Venting I'm scared of female cashiers and always avoid them

[Esoteric7]

For normal people, checking out is a mindless chore. But for me, it's like a psychological thriller.

If the female cashier is young and at least average-looking:

• My brain short-circuits.
• I can’t hold eye contact.
• My voice goes really quiet and cracks when speaking.
• I feel very sad that she'll ignore me completely, and act cheerful for the next customer.
• I’m worried she’ll notice my social awkwardness and react with either: pity (“Aww, this poor weirdo.”) or disgust (“What's wrong with him?”).

If she’s attractive, my anxiety is at DEFCON 1. My hands sweat, I fumble my card, I overthink every micro-interaction. The walk away feels like escaping a crime scene.

Instead, I always go to a male cashier because there's no foid judgment, therefore, no fear.

If there's only a female cashier, I'll pretend to browse in an aisle, and will happily waste 10-20 extra minutes waiting for a male cashier to show up. If that doesn't happen, I'll put everything back and leave.

Needless to say, this is very stupid, and it just reminds me how strange and broken I am. Normal guys don’t rearrange their lives to avoid basic interactions, but for me, every glance, every word, every second near an attractive woman feels like a test I’ve already failed.

 

[starystulejarz]

I don't care anymore. They don't even look at me anyway, they are inside their own world and so do i. And we have automatic robotic cashieers now which i use moist of the time

 

[|R12|]

If that doesn't happen, I'll put everything back and leave.

 

[TheTrueIncel]

I am the same way. But instead of having sit in a store more than i have to, i will just go to a store with self-checkout that way, i won't have to interact with anybody.

 

[antisocialcel]

There are no male cashiers

 

[FastBlast]

What inceldom do to mf

 

[zd60]

I never see cashiers

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

>he pays for his groceries
JFL

 

[SilentShadow]

I just get anxiety being among people.

 

[Sir Waco]

im not scared of toilet cashiers im just annoyed in advance cuz i know theyre gonna give me deathstares for no reason

 

[SocietyFucker1492]

I always use self checkout, its less awkward than having to look a stranger dead in the eye.

 

[nico]

I mostly don't care, they're usually just ltbs or mtbs so nothing to even admire or to think that they're some out of this world creation.

 

[Grodd]

im not scared of toilet cashiers im just annoyed in advance cuz i know theyre gonna give me deathstares for no reason

 

[Cnidoblastos]

I don't care anymore. They don't even look at me anyway, they are inside their own world and so do i. And we have automatic robotic cashieers now which i use moist of the timeView attachment 1509921

This. I only use the automatic

 

[starystulejarz]

I mostly don't care, they're usually just ltbs or mtbs so nothing to even admire or to think that they're some out of this world creation.

seen one with nasty tattoos few days ago, made me even more disgusted than usual, zoomer foids are just a disgusting public toilets

 

[AdExpress]

i use self checkout all the time so

 

[LastGerman]

For normal people, checking out is a mindless chore. But for me, it's like a psychological thriller.

If the female cashier is young and at least average-looking:

• My brain short-circuits.
• I can’t hold eye contact.
• My voice goes really quiet and cracks when speaking.
• I feel very sad that she'll ignore me completely, and act cheerful for the next customer.
• I’m worried she’ll notice my social awkwardness and react with either: pity (“Aww, this poor weirdo.”) or disgust (“What's wrong with him?”).

I also have this. I remember back then, like over 10 years ago, when I was grocery shopping on my own and there would be a blonde female cashier that I find attractive. Even typing this, sounds so cucked. I was afraid of her. I was thinking to myself if I should go there or not.

If she’s attractive, my anxiety is at DEFCON 1. My hands sweat, I fumble my card, I overthink every micro-interaction. The walk away feels like escaping a crime scene.

I am also afraid of giving money to her. I also start to sweat, my face might go red. Then I am afraid of it, that my face gets red and it becomes worse.

Needless to say, this is very stupid, and it just reminds me how strange and broken I am. Normal guys don’t rearrange their lives to avoid basic interactions, but for me, every glance, every word, every second near an attractive woman feels like a test I’ve already failed.

This is how I see it as well. I basically already failed at it. I failed at it even before anything happened at all.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I don't think your fear is entirely irrational. It's actually quite common for female cashiers to act rude towards sub 5 men.

 

[Donnythedon]

they never fail to just look at me with pure hate so honestly you should avoid them. ugly men are the spawn of satan in their perspective

 

[nico]

seen one with nasty tattoos few days ago, made me even more disgusted than usual, zoomer foids are just a disgusting public toilets

you should show the disgust in their faces so they know how craooy they are.

 

[The Chronicle]

This is how i feel about all women when I go outside.

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Tfw no thicc blonde cashier gf

 

[Izayacel]

This shit is a Pattern at this Point . Its Repetitive , Predictable and therefore good .

 

[sub5_]

I never tip when the person serving me is female.

 

[Emba]

just take the stuff and go ain't nobody gonna stop you