Serious In need of serious low inhib maxxxing tips

[janoycresva]

I know everybody is about to say, "Chad doesn't need to be low inhib, he'll get his cock sucked regardless" and "Cope, personality doesn't mean shit". In my case however, I really think I might be able to pull if I wasn't such an awkward boyo. For me, I'd say it goes farther than just being "awkward", I literally shake with nervousness when talking to new people for extended periods of time (even when talking to friends that I haven't seen in a few months, I'll meet with them and start slightly shaking for the first 20 minutes or so, after that I'm good) and especially when the conversation is private (like at dinner). This applies to both men and women, I really think I have AVPD (Avoidant Personality Disorder). I display almost all of the symptoms. I know I wasn't always this way (it must have started when I was 13 years old and probably became exacerbated when my acne got severe).

I definitely think that this, above looks, for me personally, has affected my chances in dating. I'm going to be 20 KHHV soon and this is just getting frustrating, I can't establish any real connections with people. There are people that I know I mog and yet they have huge social circles so it cannot just be "it's because you're ugly".

What's your real low inhib maxxing advice? I need to fix myself.

 

[Deleted member 60]

try alcohok
I'm diagnosed AvPD and its the only way

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

are you the guy who would stare down old men in the grocery store to intimidate them? thats alpha af dawg

 

[Insomniac]

Step 1: don’t be autistic
Step 2: follow step 1
Step 3: do what step 2 said

 

[acnescarcel]

drink like 8-10 shots of whiskey back to back

 

[janoycresva]

try alcohok
I'm diagnosed AvPD and its the only way

I remember I tried alcohol once when I was 16, it took a lot of it for me to become social with zero anxiety. To the point where my motor functions were severely impaired. Three shots would do nothing, I'd still be hesitant in the back of my mind.

are you the guy who would stare down old men in the grocery store to intimidate them? thats alpha af dawg

yes, back when I was trying to tough guy maxxx. it was at the train station though. good memory bro.

 

[Guest2]

Are you tall and might be able to actually pull off alpha kinda shit, or small or whatever and might be better off just doing random funny shit or do approaches

 

[Deleted member 60]

I remember I tried alcohol once when I was 16, it took a lot of it for me to become social with zero anxiety. To the point where my motor functions were severely impaired. Three shots would do nothing, I'd still be hesitant in the back of my mind.

yes, back when I was trying to tough guy maxxx. it was at the train station though.

yeah, anxietycels usually have higher tolerance. It takes me 6-8 drinks to catch a buzz.
Chances are you have low GABA which can only be fixed with alcohol or medication. I never had much luck with benzos but it's worth a try.
Tbh you're better off going for one night stands if you're legit AvPD. Anything long term will be a challenge

 

[Ritalincel]

try diclazepam

try alcohok
I'm diagnosed AvPD and its the only way

Cope.

 

[Deleted member 60]

try diclazepam

Cope.

like I said, benzos have always been weak shit IME

 

[Cuyen]

Just be myself

 

[janoycresva]

yeah, anxietycels usually have higher tolerance. It takes me 6-8 drinks to catch a buzz.
Chances are you have low GABA which can only be fixed with alcohol or medication. I never had much luck with benzos but it's worth a try.
Tbh you're better off going for one night stands if you're legit AvPD. Anything long term will be a challenge

I will try it out thanks, maybe I’ll see a psyche and get diagnosed.

Are you tall and might be able to actually pull off alpha kinda shit, or small or whatever and might be better off just doing random funny shit or do approaches

The former but what even is alpha shit lol?

 

[NorthAfricanIncel]

Tbh you're better off going for one night stands if you're legit AvPD. Anything long term will be a challenge

 

[Caterpillar]

You have to break through shame barriers by deliberately doing abnormal things in public. One thing you can do is roar like a lion after waking up every day. As loud as you can

 

[IronMike]

just don't give a fuck.

 

[Izayacel]

Step 1: don’t be autistic
Step 2: follow step 1
Step 3: do what step 2 said

clockworker iq

 

[janoycresva]

You have to break through shame barriers by deliberately doing abnormal things in public. One thing you can do is roar like a lion after waking up every day. As loud as you can

fouseytubemaxxxing?

 

[Caterpillar]

fouseytubemaxxxing?

LOL

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Gymmaxx and instagrampostmaxx

 

[SlayerSlayer]

If you don't know what to say, don't say anything. Let them worry about your silence. The most important thing is display no signs of weakness or nervousness whatsoever. Every feeling you have and transmit must be ego boosting.

 

[janoycresva]

If you don't know what to say, don't say anything. Let them worry about your silence. The most important thing is display no signs of weakness or nervousness whatsoever. Every feeling you have and transmit must be ego boosting.

good advice thank you

 

[znbox]

Nothing will help unless you practice. Sure it's going to be humiliating and painful but there is literally no other way. Try to be in a situation when you have to talk to people, preferably every day for a long time.
I remember, when I used to go hiking with different groups, in the mornings when we would meet each other, I was the king of cringe an awkwardness. But after a long and exhausting hike, in the evening we would talk like old friends. Sure, the next time I'd meet the same people, I'd still be high inhib in the morning but again it would lower by the evening by a lot. It got easier every time. The first hike ever, I was also shaking like a little bitch.
My last hike which was several months ago, I didn't even blush once in the morning, just immediately started to talk to chicks who shared the car with me.
Just try to get in a situation when you have to talk to people. A job in a fast food restaurant may be a good idea. Sure it's humiliating and exhausting, but it seriously develops your skills in not giving a shit of what others think of you.
Another option is to get a hobby where you must talk to people. I don't know if you have them in the US, but here in Canada there are special conversation groups where recent imigrants or just people who want to improve public speaking skills go. Things like AA meetings will also help with that.
So basically, there is no other way than to actually talk. Remember uninstall, and how his inhib went so low after approaching females.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Honestly, there's no easy way to do it.

You can't gain the confidence/low inhibition needed to approach a girl you find attractive by reading words on a computer screen. You need to go out and do it.

It's not easy, but once you've shown yourself you can do it for the first time, if you persist it will gradually become easier.

 

[Deleted member 60]

If you don't know what to say, don't say anything. Let them worry about your silence. The most important thing is display no signs of weakness or nervousness whatsoever. Every feeling you have and transmit must be ego boosting.

very legit advice

 

[janoycresva]

Nothing will help unless you practice. Sure it's going to be humiliating and painful but there is literally no other way. Try to be in a situation when you have to talk to people, preferably every day for a long time.
I remember, when I used to go hiking with different groups, in the mornings when we would meet each other, I was the king of cringe an awkwardness. But after a long and exhausting hike, in the evening we would talk like old friends. Sure, the next time I'd meet the same people, I'd still be high inhib in the morning but again it would lower by the evening by a lot. It got easier every time. The first hike ever, I was also shaking like a little bitch.
My last hike which was several months ago, I didn't even blush once in the morning, just immediately started to talk to chicks who shared the car with me.
Just try to get in a situation when you have to talk to people. A job in a fast food restaurant may be a good idea. Sure it's humiliating and exhausting, but it seriously develops your skills in not giving a shit of what others think of you.
Another option is to get a hobby where you must talk to people. I don't know if you have them in the US, but here in Canada there are special conversation groups where recent imigrants or just people who want to improve public speaking skills go. Things like AA meetings will also help with that.
So basically, there is no other way than to actually talk. Remember uninstall, and how his inhib went so low after approaching females.

thank you for the advice

Honestly, there's no easy way to do it.

You can't gain the confidence/low inhibition needed to approach a girl you find attractive by reading words on a computer screen. You need to go out and do it.

It's not easy, but once you've shown yourself you can do it for the first time, if you persist it will gradually become easier.

thank you

 

[Romello Gaghan 2]

Psych yourself into the mindset that the world is a playground, which it is.