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Serious I’m going to see a therapist

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I met my therapist about a month ago. But we mostly talked about my autism. Next time I meet him, I’m going to talk about my 13 year old cousin because I need help to stop obsessing over her. Even though I have let go of her already and will not message her again, I still think about her often. I want my therapist to help me stop obsessing over her. Not just her, but any person that I become obsessed with. My obsessions have always lead to bad things. You guys remember my oneitis that I sang a love song for? I was obsessed with her too. If I was never obsessed with her, I would’ve never sang for her. And then my reputation wouldn’t have been ruined today. I have so much regret over the fact that I didn’t see a therapist when I was younger for my social anxiety problems. Yet I’m doing the exact same thing now: not going to a therapist as an adult despite needing one. My obsession with revenge is also what led to me committing the crime against my female classmate in high school. I need to stop my obsessions as soon as possible. Whatever it takes. Medication, therapy, anything. Imagine this. Imagine if I used my energy on something positive instead of being obsessed. Look at these bad events that occurred due to my obsessions. Firstly, the crime I committed against a female classmate in high school. She bullied me severely and I became obsessed with the idea of revenge. I wanted to ruin her life. Imagine if I had used all of that energy on improving my life instead. Secondly, my oneitis whom I sang for. Imagine if I had left her alone instead of chasing her and becoming obsessed with her. Then all of those bad events would’ve never happened. The fact that I was sending messages to my 13 year old cousin multiple times a week is a perfect example of an obsession. Imagine if I never messaged her in the first place. Then maybe she would’ve given me another chance. But no, I kept bugging her and now she hates me even more.

So in conclusion: I will see a therapist to get help for my obsessions.
 
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U should obsess over this instead:


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Is your therapist a foid or a man ?
 
Do you think it will help you?
 
It might help you. I went to a few sessions of this stuff and it can help with some stuff but it is not going to cure shit life syndrome.
 
GL. Worked pretty well for me. But if you throw everything at him right from the get go, he will be busy making sure you don't plan anything violent (for obvious reasons). So maybe take your time a bit. And prepare some things. Write down what you want to say in detail, so you don't say things you didn't mean or have to spend the entire time finding the right words.

Hope the therapist is capable of making things more bearable for you.
 
Started going to a counselor because I tried ending my life, but pussyed out, and my (((doctor))) made me go
 

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