Let me make something very clear: people on that subreddit have an objective, that objective is not to fight misogyny, because they know that by provoking us they add fuel to the burning, by trolling us they makes us angrier and more hateful, and they still do it, their objective is not to reduce the amount of people who are incels, because you can't make an incel stop being an incel by bullying him and laughing at him. Their REAL objective is this: making fun of ""weird"" people just for entertainment, in order to feel better in their stressful and boring lives, maybe they have to study and work, but they can sometimes relax and have fun laughing at those incels and thinking "my life sucks and I'm miserable but at least I'm not as miserable as them", this makes them feel better and superior for a while, at the end of the day life is hard for everyone and even sexhavers have to cope, and they cope by bullying vulnerable men like us.
It's absolutely disgusting to see people actually spending any time of their day with the sole purpose of getting entertainment out of laughing at vulnerable men like us. It is NOT normal to be a virgin at your late 20s, or worse, at your 30s or 40s, it's something that can trully affect you on a deep psychological level, but those bullies would never understand it because in order for them to understand it they would have to live it in their own skin, they would have to live knowing that in all those decades of their lives noone showed sexual or romantic interest in them, which can be a big punch to anyone's self-esteem, they would have to experience hearing other people talking about sex and remembering how normal sex is for other people and therefore how weird and unacceptable you have to be as a human being in order to not have any access to that experience, they would have to feel the sadness of their sexual desires unsatisfied to the point of becoming a symbol of confusion, shame and hopelessness.
It's disgusting to see them assuming things about us, assuming that we don't shower, that we don't go to the gym, that we live in a basement or that we live with our mothers, even though they don't know us at a personal level so they should shut the fuck up, they believe in stereotypes about us that might apply to some incels but not all, every incel is different, everyone of us is a different case, but they will never understand it since they don't see us as human beings, everything they say about us is wrong.
I will never accept how people who hadn't have to go through all of this dare to judge us from their position of priviledge, I will never accept it, that's unacceptable, I have seen girls getting suicidal for not receiving enough likes on instagram, and people have empathy for those girls, even though those girls do actually have sexual experience, they have sexual validation, just not enough for them, but when it comes to us, even if we trully receive ZERO sexual validation, we can't complain, we are going to be judged for letting such a traumatizing thing affect us and they are going to gaslight us, even those suicidal girls are gonna gaslight us by saying things like "sex and romantic relationships are not a big deal, you can live without that, women are not objects you fucking pervert".
It's absolutely disgusting to see people actually spending any time of their day with the sole purpose of getting entertainment out of laughing at vulnerable men like us. It is NOT normal to be a virgin at your late 20s, or worse, at your 30s or 40s, it's something that can trully affect you on a deep psychological level, but those bullies would never understand it because in order for them to understand it they would have to live it in their own skin, they would have to live knowing that in all those decades of their lives noone showed sexual or romantic interest in them, which can be a big punch to anyone's self-esteem, they would have to experience hearing other people talking about sex and remembering how normal sex is for other people and therefore how weird and unacceptable you have to be as a human being in order to not have any access to that experience, they would have to feel the sadness of their sexual desires unsatisfied to the point of becoming a symbol of confusion, shame and hopelessness.
It's disgusting to see them assuming things about us, assuming that we don't shower, that we don't go to the gym, that we live in a basement or that we live with our mothers, even though they don't know us at a personal level so they should shut the fuck up, they believe in stereotypes about us that might apply to some incels but not all, every incel is different, everyone of us is a different case, but they will never understand it since they don't see us as human beings, everything they say about us is wrong.
I will never accept how people who hadn't have to go through all of this dare to judge us from their position of priviledge, I will never accept it, that's unacceptable, I have seen girls getting suicidal for not receiving enough likes on instagram, and people have empathy for those girls, even though those girls do actually have sexual experience, they have sexual validation, just not enough for them, but when it comes to us, even if we trully receive ZERO sexual validation, we can't complain, we are going to be judged for letting such a traumatizing thing affect us and they are going to gaslight us, even those suicidal girls are gonna gaslight us by saying things like "sex and romantic relationships are not a big deal, you can live without that, women are not objects you fucking pervert".
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