUUUUPPPPPPP That's sooooooo me. Sigh the fact you have to always initiate shows how worthless we are, what's more is we may get ignored and at best one word responses. Totally been there more times than I can count. Hurts to know you're of no value.

Same here.

And people wonder why we are angery!

 

[Numb]

Batemans principle

 

[Spioenkop1]

I drifted apart from my friends tbh

Tbh I have 1, maybe 2 real friends. It’s somewhat an effort to stay in touch with the others, since indeed I never get invited on their initiative.
Its easy to become solitary as an unattractive male these days, especially if no family is left.

 

[Deleted member 22907]

I don't even try anymore

 

[Spioenkop1]

I have a sizeable group of people who I would describe as acquaintances rather than friends.

Based and maybe a term we should use more often than friends.

 

[PPEcel]

Based and maybe a term we should use more often than friends.

Exactly.

Someone who you say "hi" to once a day during your lunch break is not a "friend". He is someone whose existence you recognize. He is not someone you know on a deeply personal level.

 

[FunkyMonk]

This shit made me start quarantine and social distancing years ago

That was the first thing I said to myself this year. Fuck wasting money going out and planning anything with anyone. I'd rather waste time playing games than listen to delusional shit.

 

[Spioenkop1]

Exactly.

Someone who you say "hi" to once a day during your lunch break is not a "friend". He is someone whose existence you recognize. He is not someone you know on a deeply personal level.

Imo not even guys you did some hobbies together. It’s hard to swallow, but many people just accept your presence, because you have a right to participate not because they really want you to be with you. That’s why I am saying I only have 1-2 real friends. There are more people I regularly spend my spare time with, but they dont really give a shit about me.

 

[HowCanSheSlap]

When I was at uni sometimes I would get people intiate contact even call me or tell me to hang out (they were guys obviously) but I would shy away or make excuses. Been friendless ever since I left college (aged 17) and even then I didn't really have any friends. The only friends I have are those from childhood but they live too far for contact.

 

[Yerberito]

I can relate

 

[Deleted member 23981]

I've only had 5 freinds, and i've known them for years, and there all inkwells jfl

 

[Subhuman100]

I've only had 5 freinds, and i've known them for years, and there all inkwells jfl

Are they blackpilled? Do they post here?

 

[The Abyss]

I have a sizeable group of people who I would describe as acquaintances rather than friends.

I notice acquaintances rather than friends is a big trend in the UK. What's the deal, British mentality that we can't open up to others or ppl are selfish & compartmentalize their social circle so they have a buddy for each outlet picking the person based on the activity rather than the other way around.

 

[Deleted member 23820]

I don’t even have friends. I’ve been lonely for years. The only people I interact with are my family.

 

[Deleted member 23981]

Are they blackpilled? Do they post here?

no redpilled, slight blackpilled.

 

[Deleted member 17749]

I have no real friends. Everyone is an acquaintance to me.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Incel trait: Not only having to initiate everything, but also getting falsely accused of isolating ourselves when it was society that rejected us

 

[RandomGuy]

I don't even try anymore

You have to work

 

[ionlycopenow]

Sounds right.