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Venting I'm going to meet in real life a woman I met online

Chingaquedito

Chingaquedito

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She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
 
She's gonna use you for a date and ghost you
 
i genuinely hope she doesnt care (0.001% chance)
good luck bro
 
I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life
Can't get any better without leaving your comfort zone. Probably would stay away from here for a bit so you don't have your head full of blackpilled stuff and your heart filled with anger looking for an outlet. Wish you the best of luck
 
Best of luck. Update us and request that ban if needed
 
She's probably thinking you're a freak and that seeing you IRL is some kind of distraction and amusement for her.
Good luck though
 
It sounds like a meme but just be yourself and be relaxed, and if she's not into you that's fine. It is one of the possible outcomes
 
Good luck boyo.

Tell us how it goes
 
Have you seen her? Why wouldn't you exchange pics before meeting?
 
She's gonna bring her Chad boyfriend and they're both gonna laugh at you
"TeeHee you really thought I was interested in some ugly freak like you?"
 
Good luck + mogs me
 
See this as win-win. If she's genuine, you ascend. If she used/mocked you, that's one more good reason to be suicidal and to hate women.

Good luck boyo
 
Might be a troll be careful
 
i would still do it. nothing ever happens anyway, so on the off-chance that this could somehow work out, it's better than just rotting.
 
She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
You can do this man, just don’t be so hard on yourself and do your best. Keep you hygiene good, have cleans clothes on and try to make an effort on your appearance. Also, don’t be to self loathing when you meet her. Try having a positive outlook. I understand that it can be nerve wreaking but just focus on having fun! She obviously wants to meet you, it’s not a one sided thing. So be calm, be yourself and have fun!
 
She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
What does she look like? Can you describe her? Is it a hookup?
 
She's probably thinking you're a freak and that seeing you IRL is some kind of distraction and amusement for her.
Good luck though
This. Women have an alternative reason for everything.
 
could potentially be someone trying to waste your time considering yall havent seen each other online.
 
I hope she actually and genuinely likes you
 
Try it. There is nothing to lose either way
 
Did you arrange the date over the week?How did it go? Update please.
 
She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
Bro just go. That's already more than almost anyone here, who knows maybe you'll ascend. How do you get to that point btw? She just decided to meet you without seeing your face?
 
she decided to meet you without seeing your face? Good luck bro but be prepared for what will probably happen and it ain’t pretty
 
Are you totally sure you want to meet her?

You could lose your membership at this wonderful place.
 
Are you totally sure you want to meet her?

You could lose your membership at this wonderful place.
If he's chad, sure, but I've done similar action 2 weeks ago and its biggest achievement is she hasn't blocked me so far
 
Good luck, though don't get your hopes too high about this, are you sure she isn't some catfish trying to waste your time?
who knows but a chance to have a relationship i think anyone would take it.
 
She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
Just remember something chads doesn't needs "date", they go directly to the bed. Betabuxxers need to do the ritual of meeting and so.

All foids are pieces of shit and most likely she only wants a free meal... :feelsjuice:

However tell us how it went for you once you are done with the foid.
 
You have nothing to loose and should go on that date with this mindset.
Also, do not spend money on her on the first date.
It doesn't matter how desperate you are and or how hot she is.
You don't know her yet and you too owe her NOTHING.
Do not partake in inflating those hoes' opinions of themselves.

Other than that, I wish you that you luck.
 
She wants to see me in real life next week, i told her i'm ugly as fuck, i told her about my balding condition, and my physicial appearance in general (dark circles/ptosis and other shit)
she says she doesn't care, but I'm afraid of how she's going to dehumanize me. maybe she won't treat me the same way after that, I have thought about canceling it.
but my anxiety pushes me to do it, I don't want to stay in my room rotting without changing anything in my life, i don't want to be alone anymore :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal: :feelsUnreal:
See you here bro
 

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