dr-problematic
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[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]I met him in a bar, he was kind of chubby and cute and friendly, I had just been screwed over by an asshole so I was feeling pretty low so a nice guy seemed like what I needed. I was about 28, he was in his 30s. We chatted for a bit and got steadily drunker and reckless. He ended up ditching his friends and we went back to his hotel room. I thought it would be a fun one-off.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Only he was just terrible. Clumsy, awkward, shaking, I still remember the hopeful look on his face as he fingered me all knuckles and thumbs in a way I hadn't experienced since my late teens. During the leadup I was rapidly losing any excitement I had plus realising I wasnt as attracted to his naked body as I had hoped. He was so sweet I didn't have the heart to tell him it wasn't doing it for me (also expressing needs was a problem of mine- that's another story). I encouraged PIV thinking at least that would be ok, but I was wrong. I had wanted a standard shag but this was soft, slow-but-awkward, making luuurve and he kept catching my eye and smiling like it was our wedding day. Something about it felt really weird. He came and then went down on me... Oh god... I still have nightmare flashbacks to him lapping at my vagina in a crouch position like an eager puppy... I am not trying to be cruel here it was just deeply unsexy somehow. I think I stopped him doing that and told him I was too tired/drunk to finish. He was so kind and nice about it and I felt terrible for hating the sex.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Afterwards he told me that a) I was his first, b) he was a lifelong Christian having doubts (hence the virginity), c) I had come along at the right time... he always knew there was something better than religion. I felt even worse as he thought sex marked the start of something special that night, whereas I had just been out to get laid.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]I stayed the night and swapped numbers trying to convince myself he was too nice to not give it a chance... but after one more date I realised I couldn't even bring myself to kiss him and had to end it. This whole episode makes me cringe, for my own behaviour as much as the memory of the sex.[/font]
terrible suicide fuel
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/7lt3xd/what_was_your_worst_consensual_sexual_experience/drow5z8/
EDIT: BE CAREFUL TO READ WOMAN"S LOGIC, JESUS CHRIST
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]I was flirting with this guy I saw in the halls in high school, but never actually talked to. He had a long time girlfriend we all just assumed would be together with forever. They must have broken up after graduation, but we saw each other and exchanged numbers, and went out on a date.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Something about the date just kind of rubbed me the wrong way. I didn't want to see him for a second time, but I didn't really know how to explain that, so I was hoping to just wean him off by talking to him less and less so that it appeared natural that we just drifted apart. (Not cool on my part, I know. I'm just awkward as shit.)[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]I was getting ready to head up to the college for the day, taking a shower, etc. He pulled the whole "Without me? (;" shit and I said something like "I take quick showers, you're not missing out." and he said "I can make it quick."[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]He actually comes over.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]At this point I'm like "Well, shit. He drove all the way over here for a quickie. I'd be a dick to turn him down." So I agreed.[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]It lasted, not even an exaggeration, less than a minute. I felt absolutely nothing, and I'm not entirely convinced he even penetrated. I think he just dry rubbed, and that got him off.[/font]
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/7lt3xd/what_was_your_worst_consensual_sexual_experience/drovth7/