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Discussion Incel Trait: Going to bed at 9 and spending your first two hours there fantasizing about having a gf before actually falling asleep.

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I do this every night tbh. I try to finish all my work early just so I can have more of this time. Got all my shit done early today so extra time today boyos.
 
yup, ive gone to bed earlier then that many times doing the same
 
Not quite the same, but I usually spend 30 minutes fantasizing about a gf I've acquired in a post-apocalyptic setting. This eases me in to sleep.
 
I hate it when I stop fantasizing and snap back into the real world, its brutal ngl :feelsrope:
 
waking up at 6:00 on the weekend with no alarm
 
Yes I do that every night
 
Staying up till 3 am then falling asleep out of exhaustion.
 
I do this every night too but I fall asleep within minutes usually since I'm tired from doing shit all day. No rest for the wicked :/
 
I dont relate senpai
 
I don't keep track of how long it takes before I drift off to sleep, but yes, I do this on a regular basis.
 
I do the fantasizing part
I just hold my pillow tight and then imagine the physical feeling of being hugged by my imaginary gf from behind
fuck this is pathetic and depressing
 
its over for me
 
I do the fantasizing part
I just hold my pillow tight and then imagine the physical feeling of being hugged by my imaginary gf from behind
fuck this is pathetic and depressing
I just turned off the lights and pretended that my pillow was a girl jfl
 
I hate it when I stop fantasizing and snap back into the real world, its brutal ngl :feelsrope:
This happens with my dreams all the time, I'll be dreaming and then get devastated being brought back down to reality.
I do the fantasizing part
I just hold my pillow tight and then imagine the physical feeling of being hugged by my imaginary gf from behind
fuck this is pathetic and depressing
I just turned off the lights and pretended that my pillow was a girl jfl
tfw you look forward to cuddling your pillow, I know the feel it's over.
 
tfw you look forward to cuddling your pillow, I know the feel it's over.

I haven't taken any hard drugs, but that's what I imagine they feel like. Actually cuddling/pretending with your pillow is nice, but as soon as you stop you feel shitty and insane.
 
Only an idiot tortures themselves like this

My routine is fap before sleep, so sex and relationships are the furthest thing from my mind, all that there is, is calmness and a feeling of satisfaction, you just feel so comfy and tired afterwards you drift away, you're not really thinking about anything tbh, mind is kind of blank, literally thinking about "falling asleep"

Staying up till 3 am then falling asleep out of exhaustion.

Now this I have done, but only to binge watch a show/anime that is going great
 
This is actually very telling and how pathetic we are when I can relate to everything you said OP

I typically head to bed around 11 so that I can get an hour of jack-off time and then an after of just laying there and daydreaming of my gf and what I'd do if I ever got one and of all the things we would do together and how our lives would live out.

Sometimes I'm so into my daydream that I just skip jerk-off time and spend the whole 2hours making myself the perfect life in my head. Full of magnificient details that make me cry before I slumber. Then my phone rings and it is time to go back to hell.
 
This is actually very telling and how pathetic we are when I can relate to everything you said OP

I typically head to bed around 11 so that I can get an hour of jack-off time and then an after of just laying there and daydreaming of my gf and what I'd do if I ever got one and of all the things we would do together and how our lives would live out.

Sometimes I'm so into my daydream that I just skip jerk-off time and spend the whole 2hours making myself the perfect life in my head. Full of magnificient details that make me cry before I slumber. Then my phone rings and it is time to go back to hell.

Nobody is forcing you to do this, if you are aware of what you are doing, why do you keep repeating the action, just to complain about it after, i'll never understand this kind of thinking, just stop
 
Kinda, but instead I fantasize about my death.
 
Hug the pillow every night.

I definitely recommend a totally made up imaginary gf instead of fantasizing about a real girl. Otherwise you'll feel bad when the actual girl gets a bf, has a kid, you hear about a one night stand, etc. Maybe just pick a name you like and think up scenarios where you end up together
 
Hug the pillow every night.

I definitely recommend a totally made up imaginary gf instead of fantasizing about a real girl. Otherwise you'll feel bad when the actual girl gets a bf, has a kid, you hear about a one night stand, etc. Maybe just pick a name you like and think up scenarios where you end up together
I do this often. No name or scenarios. Just imagining that there's a girl laying down with me.
 
I never fantasize about having a girlfriend.
 
She doesn't even have to be an actual GF fantasy. Some fantasies are less specific. God I'm a loser
 
Every night in teen years. Now tired, and getting to sleep faster, after short sexual fantasies about lolis for fapping
 
Sometimes i bluepill myself about the chance of gf just to even have the energy and motivation to so something with my life.
 
You need some anti estrogen pills.
 
I'm so far gone, and so finished with humanity, that I'm now imagining myself as an entirely different SPECIES with a loving female of that species.

This is what you get when you've been cheated out of a normal human experience in 40 years of living.
 
I hug my pillow, sometimes cry into it.
 
Nobody is forcing you to do this, if you are aware of what you are doing, why do you keep repeating the action, just to complain about it after, i'll never understand this kind of thinking, just stop
God you sound like a success-driven normie
 
Sounds like maladaptive daydreaming.


I've done this for decades. The hour or two before I fall asleep is my favourite part of the day. I love the sensation of being tired and daydreaming. I used to reimagine specific scenarios with specific girls, talking to them, flirting, how the conversation would go, etc. Nowadays my mind is too fractured and fried, I can't really concentrate my thoughts on specific fantasies as much. Sometimes I just fantasise about cuddling with a girl.
 
God you sound like a success-driven normie

Has nothing to do with success, has more to do with common sense and/or not being a masochistic cuck, some of you guys seem like you get off on torturing yourself and you are just trying to normalize your cucked mindset and justify it to yourself

"Incel trait - secretly following Chad and your oneitis on their dates and watching them make out, this makes me so hard depressed, who else knows this feel?"

Legit sound retarded, just stop torturing yourself, if you can't, its because you enjoy it
 
Has nothing to do with success, has more to do with common sense and/or not being a masochistic cuck, some of you guys seem like you get off on torturing yourself and you are just trying to normalize your cucked mindset and justify it to yourself

"Incel trait - secretly following Chad and your oneitis on their dates and watching them make out, this makes me so hard depressed, who else knows this feel?"

Legit sound retarded, just stop torturing yourself, if you can't, its because you enjoy it
Another based post by BPP. I almost wish I was more cucked and could enjoy the current state of the world, but I only get pain from it.

I am not scared of reality, so I feel the pain, I look out the window, I go outside, I go to the gym. I don't put on blinders and 5dimensional cope-chess to distract my mind, but I almost wish I did.

I WILL CONQUER THIS PAIN OR DIE, I WILL NOT RETREAT OR GOUGE MY EYES OUT TO REMAIN SANE
 
Incel trait, being suicidal when you wake up and find out you don't have a GF like in the dream.
 
This one hit me pretty hard.
 

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