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So this was the second year of my bachelor degree. The first year I had 3 friends but they all dropped out, and afterwards I didn't really find a friend group.
I missed the first lesson of a mandatory course, and the second lesson I saw that people had already formed groups. Because the project hadn't started yet I thought I would just join a group and happily continue with the course.
But the first group didn't want to let me in and asked me to join another group. I asked a second group but they ignored me and told me to ask others. I circled around the entire classroom and none of my 55 classmates allowed me into their group.
Then there was one guy from a later year who didn't know me and he said "sure you can join". I just have to ask my group members (people from my year). So he asked this guy on facebook, and the guy responded something like "don't add him. he is always late and nobody really knows him". I felt completely sad and I said, "don't bother, I'll take it next year"
Then afterwards I got an email from the faculty asking why I didn't enroll in the course and if everything was going ok with me. What am I supposed to tell them? I can't take your course because all my classmates excluded me?
The rest of my bachelor years I was ostracized from my classmates. They all looked at me like I killed someone, gossiped about me behind my back, and I never was able to make any friends anymore. I was afraid to join even a single social event.
I missed the first lesson of a mandatory course, and the second lesson I saw that people had already formed groups. Because the project hadn't started yet I thought I would just join a group and happily continue with the course.
But the first group didn't want to let me in and asked me to join another group. I asked a second group but they ignored me and told me to ask others. I circled around the entire classroom and none of my 55 classmates allowed me into their group.
Then there was one guy from a later year who didn't know me and he said "sure you can join". I just have to ask my group members (people from my year). So he asked this guy on facebook, and the guy responded something like "don't add him. he is always late and nobody really knows him". I felt completely sad and I said, "don't bother, I'll take it next year"
Then afterwards I got an email from the faculty asking why I didn't enroll in the course and if everything was going ok with me. What am I supposed to tell them? I can't take your course because all my classmates excluded me?
The rest of my bachelor years I was ostracized from my classmates. They all looked at me like I killed someone, gossiped about me behind my back, and I never was able to make any friends anymore. I was afraid to join even a single social event.
