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Blackpill Incel trait: Having to constantly lie to people

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You dont want to lie, but if you dont lie, you'll fuck yourself up even more.

You basically have to constantly lie about the most trivial things.

Well, I dont anymore, since Im not ever in society in social settings, but for you guys that work, and have to be around normies, I am sure you're constantly forced to lie and make shit up about yourself in order to simply avoid getting destroyed/fired/alienated from the few social connections you do have.

The worst thing is, that you dont want to do it, you hate every time you're put into a position where you HAVE to lie to avoid negative consequences, for example if you admit you're a low status loser (even though they can sense it) you still have to pretend like you aren't, and that you're just another normie, because if you were just honest about your situation, you'd get shit on even more by those people you're around, so you HAVE to lie, and every-time you LIE it kills a part of you, before you know it you've created this whole different personality and life. You might speak to 100 people, but each of those 100 people have 100 different versions of a story you made up, in order just to try to appear normie.

Be honest, how many of you do this? I just cant see how you couldn't.


This can also be what causes anxiety for group-settings, you never want to be in that large group setting, because each person in that group has a different understanding of you. Only normies maintain their persona across multiple areas of life, a normie could goto a work function, or out with friends, or be at the gym, or with the neighbors, or join friend of friends social groups, and you'd get relatively the same persona from the normie, but if you do this to an incel, the incel is going to have like 999 completely different persona's, because the incel must forge a new persona to fit every new situation in order to avoid getting brutally socially destroyed, the end result is, you'd be completely fucked if all your different social groups came together as 1, you wouldn't know which persona to use, you'd be fucked, and thats where a lot of the anxiety comes.
 
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Happened to me a few times, but it doesn't kill me on the inside. It just becomes part of your defense system. Now watch people will accuse you of not being an incel just because you can talk to people, JFL.
 
That's right, being honest puts you in even more shit. People will shit on you even if you are harmless and minding your own shit.
 
Happened to me a few times, but it doesn't kill me on the inside. It just becomes part of your defense system. Now watch people will accuse you of not being an incel just because you can talk to people, JFL.

Oh, I dont have to do it anymore. Because im not in society. I just noticed the trend of anytime I was autistically honest, that I would always get brutally destroyed from my autistic honesty. So I started creating back-stories anytime I had to come into contact with normies, so I was prepared and ready to go with my selected persona for that interaction. I never did it on the fly, it was always something I had to prepare before hand.

Lucky for me I dont need to do this anymore because Im not forced into social situations where I would have to lie, I only ever talk to doctor, or clinical psychologist, or my parents, or autismbux people, I can be brutally honest with all of them, which is good for me, no worry with that.


Example: One time the autismbux people sent me to university to do some courses, and I had created a fake persona, because I knew I couldnt avoid interaction, so I pretended to be married, bought a fake wedding ring and wedding band, and had my backstory ready to go at that university. Luckily that was only for like 9 months, so I had to basically act as some normie married guy there. I think everyone fell for it. It worked well, I noticed a significant increase in the amount of respect shown to me, as a married man. I still giggle when I think back on that.
 
In my opinion lying causes more issues (in the grand scheme of things)

Compared obviously to normie stuff to try and not sound wierd, well I used to lie, but not anymore.

Normies brag and lie to fit in and always will, but I hate normies and never have or will be like them.

I've always been different and will continue to be, I will always despise every normie cunt I see regardless, I have no reason to try and lie anymore. This society is full of attention seeking big headed egotistical faggots.

"yea i've had sex mate" "yea mate, smoking and week is cool init" "you like normie music and clubbing mate?"

Like stfu you fucking mongal.
 
Very based,this year,exactly I ve been lying A LOT,to my parents,relatives etc. because im sinking literally but I have to pretend not
 
In my opinion lying causes more issues (in the grand scheme of things)

Compared obviously to normie stuff to try and not sound wierd, well I used to lie, but not anymore.

Normies brag and lie to fit in and always will, but I hate normies and never have or will be like them.

I've always been different and will continue to be, I will always despise every normie cunt I see regardless, I have no reason to try and lie anymore. This society is full of attention seeking big headed egotistical faggots.

"yea i've had sex mate" "yea mate, smoking and week is cool init" "you like normie music and clubbing mate?"

Like stfu you fucking mongal.

They aren't lying, theyre just exaggerating, but at the core, their being honest.

Like when a normie says "hueeee yeeh brrooo totally fucked this 10/10 over the weekend", but in reality she was a fat girl, prob 3/10. He still had sex though. Where as you have to say "uhhhh yeh bro totally fucked a woman as well lol haha good times", but you didn't, and you never have, etc. So he does have the sexual experience, even if the quality of it is exaggerated, it is a real sexual experience, where as your sexual experience is completely imaginary.

But if you say "lol I stayed at home like usual" he will then ask...wait, you not go out bro? , then he'll look at you, and think, well yeah, hes short and ugly, hmm I wonder if hes a virgin lol, i bet he is, im gona ask him "Hey anon are you virgin lol?" and your face wont be able to hide, it will be hard to lie, see the more honest you are, the more questions that start being asked of you, if you just lied upfront, he wouldn't start questioning you on other things, picking and prodding to find more info, he'd just assume you were some low-tier failed normie who some how manages to get sex, he wouldn't assume the worst (incel)
 
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They aren't lying, theyre just exaggerating, but at the core, their being honest.

Like when a normie says "hueeee yeeh brrooo totally fucked this 10/10 over the weekend", but in reality she was a fat girl, prob 3/10. He still had sex though. Where as you have to say "uhhhh yeh bro totally fucked a woman as well lol haha good times", but you didn't, and you never have, etc.
Yea this very much,the suckers exagerate EVERYTHING,to add glamour,adventure to their speech
 
They aren't lying, theyre just exaggerating, but at the core, their being honest.

Like when a normie says "hueeee yeeh brrooo totally fucked this 10/10 over the weekend", but in reality she was a fat girl, prob 3/10. He still had sex though. Where as you have to say "uhhhh yeh bro totally fucked a woman as well lol haha good times", but you didn't, and you never have, etc. So he does have the sexual experience, even if the quality of it is exaggerated, it is a real sexual experience, where as your sexual experience is completely imaginary.

I understand your point, I guess my opinion is just slightly different.

Mainly because normies, in your words exaggerate, but they do it sooooooooooooooo much. To the point where they're just lying bastards and it gets boring real, real quick. Because every conversation they have is all about acting cool and tough etc.
 
Is this really much of a problem for you? Most coworkers never talk to me or only talk to me if they want something done, so the lies I have to tell are few. But it is easier to make up a lie about what you did during the weekend or over a holiday than explain the truth.
 
I am lying everyday to parents, fellow students, athe same time I am really shitty at it-low iq/sperg thing
It is like creating 10+RPG characters and you have to switch between them all the time.
you have to remember what you said to everyone and I get shit mixed up.
Somehow getting labelled as absent-minded or dimwitted saves me from total ostracism.
Better to be made constantly made fun of than ignorred ngl.

The thing about dying inside is true. My soul is all bent and splittered.
Don't know who I am
 
You might speak to 100 people, but each of those 100 people have 100 different versions of a story you made up, in order just to try to appear normie.
go damn this hit entirely way too close to home :cryfeels:
 
But it is easier to make up a lie about what you did during the weekend or over a holiday than explain the truth.

I find this incredibly difficult. Why? Because I have no clue what normies do during the weekend and over holidays, so I can't make up a believable lie. I therefore live in fear of the question "so what did you do this weekend/holiday?" I have no good way to answer it.
 
Fuark this is brutally relatable aswell
 
I lie to my normtard coworkers, but since they're all the same cookie cutter NPCs, I can use the same lies for all of them. They all approve and disapprove of the same shit, so I don't need a hundred different stories.
 
I probably did this in the past,but nowadays I tell all the truth to the point where some people think I'm trolling when talking about how much of a loser I am.
 
Lying about free time, lying about sexual experiences, lying about social status, lying about hobbies, lying about having friends, lying about how you're perceived, lying about not being introverted etc.
 
You can't be honest without getting dumped on. You tell the lies they demand of you and when they find out, you're a monster. No winning.
 
That's me. At college I lie about everything and as you said I have to make up different lies on the spot. I avoid groups of people for this reason.
There's so many stupid things I have to worry about because of lies. I'm forced to lie and I hate it.

I've always had this issue. I'm never the same person with different people. This was especially bad in highschool, but I'm also wildly different when around my parents compared to relatives and family friends.

I'm tired of it.
 
I am lying everyday to parents, fellow students, athe same time I am really shitty at it-low iq/sperg thing
It is like creating 10+RPG characters and you have to switch between them all the time.
you have to remember what you said to everyone and I get shit mixed up.
Somehow getting labelled as absent-minded or dimwitted saves me from total ostracism.
Better to be made constantly made fun of than ignorred ngl.

The thing about dying inside is true. My soul is all bent and splittered.
Don't know who I am
What kind of lies do you have to tell your parents everyday?
 
When I start working and have to interact with people I will
 
i lie all the time tbh, i've been doing it since i very young and have got a bad habit of doing so. Plus, lying to normies is soo fun especially when they believe it and fall for the trick and leave me alone.
 
I have to lie and be PC in alot of shit, especially school.
 
I just shut myself off completely
 
What kind of lies do you have to tell your parents everyday?
This past month I have been more honest with my family. Christmas and shit.

I was lying to them in regards to how I feel, what I think, how I'm doing with my studies, etc.
Earlier I loved my family to some extend you know.
Recently I died inside and thought I had to fake feelings towards them like some psycho.
 
without pissing anyone off this kind of shit is irrelevant when women go on tinder and swipe right on Chads with no bio and agree to meet in the first three messages.
 
IRL, an incel can rarely be honest with anyone.

This forum is one of the few areas where I can truly speak my mind.
 
Literally not a single thing my family thinks about me is true. I've built up an unending web of lies throughout the years and theres no way out.
 
Literally not a single thing my family thinks about me is true. I've built up an unending web of lies throughout the years and theres no way out.
same. We have to lie from birth to death. Over for us. Though lots of the incels here are NEETs or non NT so they dont have lie as much as some failed normies do.
 
Fuck it I just say whatever and it's usually true but then I get told I'm lying anyway just because it's a hard truth or not something they are prepared to hear.
 
That's me. At college I lie about everything and as you said I have to make up different lies on the spot. I avoid groups of people for this reason.
There's so many stupid things I have to worry about because of lies. I'm forced to lie and I hate it.

This was part of why I dropped out. My circumstances were complicated after switching majors and some other fuckery so I didn't know people and would have to lie, avoid topics, explain circumstances. That's an incel trait as well; having to explain your circumstances.

It lied to my parents about dropping out, I want to go another semester without stress and nagging from them.

I'm also wildly different when around my parents compared to relatives and family friends.

Family friends are the worst for this. Especially if you're middle class, everyone is expected to graduate with a degree and start dating by a certain age or you're considered a failure. You knew these people since childhood and they want to see your whole family every now and then and you're forced into explaining your circumstances or lying.
 
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switching majors and some other fuckery
Same. I actually failed 3 years in a row and had to change courses/majors. I had to lie about it because I didn't want to appear like a complete retard.
 
Beta trait* I'm not a loser just because I'm not good looking, I'm pretty satisfied with my life.
 
Beta trait* I'm not a loser just because I'm not good looking, I'm pretty satisfied with my life.

"Wow mate you have a really great job, great house, great car, great clothes, great personality, amazing lifestyle, you must be an absolute HIT with the ladies!"

"Wow Descartes, you've grown into such a successful accomplished man, how come we have never seen you with a girlfriend, are you one of those homosexuals or transsexuals or pedophiles?"


Whats your response? :feelsPop:
 
Oh, I dont have to do it anymore. Because im not in society. I just noticed the trend of anytime I was autistically honest, that I would always get brutally destroyed from my autistic honesty. So I started creating back-stories anytime I had to come into contact with normies, so I was prepared and ready to go with my selected persona for that interaction. I never did it on the fly, it was always something I had to prepare before hand.

Lucky for me I dont need to do this anymore because Im not forced into social situations where I would have to lie, I only ever talk to doctor, or clinical psychologist, or my parents, or autismbux people, I can be brutally honest with all of them, which is good for me, no worry with that.


Example: One time the autismbux people sent me to university to do some courses, and I had created a fake persona, because I knew I couldnt avoid interaction, so I pretended to be married, bought a fake wedding ring and wedding band, and had my backstory ready to go at that university. Luckily that was only for like 9 months, so I had to basically act as some normie married guy there. I think everyone fell for it. It worked well, I noticed a significant increase in the amount of respect shown to me, as a married man. I still giggle when I think back on that.
I did that for a while! Lol.

I hoped some gal would "lead me astray" but alas no.
I am lying everyday to parents, fellow students, athe same time I am really shitty at it-low iq/sperg thing
It is like creating 10+RPG characters and you have to switch between them all the time.
you have to remember what you said to everyone and I get shit mixed up.
Somehow getting labelled as absent-minded or dimwitted saves me from total ostracism.
Better to be made constantly made fun of than ignorred ngl.

The thing about dying inside is true. My soul is all bent and splittered.
Don't know who I am
I kept my lies simple. Same lie for everyone. Easier for me since no fam.
 
I plan to liemaxxing + gymaxxing + looksmaxxing

Pretend to have a girlfriend
Made up stories, fake photos
Faking going out with friends / girlfriend, yet going out alone hiding
Fake friend texting me as my girlfriend

If you are around normies you have no other option just to liemaxxing.
 
"Wow Descartes, you've grown into such a successful accomplished man, how come we have never seen you with a girlfriend, are you one of those homosexuals or transsexuals or pedophiles?"
No, I'm just not good looking enough, girls always have better-looking options, but even if my looks magically change it would still be hard to find a girl who is compatible with me and with my lifestyle.
That, honest answer, I've been asked this quite a few times and that is what I said.
 
No, I'm just not good looking enough, girls always have better-looking options, but even if my looks magically change it would still be hard to find a girl who is compatible with me and with my lifestyle.
That, honest answer, I've been asked this quite a few times and that is what I said.

There's absolutely no chance in hell a normie would ever accept that response, especially someone from your family/extended family.
 
Normies can rot in hell
 
There's absolutely no chance in hell a normie would ever accept that response, especially someone from your family/extended family.
My family members never asked me that because they just assume I'm too weird to attract a girl and they know I have really high standards regarding the intelligence and culture of my hypothetical girlfriend, I couldn't care less about looks. A random normie wouldn't accept the answer and would say something like ''looks don't matter'' and other bluepilled stuff, but because I also state that I have zero sentimental interest in the type of girls I get to know they just think it's my personality and stop.
 
My family members never asked me that because they just assume I'm too weird to attract a girl and they know I have really high standards regarding the intelligence and culture of my hypothetical girlfriend, I couldn't care less about looks. A random normie wouldn't accept the answer and would say something like ''looks don't matter'' and other bluepilled stuff, but because I also state that I have zero sentimental interest in the type of girls I get to know they just think it's my personality and stop.

I know what youre saying, but the fact is they must think youre hiding something, like being a gay or pedo, thats where the normie mind goes, im not even trying to make fun of you, its just how it is. Even though youre being honest, they very most likely think youre hiding something.
 
I know what youre saying, but the fact is they must think youre hiding something, like being a gay or pedo, thats where the normie mind goes, im not even trying to make fun of you, its just how it is. Even though youre being honest, they very most likely think youre hiding something.
They probably do, I've got some weird looks before, but I honestly don't care, I'm honest and if they don't like it it's their problem.
 
Females lie all the time. Yet they're not incels?
 
You dont want to lie, but if you dont lie, you'll fuck yourself up even more.

You basically have to constantly lie about the most trivial things.

Well, I dont anymore, since Im not ever in society in social settings, but for you guys that work, and have to be around normies, I am sure you're constantly forced to lie and make shit up about yourself in order to simply avoid getting destroyed/fired/alienated from the few social connections you do have.

The worst thing is, that you dont want to do it, you hate every time you're put into a position where you HAVE to lie to avoid negative consequences, for example if you admit you're a low status loser (even though they can sense it) you still have to pretend like you aren't, and that you're just another normie, because if you were just honest about your situation, you'd get shit on even more by those people you're around, so you HAVE to lie, and every-time you LIE it kills a part of you, before you know it you've created this whole different personality and life. You might speak to 100 people, but each of those 100 people have 100 different versions of a story you made up, in order just to try to appear normie.

Be honest, how many of you do this? I just cant see how you couldn't.


This can also be what causes anxiety for group-settings, you never want to be in that large group setting, because each person in that group has a different understanding of you. Only normies maintain their persona across multiple areas of life, a normie could goto a work function, or out with friends, or be at the gym, or with the neighbors, or join friend of friends social groups, and you'd get relatively the same persona from the normie, but if you do this to an incel, the incel is going to have like 999 completely different persona's, because the incel must forge a new persona to fit every new situation in order to avoid getting brutally socially destroyed, the end result is, you'd be completely fucked if all your different social groups came together as 1, you wouldn't know which persona to use, you'd be fucked, and thats where a lot of the anxiety comes.
This describes me so much. My dad is like " i hope you are keeping learning at school" and i have to say "yes its ok" because i don't wanna him find out what failure her ex raised. He asked me if i spend my new year with friends and i automatically answered " what friends?" He was a bit triggered lol. My relationships with people who cant see my problems at their real intensity are built on lies, but the whole shit started falling a few months ago and im gonna be fucked up soon. Jokes, im already fucked up.
 
No, I'm just not good looking enough, girls always have better-looking options, but even if my looks magically change it would still be hard to find a girl who is compatible with me and with my lifestyle.
That, honest answer, I've been asked this quite a few times and that is what I said.
At least people ask you, no one has ever asked me seriously about relationships. One foid coworker mockingly asked me if I was gay since I never mentioned any girlfriends or exes. When my coworkers talk about relationships they never bother to ask me about mine. So I never have to lie about relationships: one benefit of being ugly.:feelsLightsaber:
One of my male coworkers once said to me: you don't have any friends right? you just go home after work and do nothing, never go out right? no sex or relationships? I can tell from looking at you. He was right of course.:dab::feelsautistic:
 
One of my male coworkers once said to me: you don't have any friends right? you just go home after work and do nothing, never go out right? no sex or relationships? I can tell from looking at you.
:feelsPop:
 

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