Experiment Imagine ascending and getting a girlfriend who later dumps you

[znbox]

Imagine, that by some miracle you find a similar low inhib gf that is your looksmatch, or a bit higher, but not a Stacy. Some shy bookish girl with not many friends and few past relationships. She saw something in you. Maybe, you look like her dad or something. Maybe, you have similar interests. She goes on a date with you and you get your first kiss, then after several weeks of dating, she takes your virginity. You are happier than ever, you are in love. You call her every day, see as often as you can, give her presents, surprise her by sending her flowers to work.
And then, a month later she says she needs to talk to you, and dumps you. She gives you some bullshit reason like "it's not you it's me", "we are too different", "I just need to be alone for some time" and other excuses that are a disguise for "you aren't Chad".

So, you are dumped. You had sex yes, but what's next? Will you suicide because you understand you'll never be happy? Or because you can't live without her? Will you try to murder her?

And are you still an incel, or you somehow became a normie? If you aren't an incel, what changed in your life?

 

[Hunter]

if i ascended and had a good experience with her that lasted for a decent amount of time id probably just go MGTOW having reached that milestone.

 

[znbox]

if i ascended and had a good experience with her that lasted for a decent amount of time id probably just go MGTOW having reached that milestone.

what exactly would change after you go MGTOW?

 

[ShadowMonk]

And are you still an incel

Absolutely. As long as you are involuntary celibate. It has a very clear definition: being unable to aquire sex without paying for it in your current situation.

 

[Hunter]

what exactly would change after you go MGTOW?

mentality. it would be "i dont care about foids anymore" rather than "i want to experience a relationship and sex with a foid". ascending is just one thing off my chest.

 

[znbox]

mentality. it would be "i dont care about foids anymore" rather than "i want to experience a relationship and sex with a foid". ascending is just one thing off my chest.

Why do you think you'll stop wanting it? It would be the best period of time in your life. Don't you think that knowing how it can feel will make you want to be in a relationship even more?

 

[Insomniac]

I just want to have sex with someone who isn’t a prostitute tbh. That’s my life goal.

 

[znbox]

I just want to have sex with someone who isn’t a prostitute tbh. That’s my life goal.

Imagine you had, and then you never saw her again. What's your new goal?

 

[Hunter]

i dont feel loneliness like other people do. i have a low sex drive as well. tbqh inceldom never bothered me much, but its a milestone id like to hit. im curious of what the experience will feel like.

 

[znbox]

i dont feel loneliness like other people do. i have a low sex drive as well. tbqh inceldom never bothered me much, but its a milestone id like to hit. im curious of what the experience will feel like.

I imagine it would be the happiest days of your life

 

[bakadesu]

She is not yours. Its just your turn.

 

[Insomniac]

Imagine you had, and then you never saw her again. What's your new goal?

No idea. Would probably just LDAR for good at that point since I know that I’m too much of a socially inept retard to ever find “love”.

 

[Hunter]

I imagine it would be the happiest days of your life

yeah thats why i want to experience it once at least. but MGTOW is endgame for me, whether i ascend or not. foids are vile creatures incompatible of pair bonding. and i will never EVER tradcuck myself by marrying and betabuxxing.

She is not yours. Its just your turn.

this pretty much sums up why i will go MGTOW.

 

[11gaijin]

I don't consider getting lucky as ascension. Ascension according to me is becoming better looking via looksmaxxing so that you attract more girls. One girl who by luck met you shouldn't even be considered ascension. Those people should always be ready for this situation. A true ascender would not be affected as he could find another girl.

 

[znbox]

I don't consider getting lucky as ascension. Ascension according to me is becoming better looking via looksmaxxing so that you attract more girls. One girl who by luck met you shouldn't even be considered ascension. Those people should always be ready for this situation. A true ascender would not be affected as he could find another girl.

How come a girl who fucks you voluntarily isn't ascension? Why are you keep changing the definition? Even one voluntary sex with an incel is technically ascension. He can later become an incel again (like Sodini) but why that doesn't count?

 

[Deleted member 13256]

That's exactly what would happen.

 

[11gaijin]

How come a girl who fucks you voluntarily isn't ascension? Why are you keep changing the definition? Even one voluntary sex with an incel is technically ascension. He can later become an incel again (like Sodini) but why that doesn't count?

I once posted this thread "How do you define ascension" or something like that. I think most people agreed with the definition I stated. People can have different definitions but ascension is such a badass term for some reasons that getting lucky shouldn't be equalled to that lol but that might be just me.

 

[Moustachcel]

 

[znbox]

I once posted this thread "How do you define ascension" or something like that. I think most people agreed with the definition I stated. People can have different definitions but ascension is such a badass term for some reasons that getting lucky shouldn't be equalled to that lol but that might be just me.

So there is really no difference between incels and normies. I mean, if both get occasional pussy but still aren't considered ascended.

 

[MaxZM98]

much better than never having anyone at all...also do you mean 'similar high inhib'?

 

[Frankenstein's M.]

Well bro I'd of finally ascended right, so no problem there

 

[Deleted member 1042]

I’d feel relief.

 

[11gaijin]

So there is really no difference between incels and normies. I mean, if both get occasional pussy but still aren't considered ascended.

Getting occasional pussy and getting lucky once is different.

 

[Swiswis]

Imagine, that by some miracle you find a similar low inhib gf that is your looksmatch, or a bit higher, but not a Stacy. Some shy bookish girl with not many friends and few past relationships.

l would not continue speaking with her after this.

 

[znbox]

much better than never having anyone at all...also do you mean 'similar high inhib'?

yes

I’d feel relief.

after she dumps you?

Getting occasional pussy and getting lucky once is different.

not for incels

l would not continue speaking with her after this.

so you will voluntarily reject a possibility of sex and relationship because she isn't a virgin, which lets be fucking honest here, she won't be if she's older than 13?
volcel

Well bro I'd of finally ascended right, so no problem there

yeah, but after she dumps you — then what? you are happy that you technically ascended?