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Im incapabable of keeping friendships.

Goofygoober007

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I get bored so easily and start fights then im stuck with nobody now fucked my self so badly now I got no friends.
 
My friends just drift away.
 
Maintaining friendships gets annoying, so I don't bother.
 
Friendships are supposed to be lifefuel. Motivates you to be social, loud and stronger.

If they're not doing that, if you feel like you need to put work in or try to maintain it, it's not friendship.
 
Same its got bad that Im starting to interact less and less as I know sooner or later what will happen.
 
Friendships are supposed to be lifefuel. Motivates you to be social, loud and stronger.

If they're not doing that, if you feel like you need to put work in or try to maintain it, it's not friendship.
I concur completely, I wish my 16 year-old self had known that.

Obviously there are times when you do have to put in some effort in the relationship but if a 'friendship' collapses the moment one stops forcibly holding it up, it was always completely one-sided.

Real friendships are organic and natural, most of the time it doesn't even feel like you have to try to put in effort in order for you to get on with and have a good time with them. Your friendship with @Mod King Xerxes is a perfect example of this, I'm sure. :feelskek:
 
Same its got bad that Im starting to interact less and less as I know sooner or later what will happen.
I spent majority of my life now at home just pacing everywhere and being online and the only change i really gotten is walks. Maybe a lame friendship here and there. I want this misery to end so badly, now my grandmother is about to die. The only person I really love.
 
I spent majority of my life now at home just pacing everywhere and being online and the only change i really gotten is walks. Maybe a lame friendship here and there. I want this misery to end so badly, now my grandmother is about to die. The only person I really love.
Damn that sucks about your grandmother man, spend time with her before she goes. I wish you luck
 
Damn that sucks about your grandmother man, spend time with her before she goes. I wish you luck
Fucking stroke man, shes gonna die from choking on her saliva. Its the most horrible thing to watch. My uncle wanted her off the feeding tube after it happened and thought it was kinda fucked but now I understand its worse than death watching that.
 
ive never had a friend in my entire life
 
Fucking stroke man, shes gonna die from choking on her saliva. Its the most horrible thing to watch. My uncle wanted her off the feeding tube after it happened and thought it was kinda fucked but now I understand its worse than death watching that.
Do you guys still have the time to convince them to remove to it then?
 
Friendships are supposed to be lifefuel. Motivates you to be social, loud and stronger.

If they're not doing that, if you feel like you need to put work in or try to maintain it, it's not friendship.
Criticising a friendship because it's one sided makes sense to me, and the positive ideal opposed to that seemed to be one were all parties put in a similar effort.

Now you've said this I've realised even that is a compromise. I watch how normies are so casual with each other, they dont even say goodbye, they just talk till they part, certain of rejoinment or something. I'd be anxious to make sure I say goodbye, and I overthink phrases like "see you soon," because on what basis do I know I will see them again soon, of even at all. Normies socialise effortlessly.

Socialising is labour for me. Socialising is play for normies. Over.
 
Friends don’t exist.
 
I’m a goofy goober
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Things are looking up I may have finally found something proper to hang myself thank the fucking lord. Im gonna go an test it tonight this is trial run to see how well it holds up. I finally see the fucking light at the end of the tunnel, I haven't felt this happy in a while.
 

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