SuicideFuel I’m paralysed by fear thinking about approaching literally any woman

[Guest37263]

I’ve been rejected my whole life and it’s gotten to the point where simply seeing a pretty girl that makes my heart flutter just immobilises me with agonising fear of talking to her. Even if she starts talking to me, like a cashier saying hello pls can I scan your items, I am too afraid to add anything and just mumble yes ok and pay and leave. This fear is catastrophic. I cannot bring myself to talk to a foid because of the countless terrible experiences of the past and feeling “not good enough” over and over again. Feeling like a disgusting fat faced ogre with a turkey sac for a jawline. Like I’m not good enough for anyone. I feel like absolute shit and extremely insecure in public. Not because I fear what people think of me, but because people think nothing of me, I’m just part of the background.

I don’t see this fear ever leaving me, which is funny because if I don’t approach a foid chances are I’ll die alone

 

[Captvic]

I used to be like you. But overtime I realized that these women would prefer that I would be six feet deep and also if it weren't for laws I could physically dominate them. They are weak. I feel nothing but indifference for women now. They are equivalent to old people for me

 

[alonein2099]

women will get angry if an ugly male approaches them romantically. femoids are evil creatures who don't regard ugly men as human.

 

[Cuyen]

Same. Seeing hot foids rape my soul so we shouldnt go outside

 

[Angry_runt]

So don't approach them like that. Just be a chatty guy who comments on things to random people including but not limited to foids you're interested in. After a while, you'll get a sense if one of them reacts in an atypically friendly way and then you can try to follow up and see where it gets you. If you're an adult incel, chances are women have already made a judgment on your desirability but if you have nothing better to do you might as well try.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

you'll probably get over it when you're old enough, i know i am starting to but i am fucking 30, hopefully you manage it earlier than that

 

[Deleted member 1983]

its a defense mechanism to prevent future rejection.

I dont give a fuck anymore tbh, im too bitter to care for a foids opinion of me

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

also foids responses are mostly random, unless you are directly propositioning a single woman, there's too many factors outside of your control involved, and it's almost pure noise and randomness

we should never be afraid of randomness

 

[Guest37263]

I just feel sick to do ANY talking. Even when the opportunity presents itself. I am overwhelmed with nausea and self anger and disgust at my own face I start to sweat and freak out and feel ugly and just want to gtfo of there.

 

[Inceldo]

Rightfully so. Its your natural instinct telling you not to. Just as a cats natural instinct tells it to not approach a snake.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Have 0 expectations and always think about how quickly the interaction with the woman will end. If it's a foid cashier, as soon as you pay, it's over. If a foid is crossing your path, all you have to do is pass her. It seems as though the anxiety you feel is almost either a fear of success or a fear or an accusation, when logically what will happen 100% of the time is indifference.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

I've ALWAYS been like this. Ever since I first got hair on my nuts, talking to girls/guys has always been a tomoko tier cringe fest. Thankfully what little good looks I had in highschool have been diminished as I looksminnn and rotmaxxx, now I can usually just do this:

I used to be like you. But overtime I realized that these women would prefer that I would be six feet deep and also if it weren't for laws I could physically dominate them. They are weak. I feel nothing but indifference for women now. They are equivalent to old people for me

 

[TheRealChincel]

It’s the fear of not being to reproduce which goes back to when we lived in tribes and one foulup doomed our chance to reproduce. Just go out there and think of it as a game, there’s not a CHANCE of rejection, it’s a certainty, right? This’ll help you in general social situations if you have issues there.

 

[Guest37263]

It’s the fear of not being to reproduce which goes back to when we lived in tribes and one foulup doomed our chance to reproduce. Just go out there and think of it as a game, there’s not a CHANCE of rejection, it’s a certainty, right? This’ll help you in general social situations if you have issues there.

I’d like to make a point that this nausea I feel is SOLELY around girls I’m attracted to. I have no issues speaking to women when there’s no sexual possibility or desire from me, and am fine speaking to men


I become a sweating nervous wreck ONLY when the girl is super attractive OR I am sexually interested in her. It’s like the sexual part of my existence has never developed so I freak out because I don’t know how I’m supposed to use it to attract a girl, and every attempt so far has ended in gut wrenching failure and that terrible feeling makes me want to cry so I’m terrified of it

Do you guys understand what I mean?

 

[TheRealChincel]

I’d like to make a point that this nausea I feel is SOLELY around girls I’m attracted to. I have no issues speaking to women when there’s no sexual possibility or desire from me, and am fine speaking to men


I become a sweating nervous wreck ONLY when the girl is super attractive

That sounds normal especially when you’re a sub-7 guy. If it’s something that bothers you then work at it. Don’t get hung up over what to say or how it’ll go, just throw yourself in there. I’d start with a woman I found mildly attractive then work my way up to moderate and finally highly. Best of luck to you.

 

[First loss]

I used to. I'm not anymore. Foids are like succubusses. Look them in the eye and tell them what you need. Don't be afraid of consequences, they already hate your guts.

Just be clear, direct and have iron will. Don't let her fuck you up with flirting or leading you on, she just needs a new orbiter, you don't have a chance.

 

[Grotesque]

I used to. I'm not anymore. Foids are like succubusses. Look them in the eye and tell them what you need. Don't be afraid of consequences, they already hate your guts.

 

[owly]

If it makes you feel any better
St.uninstall approachen over 1000 foids
And got 0 fucks not even a kiss.

It also feels so stupid to ask a foid out.
Plz foid can i have the pleasure to buy you
Dinner while i carry a convo with you
And try to get a little dry kiss without
You rejecting me like a rapist.

Excuse me foid, sorry to bother you while
You have this super important candy crash
Game on your phone, maybe we could
Hang out at the park or drink coffee
Get to know you.
Oh you have a boyfriend a tallfag teehee.

I remember a certein foid rejecting me with
No its me married.
Fucking cunt couldnt construct a sentence.

What has it gotten me? Nothing.
Just a waste of time.

Its not like she would call her bf and you fight and if you win you get her.

No they are all taken all work for chads harem.

Just do it, ruin foids day fuck the police and her cuck bf just do it. Dont even put effort in.

Be like, foid, i noticed you, i want a date , give me your Number.

Oh you have a bf, fuck you too lesbo cunt.

 

[Nothingness]

Why would you approach them?

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Its like being starved off food. Eventually you go insane and you eat yourself inside out.

 

[Nothingness]

Its like being starved off food. Eventually you go insane and you eat yourself inside out.

You are a cannibal

 

[Insomniac]

you eat yourself

Not really..lol.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

You are a cannibal

Chad can be cannibal, he eats out girls

 

[Nothingness]

Chad can be cannibal, he eats out girls

What what what???? Omg

 

[Deleted member 15752]

What what what???? Omg

The more you know

 

[Nothingness]

The more you know

I dont want to know more

 

[Deleted member 15752]

I dont want to know more

Then stay in the light boyo, the dark isnt safe

 

[Nothingness]

Then stay in the light boyo, the dark isnt safe

Too late

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Too late

Never began

 

[Nothingness]

Never began

It over for knowtomuchcels

 

[LastGerman]

I become a sweating nervous wreck ONLY when the girl is super attractive OR I am sexually interested in her.

Stop putting females on a pedestal. They are not worthy of it. They are utterly weak creatures. You could crush their skulls on the spot. You should not be nervous around them, they should be nervous around you.

 

[Albero]

I was just like you, but now I always try purposely embarass publically any young attractive foid I see.

 

[VincentVanCope]

I was exactly like you OP. Now I'm a good way through into my lowinhibmaxxing journey.

You have to start in small steps, eventually building your way up to the point where you eventually don't give any shits and would happily start an argument with a chad and stacey.

 

[Michael15651]

Same. Seeing hot foids rape my soul so we shouldnt go outside