I'm socially retarded even in games.

[ShowerTaker]

I got lucky and matched with a quite decent team in this FPS game I usually play. We quickly managed to win and the emotion made one of the players invite everyone to the lobby where we regrouped and chatted for a couple of minutes.

Fine, but now they are discussing creating a group on Whatsapp and founding a clan to play together. My social anxiety attacked and I immediately thought, "how much time will it take until everyone leaves?"

I knew this was fated to go wrong. I don't really like forming bonds unless the expectancy of this new friendship is likely to be long. Why would I make friends with people and talk to them just so they get bored one day and decide to leave me and everyone else behind? I might be overthinking it, but this seems like a logical conclusion to me.

I think most people here are just like me when it comes to relationships. We might enjoy the moment, but long-term thinking is inevitable. It's not like a group of friends playing videogames together will ever get an actual chance to meet up in real life. So why bother?

And in case you are wondering, I blocked every single one of them and left.

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

I got lucky and matched with a quite decent team in this FPS game I usually play. We quickly managed to win and the emotion made one of the players invite everyone to the lobby where we regrouped and chatted for a couple of minutes.

Fine, but now they are discussing creating a group on Whatsapp and founding a clan to play together. My social anxiety attacked and I immediately thought, "how much time will it take until everyone leaves?"

I knew this was fated to go wrong. I don't really like forming bonds unless the expectancy of this new friendship is likely to be long. Why would I make friends with people and talk to them just so they get bored one day and decide to leave me and everyone else behind? I might be overthinking it, but this seems like a logical conclusion to me.

I think most people here are just like me when it comes to relationships. We might enjoy the moment, but long-term thinking is inevitable. It's not like a group of friends playing videogames together will ever get an actual chance to meet up in real life. So why bother?

And in case you are wondering, I blocked every single one of them and left.

I was like you when I first started voice chatting, then I learned to Act and talk more nt

I got lucky and matched with a quite decent team in this FPS game I usually play. We quickly managed to win and the emotion made one of the players invite everyone to the lobby where we regrouped and chatted for a couple of minutes.

Fine, but now they are discussing creating a group on Whatsapp and founding a clan to play together. My social anxiety attacked and I immediately thought, "how much time will it take until everyone leaves?"

I knew this was fated to go wrong. I don't really like forming bonds unless the expectancy of this new friendship is likely to be long. Why would I make friends with people and talk to them just so they get bored one day and decide to leave me and everyone else behind? I might be overthinking it, but this seems like a logical conclusion to me.

I think most people here are just like me when it comes to relationships. We might enjoy the moment, but long-term thinking is inevitable. It's not like a group of friends playing videogames together will ever get an actual chance to meet up in real life. So why bother?

And in case you are wondering, I blocked every single one of them and left.

Also I was sweating like hell cuz of social anxiety first lol

 

[Chingaquedito]

Why would I make friends with people and talk to them just so they get bored one day and decide to leave me and everyone else behind? I might be overthinking it, but this seems like a logical conclusion to me.

I think most people here are just like me when it comes to relationships. We might enjoy the moment, but long-term thinking is inevitable. It's not like a group of friends playing videogames together will ever get an actual chance to meet up in real life. So why bother?

I have some internet friends since 2011, I know I will never meet them irl because they live in Argentina and colombia, and I am from Mexico.
and there are others who stopped talking to me because they no longer use facebook/youtube or they work a lot, but I am sure that if I talk to them we will do it again as before.

 

[ShowerTaker]

Oh it's nice to know you guys have had a good interaction with online players. Maybe I should start working on it to try and form bonds even if they won't last forever. It might make me less lonely, I don't know.

 

[Deleted member 35110]

Nixon level paranoia

Still less paranoid than me

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

I think most people here are just like me when it comes to relationships. We might enjoy the moment, but long-term thinking is inevitable. It's not like a group of friends playing videogames together will ever get an actual chance to meet up in real life. So why bother?

And in case you are wondering, I blocked every single one of them and left.

I've always been very socially anxious. As a result, I do not play online games anymore because I do not feel comfortable chatting with other players directly. I have a disorder(symptom of another disorder) that makes me extremely sensitive to criticism in any form and lack of socialization leads to problems in co-op games.

 

[Incellectual]

I am also socially retarded online lol. I have tried to become friends with people online (esp in video games) but it usually doesn't really work out ever. I find a lot of times we will play a game or chit chat like once and then never again interact. It's still worth trying though. I got some good friends from .co/chat before that I still talk to. I can understand your pain though since I have like a 0.01% success rate lol.

 

[Deleted member 34301]

[UWSL]I blocked every single one of them and left.[/UWSL]

How to make friends 101

 

[Deleted member 34194]

I hate "internet friends", it sucks ass and it's cucked.

 

[Cope_Time]

I don't bother with online games, I have le friends on steam and they are just sitting there lmao

 

[mortyposter]

I'm socially retarded everywhere.

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Embrace it. Enter some sandbox game server of your choice and larp until you get kicked by mods.

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