Serious I’m gonna message my new oneitis again

[Aspergcel]

tldr; two years ago I was at the beach with my cousins and their parents. They had a female friend visiting from another state. This woman brought her daughter with her. I thought she was cute, but I was too scared to talk to her. After that day, I never saw her again because she went back to her city.

Two years later, I found her Instagram and messaged her. I’m taking it slowly this time. I’ve learned alot from my mistakes, especially after being rejected by my high school oneitis. The most important lesson I learned was probably to not double-text someone. However, the conversation didn’t really go anywhere and I could tell she wasn’t interested. I was always the one asking the questions. She only replied to be polite. She never asked anything back. So I stopped messaging her.

However, she just posted a photo on her Instagram story. A photo of her where she is modelling. I had no idea she was a model. But I’m not surprised. I want to start a new conversation with her by writing ’’are you a model?’’ to her.

What do you guys think? Or should I leave her alone?

 

[$carecrow]

You're only torturing yourself, brocel.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

modelling? avg roastie status is out of control

 

[RelentlessAssault]

Kill her

 

[Lonelyus]

tldr; two years ago I was at the beach with my cousins and their parents. They had a female friend visiting from another state. This woman brought her daughter with her. I thought she was cute, but I was too scared to talk to her. After that day, I never saw her again because she went back to her city.

Two years later, I found her Instagram and messaged her. I’m taking it slowly this time. I’ve learned alot from my mistakes, especially after being rejected by my high school oneitis. The most important lesson I learned was probably to not double-text someone. However, the conversation didn’t really go anywhere and I could tell she wasn’t interested. I was always the one asking the questions. She only replied to be polite. She never asked anything back. So I stopped messaging her.

However, she just posted a photo on her Instagram story. A photo of her where she is modelling. I had no idea she was a model. But I’m not surprised. I want to start a new conversation with her by writing ’’are you a model?’’ to her.

What do you guys think? Or should I leave her alone?

You're only torturing yourself, brocel.

Unless your rich or have some talent shes not gonna look past your subhumanity

 

[$carecrow]

Unless your rich or have some talent shes not gonna look past your subhumanity

This but also the fact the only reason she replies is male attention is life fuel to foids. Doesn't matter where it comes from.

She obviously knows you're way out of her league. Shows that she's self-righteous. The thing is though. You're just another guy texting her on Instagram, that she wouldn't want anywhere near her.

And you possess absolutely no value to her. Since you're not attractive nor tall, nor rich (I'm assuming since you're on this site). And you also say that she's modelling? I mean just what are you thinking, brocel?

 

[Lonelyus]

This but also the fact the only reason she replies is male attention is life fuel to foids. Doesn't matter where it comes from.

She obviously knows you're way out of her league. Shows that she's self-righteous. The thing is though. You're just another guy texting her on Instagram, that she wouldn't want anywhere near her.

And you possess absolutely no value to her. Since you're not attractive nor tall, nor rich (I'm assuming since you're on this site). And you also say that she's modelling? I mean just what are you thinking, brocel?

Unless your rich or have some talent shes not gonna look past your subhumanity

This is all i said, Dont add things i didnt say! Fucking narrative twister!

 

[Suicide Sheep]

Isn't she dating Chad? Models have at least a few hundreds of orbiters, so they pretty much choose the best looking one (and NT) to be with.
But, if you are going to give it a shot, here is a tip: don't ask questions that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no". Be (or pretend to be) genuinely interested in her life. Instead of asking "are you a model (is water wet)?", tell her that she looks really good in her photos and ask how the process of taking them is.

 

[$carecrow]

This is all i said, Dont add things i didnt say! Fucking narrative twister!

Jesus. You sound like a woman

 

[Lonelyus]

Jesus. You sound like a woman

$carecrow​

Greycel​

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JoinedJul 26, 2023Posts31

Fuck off gray

 

[$carecrow]

$carecrow​

Greycel​

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JoinedJul 26, 2023Posts31

Fuck off gray

Off your meds again?

 

[Aspergcel]

Isn't she dating Chad? Models have at least a few hundreds of orbiters, so they pretty much choose the best looking one (and NT) to be with.
But, if you are going to give it a shot, here is a tip: don't ask questions that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no". Be (or pretend to be) genuinely interested in her life. Instead of asking "are you a model (is water wet)?", tell her that she looks really good in her photos and ask how the process of taking them is.

If i tell her that she looks good, won’t she think that im lusting for her?

 

[Lonelyus]

Off your meds again?

I dont require them you faggot!

 

[Antifem Lord]

Unfortunately she has her eye on a Chad from her modeling agency but I'm sure you will find someone sweaty

 

[$carecrow]

I dont require them you faggot!

Your emotional outburst is telling me otherwise.

 

[Antifem Lord]

I could tell she wasn’t interested.

 

[Lonelyus]

Your emotional outburst is telling me otherwise.

The worse an incel have it, The more he argues @Copedixius answered me this perfectly!

 

[Suicide Sheep]

If i tell her that she looks good, won’t she think that im lusting for her?

Not if you show interest in her hobby (taking these photos). When flirting, you have to show that you are interested in her looks and personality without being too crude so she doesn't know how much you really like her.
She needs to ask herself: "is he being polite and friendly or does he want to take me?".
If you never show any interest in her looks during your conversations, you will get friend zoned in best case scenario. On the other hand, if you talk about her sexual features, you will be labeled as a pervert.

Edit: I read the full post after seeing the other comments being pessimistic (I had just read the title and tl;dr section).
If you've already started the conversation and failed, you gave her a bad first impression (now she's biased against you). It's really unlikely for someone to recover from that, especially for an incel.
But, if you still feel like it is possible, try it. Better than staying silent wondering what ifs.

 

[$carecrow]

The worse an incel have it, The more he argues @Copedixius answered me this perfectly!

Cope. But keep talking. This joint hits different with you crying

 

[adharmi]

You're a masochist dude

 

[Aspergcel]

You're a masochist dude

Why

 

[adharmi]

Why

How many times you gonna waste your time and energy on your oneitis who clearly have no feelings for you and get your broken? I've read your post before. You're quite emotional and obsessive

But whatever man, do what you want

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

tldr; two years ago I was at the beach with my cousins and their parents. They had a female friend visiting from another state. This woman brought her daughter with her. I thought she was cute, but I was too scared to talk to her. After that day, I never saw her again because she went back to her city.

Two years later, I found her Instagram and messaged her. I’m taking it slowly this time. I’ve learned alot from my mistakes, especially after being rejected by my high school oneitis. The most important lesson I learned was probably to not double-text someone. However, the conversation didn’t really go anywhere and I could tell she wasn’t interested. I was always the one asking the questions. She only replied to be polite. She never asked anything back. So I stopped messaging her.

However, she just posted a photo on her Instagram story. A photo of her where she is modelling. I had no idea she was a model. But I’m not surprised. I want to start a new conversation with her by writing ’’are you a model?’’ to her.

What do you guys think? Or should I leave her alone?

It’s over, don’t even try with the same woman or it will be seen as harassment.