Incel is just the modern term for a loser

[BKing]

Think about it. The problem with inceldom is much, muuch bigger than not being able to get laid. The core of it is struggling socially and this WILL destroy your life. Struggling with socialization in childhood leads to bullying. Then, during puberty, it's seeing all the pretty girls who want nothing to do with you and missing out on all the fun during these years. Then, by college, isolation and depression have probably taken their toll on your brain and the mental fog prevents you from getting good grades, even though you're smart. Besides, professors hate shy people as well. After college, you struggle to find a job because employers don't want any weirdos in their company.

We can go on and on. Being an incel is like the opposite of winning the lottery, except it happens extremely often. You might call it bad luck or blame it on your looks, but I think most of you agree. Inceldom screws up your life and not having a girlfriend is just a fraction of it. I bet most of us are dissatisfied with their overall life situation. Having a bad life leads to being perpetually single, not the other way.

And it's not something new that you can blame on the Jews, the economy or freemasonry. People just used to call us losers in the past - average looks at best, no friends, being boring and talentless, not having a good career AND
Being a bachelor past a certain age. We've always existed, it's just the term that's different.

 

[Mainländer]

Nah. You can still be a loser as a good-looking guy. And still get laid and be a loser.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Incels are far less common in monogamy cultures. A 10 gets a 10 and a 1 gets a 1.

 

[BKing]

Nah. You can still be a loser as a good-looking guy. And still get laid and be a loser.

Hardly true. A truly good looking guy would get much more opportunities in life, simply from not being ostracized, unless he has mental issues.

 

[Mainländer]

Hardly true. A truly good looking guy would get much more opportunities in life, simply from not being ostracized, unless he has mental issues.

We have plenty of mentalcels right here on this site. And they don't have severe mental issues as far as I can see they commenting here.

Severe mental issues for me is either severe retardation (anyone able to post here properly doesn't have it) or extreme social fear/schizophrenia or something (which most people here obviously don't have as well).

 

[BKing]

We have plenty of mentalcels right here on this site. And they don't have severe mental issues as far as I can see they commenting here.

Severe mental issues for me is either severe retardation (anyone able to post here properly doesn't have it) or extreme social fear/schizophrenia or something (which most people here obviously don't have as well).

Yes, mentalceldom is real. But how does it develop? Gradually, again from being isolated. Even being an introvert from a young age will fuck up your life dramatically.

You have to fit in with the majority. Always. Otherwise you're just asking for a shitty adolescence and life. Little things keep happening and one day you wake up and you're an incel. And you can't fix that because it's a myriad of physical and psychological problems developed over time.

 

[Reborn]

Yes, mentalceldom is real. But how does it develop? Gradually, again from being isolated. Even being an introvert from a young age will fuck up your life dramatically.

Makes you wonder if there are any extroverted incels. I need to do a survey.

 

[Evildoer]

Loser is one who had opportunity, but failed. This is loser. We was doomed from the start, no chances, no opportunities, and therefore we're not losers. We are just incels.

 

[Mainländer]

Yes, mentalceldom is real. But how does it develop? Gradually, again from being isolated. Even being an introvert from a young age will fuck up your life dramatically.

You have to fit in with the majority. Always. Otherwise you're just asking for a shitty adolescence and life. Little things keep happening and one day you wake up and you're an incel. And you can't fix that because it's a myriad of physical and psychological problems developed over time.

I try to hold back a bit because I know bullying other cels is against the rules, but I think 5+ guys who are neither retarded or severely perturbed by schizophrenia or something similar are volcels, even if introvert/awkward.

Many of them never approached. This is revolting to be honest. Just drink some fucking beer until you're low inhib, go to a social environment and approach some realistic acquirable foids with simple stuff like "so, I saw you and wanted to know you better"/simple life questions/going for the kiss/getting the contact. Do that like 100 times minimum, and if you are still incel then you can come back here and say to my face I'm full of bullshit.

 

[BKing]

Makes you wonder if there are any extroverted incels. I need to do a survey.

I bet there are none. If there is a single unifying element among us, it will be this. And not getting laid, of course.

Loser is one who had opportunity, but failed. This is loser. We was doomed from the start, no chances, no opportunities, and therefore we're not losers. We are just incels.

Good point. But who told you we didn't have a chance? Can you pinpoint the exact moment you became an incel, even if you didn't realize it then? Maybe you could have developed better social skills, or not mouthbreathe. I'm not a fan of this theory but I'm using it as an example. We did have a chance and we failed. Young.

 

[ElliotLookAlike]

you got that right

 

[Getlooksordie]

I bet there are none. If there is a single unifying element among us, it will be this. And not getting laid, of course.


Good point. But who told you we didn't have a chance? Can you pinpoint the exact moment you became an incel, even if you didn't realize it then? Maybe you could have developed better social skills, or not mouthbreathe. I'm not a fan of this theory but I'm using it as an example. We did have a chance and we failed. Young.

at birth.

 

[BKing]

at birth.

We might have the genetic predisposition, if such a thing exists, but I believe our environment affects us much more deeply.

 

[Evildoer]

Good point. But who told you we didn't have a chance? Can you pinpoint the exact moment you became an incel, even if you didn't realize it then? Maybe you could have developed better social skills, or not mouthbreathe. I'm not a fan of this theory but I'm using it as an example. We did have a chance and we failed. Young.

How you could develop better soc skills? You had your base, which was genetically given to you. Everything else is a snowball. Once you failed socialisation in primary school, it won't get any better, most likely. Your soc skills won't develop properly, if you don't fit into society, if you're rejected.
About mouthbreathing - your parents could prevent it, but they didn't, and this applies to pretty much everything what you experience during childhood, according to this logic your parents are losers, not you, lol.

 

[BKing]

How you could develop better soc skills? You had your base, which was genetically given to you. Everything else is a snowball. Once you failed socialisation in primary school, it won't get any better, most likely. Your soc skills won't develop properly, if you don't fit into society, if you're rejected.
About mouthbreathing - your parents could prevent it, but they didn't, and this applies to pretty much everything what you experience during childhood, according to this logic your parents are losers, not you, lol.

True, which is kind of ironic. Bad parenting is also heavily linked to inceldom. Except we pay for our parents' mistakes or inability to provide a better environment.

You're raising an interesting question, which is: Are social skills, essentially, a talent or a gift? What makes certain children fail at it? This goes right against inceltears and their "insightful" theories and tips.

 

[Getlooksordie]

We might have the genetic predisposition, if such a thing exists, but I believe our environment affects us much more deeply.

We might have the genetic predisposition, if such a thing exists, but I believe our environment affects us much more deeply.

not really. Genes are EVERYTHING. It´s human nature to not want to admit this because as humans we want to feel in control of our lives. However nothing could be further from the truth.

If you were born extremely attractive then you would´ve never been bullied. We worship good looking people because they really are better at everything because they were born with better genes. If you were born good looking you would´ve been great at sports, more intelligent, would be more talented, ect...

If you watch professional sports almost everyone is a chad lookswise. There is a reason why you never ever see good looking people working at McDonalds or other dead end loser jobs.

Having said all that a female could be ugly, fat, have zero talents, bitchy, mean and would still get treated well by society, especially men. No such thing as a female loser because chad and women never lose.

 

[Evildoer]

You're raising an interesting question, which is: Are social skills, essentially, a talent or a gift? What makes certain children fail at it? This goes right against inceltears and their "insightful" theories and tips.

Some children possess better hereditary base of social skills, which would hape them to develop, but this comes to looks as well. It's impossible to socialise when you're constantly bullied by your looks. Everything is pre-determined, i wasn't bullied by my looks, when i was a kid, but my autistic "base" wasn't enough to socialise properly, so i became mentalcel at first. And later, when i stopped growing at 5'6, got acne, i became an incel as well, as i was repulsive to femoids.

Genes are EVERYTHING.

This, tbh. Your life is predetermined by your genetics at 70% and your parents effort during your childhood at ~28%. So you have all your 98% out of your control.

 

[Deleted member 1060]

This homeless guy is an epitome of a loser. No job, no money, druggie, lives in a bush, no status, nothing, but he slays like crazy:

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

False. There are pretty boy NEETs and still have multiple girlfriends and therefore aren't incel but still losers because they're NEETs.

 

[Oblivion]

False. There are pretty boy NEETs and still have multiple girlfriends

Those aren't losers, those are slackers. Pretty sure nobody calls some one who has friends and a social life a loser