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Im no adult wtf

Eternatus

Eternatus

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Im 24 but I always feel like 15 instead… u see people having careers, being “responsible” for shit, being reliable, experts, connected, known, professionals… lmao I will never amount to anything. Im just a silly gooner in my room wageslaving for copes and to isolate me even further.

But honestly fuck that, I don’t wanna be nobody, I don’t wanna have a network, a past career or references, I don’t want shit, Im a useless nobody in a retarded customer job with no degree and the biggest dream for me is to disappear entirely.
 
You just never had experience
 
I've heard innumerable users here say that they feel like they've never cognitively matured past 15-16, whether that's a consequence of the developmental milestones they've missed or they're just hardwired that way, I have no idea.
 
Same. I'm practically the same person I was a decade ago. The life that the average 22 year old is living right now, I can't even comprehend.

Missed out on too much in my developmental years, failed to launch, and now I'm going to rot in my bedroom for the rest of eternity.
 
I've heard innumerable users here say that they feel like they've never cognitively matured past 15-16, whether that's a consequence of the developmental milestones they've missed or they're just hardwired that way, I have no idea.
I feel that way too
 
Same. I'm practically the same person I was a decade ago. The life that the average 22 year old is living right now, I can't even comprehend.

Missed out on too much in my developmental years, failed to launch, and now I'm going to rot in my bedroom for the rest of eternity.
Glad that we have an understanding here at least
 
I've heard innumerable users here say that they feel like they've never cognitively matured past 15-16, whether that's a consequence of the developmental milestones they've missed or they're just hardwired that way, I have no idea.
If I had to guess, maybe it has something to do with the fact that, as incels, we never really get to expand our lives beyond that point? By that I mean, we don't get to do things like 'build a network' or even 'careers.' Most of us are socially stunted and, even for those who are more extroverted, we're held back by the fact that nobody really wants to get super close to us. If I wanted to go on into one of my usual theatrical, autistic monologues, I'd talk about how we may as well not exist and that we're just 'blobs trying to force ourselves into a system that doesn't even want us'—but I don't have the energy right now...

But really, we reach fifteen and then... what? People start seperating into their friend groups whilst we're left alone, maybe being a side-friend at best. We (obviously) lack relationship experience, so no luck in that regard, either. And, on top of it all, we fail at most endeavors that we pursue. We're just perpetually stuck at a stage where we're supposed to 'grow up' and 'mature' through life experiences that aren't even available to us. Maybe that's why a lot of us feel that way?
 
If I had to guess, maybe it has something to do with the fact that, as incels, we never really get to expand our lives beyond that point? By that I mean, we don't get to do things like 'build a network' or even 'careers.' Most of us are socially stunted and, even for those who are more extroverted, we're held back by the fact that nobody really wants to get super close to us. If I wanted to go on into one of my usual theatrical, autistic monologues, I'd talk about how we may as well not exist and that we're just 'blobs trying to force ourselves into a system that doesn't even want us'—but I don't have the energy right now...

But really, we reach fifteen and then... what? People start seperating into their friend groups whilst we're left alone, maybe being a side-friend at best. We (obviously) lack relationship experience, so no luck in that regard, either. And, on top of it all, we fail at most endeavors that we pursue. We're just perpetually stuck at a stage where we're supposed to 'grow up' and 'mature' through life experiences that aren't even available to us. Maybe that's why a lot of us feel that way?
I relate to that feeling myself, I don't like to say I haven't matured because I've become significantly more blackpilled since I was 15 but aside from that, I really haven't matured at all. it's a brutal pill to swallow.
 
I don't like to say I haven't matured because I've become significantly more blackpilled since I was 15
LMAO, same, that's the literal only way I could say that I've matured. I don't really know how I'd mature beyond what I'm already at now, nor do I really think that I could. There is nothing I could possibly learn or hear about that would shift my world in any manner other than on a small scale.
 
It just feels so alien when you're a shutin failure.
 
If you never fucked a virgin slut you will never evolve past 15 it is what it is
 
Same except I'm 25 and feel like I'm 17.
 
In the eyes of normies looks define the role that's assigned to a person.
 
I still feel like i should be 14. I wish I could relive my middle and high school years so i could make better decisions
 
It just feels so alien when you're a shutin failure.
If you never fucked a virgin slut you will never evolve past 15 it is what it is
Sucks when your a manlet and look like like your 15 too. Nobody treats you like an adult. Grown women don't want to fuck you and you can't go for the younger girls. You're just stuck forever 15
 

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