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This is the girl who when I got blackpilled last year, told me that looks don't matter and that girls don't care about height or appearance or all of that.
Since the Summer she has been very depressed, and the reason for her depression is that she thinks she's "Ugly". I personally think she's average looking.
Then she started saying phrases like:
"All guys are pigs."
"All guys only want skinny blondes with a big ass (my sister isn't white for reference)"
"All guys only want slutty girls."
I wondered where this came from. I asked her if she ever tried Tinder, and she said no because she thinks she's too ugly to use it.
Curious, I made a fake Tinder account using her photos to see (knowing 100% that what she's saying is bullshit). Unsurprisingly, she ended up getting 50 or so matches after me swiping around for ten minutes, many different guys, some who were actually willing to just go on a date, etc. So clearly what she's saying is wrong.
So I had a bit of a talk with one of her friends, and asked her why my sister is acting so different all of a sudden. She tells me it's because this one guy who she really likes only sees her as a friend.
I go see who this guy is, and no surprise, it's some white, above average height Chad who has a symmetrical, masculine face, works as a bouncer, takes shirtless pics on Instagram and is known for sleeping around with a lot of girls. In other words, it's the kind of guy that has his choice of girls and doesn't need to lower his standards to get into a relationship. Objectively speaking, my sister is way out of his league.
Every time she kept asking him to hang out, he only wanted to hang out late at night, which she refused. Obviously, Chad doesn't have time to deal with girls who want to date when there are many other girls who will just fuck him for free, so he eventually kept contact with her to a minimum, and that apparently got my sister very sad because she's been crushing on him since first year (She's in her third year of university now).
So my sister has been depressed for the past couple of months, crying almost every day and generally causing chaos in our family, all because Chad doesn't want to leave his harem and just date her exclusively. When he texts her back, her mood returns to normal and she becomes happy. When he ignores her for a bit, she gets sad and cries and make the house loud.
Apparently none of the guys online count because, "They're not him" according to what her friend told me. She's a kissless virgin as well (as far as I know, and she's 20), and apparently believes she's doomed to be forever alone, all because a guy like this Chad doesn't want to date her.
So here's somebody who could easily get into a relationship and experience love, who will only accept a relationship from the "Best of the best".
Honestly what a selfish, shallow, entitled cunt. I'm infuriated at the fact that my sister is just like all the other girls who end up caring about appearance more than the actual person.
If I had even the fraction of the attention that she was able to get from girls at my level, then I would be very content, yet she takes it for granted. Here I am slaving myself all day, going to the gym almost daily, counting my calories, competing in sports and doing well in school. I've done the best I can to improve myself as a 21 year old and I don't get a single match on tinder or any attention from girls (or a positive response when I talk to them). Meanwhile, my sister who is earning some shitty degree, doesn't work out at all, is a bit chubby and has no interests other than netflix and hanging out with friends gets to basically pick and choose when she goes on Tinder, and is still unhappy about her options.
It's basically suicide fuel.
The only thing that will help me is if I leave the house and find an apartment to stay in alone, so that I can forget all of this.
Since the Summer she has been very depressed, and the reason for her depression is that she thinks she's "Ugly". I personally think she's average looking.
Then she started saying phrases like:
"All guys are pigs."
"All guys only want skinny blondes with a big ass (my sister isn't white for reference)"
"All guys only want slutty girls."
I wondered where this came from. I asked her if she ever tried Tinder, and she said no because she thinks she's too ugly to use it.
Curious, I made a fake Tinder account using her photos to see (knowing 100% that what she's saying is bullshit). Unsurprisingly, she ended up getting 50 or so matches after me swiping around for ten minutes, many different guys, some who were actually willing to just go on a date, etc. So clearly what she's saying is wrong.
So I had a bit of a talk with one of her friends, and asked her why my sister is acting so different all of a sudden. She tells me it's because this one guy who she really likes only sees her as a friend.
I go see who this guy is, and no surprise, it's some white, above average height Chad who has a symmetrical, masculine face, works as a bouncer, takes shirtless pics on Instagram and is known for sleeping around with a lot of girls. In other words, it's the kind of guy that has his choice of girls and doesn't need to lower his standards to get into a relationship. Objectively speaking, my sister is way out of his league.
Every time she kept asking him to hang out, he only wanted to hang out late at night, which she refused. Obviously, Chad doesn't have time to deal with girls who want to date when there are many other girls who will just fuck him for free, so he eventually kept contact with her to a minimum, and that apparently got my sister very sad because she's been crushing on him since first year (She's in her third year of university now).
So my sister has been depressed for the past couple of months, crying almost every day and generally causing chaos in our family, all because Chad doesn't want to leave his harem and just date her exclusively. When he texts her back, her mood returns to normal and she becomes happy. When he ignores her for a bit, she gets sad and cries and make the house loud.
Apparently none of the guys online count because, "They're not him" according to what her friend told me. She's a kissless virgin as well (as far as I know, and she's 20), and apparently believes she's doomed to be forever alone, all because a guy like this Chad doesn't want to date her.
So here's somebody who could easily get into a relationship and experience love, who will only accept a relationship from the "Best of the best".
Honestly what a selfish, shallow, entitled cunt. I'm infuriated at the fact that my sister is just like all the other girls who end up caring about appearance more than the actual person.
If I had even the fraction of the attention that she was able to get from girls at my level, then I would be very content, yet she takes it for granted. Here I am slaving myself all day, going to the gym almost daily, counting my calories, competing in sports and doing well in school. I've done the best I can to improve myself as a 21 year old and I don't get a single match on tinder or any attention from girls (or a positive response when I talk to them). Meanwhile, my sister who is earning some shitty degree, doesn't work out at all, is a bit chubby and has no interests other than netflix and hanging out with friends gets to basically pick and choose when she goes on Tinder, and is still unhappy about her options.
It's basically suicide fuel.
The only thing that will help me is if I leave the house and find an apartment to stay in alone, so that I can forget all of this.
